7/6/2008 10:54:18 PM |
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pumpkin_star_25
Rock Falls, IL
age: 25
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Just found out that my sons dad was f**king around with someone at his work. Even though I'm not surprised, I am still heartbroken. Yes I still have feelings for him but wanted to date because I know there is someone better out there. People are going to tell me what I already know but sometimes it helps to hear it over and over again. I need it pounded in my head that I deserve better and he is scum. I just don't know how someone could look the person they are with in the face after betraying them!!! I'm so sad!! I keep picturing them together....makes me sick!!
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7/6/2008 10:56:31 PM |
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pumpkin_star_25
Rock Falls, IL
age: 25
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Sometimes I think it's easier to sweep betrayal under the rug. It's so hard to let go....
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7/6/2008 10:57:02 PM |
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superhero1976
Strafford, MO
age: 31
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im in the same situation exept mine moved hers in it is very devestating its ruines all trust you have in people im told that time heals all wounds good luck to you
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7/6/2008 10:57:11 PM |
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gritziam
Shallotte, NC
age: 34
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yep that does suck but a frying pan to his face might make you fell a lot better!!!
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7/6/2008 10:58:29 PM |
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pumpkin_star_25
Rock Falls, IL
age: 25
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im in the same situation exept mine moved hers in it is very devestating its ruines all trust you have in people im told that time heals all wounds good luck to you
Thanks so much! Yes it does but initially the pain feels like it will never go away!!
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7/6/2008 10:59:10 PM |
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pumpkin_star_25
Rock Falls, IL
age: 25
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I agree but he would probably press charges on me and then there goes my son and my career!
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7/6/2008 11:03:07 PM |
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gritziam
Shallotte, NC
age: 34
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I agree but he would probably press charges on me and then there goes my son and my career!
still might make you feel better hit and run girl hit and run lol.just kidding put some icey hot in his pants no sex for awhile lol
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7/6/2008 11:03:58 PM |
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pumpkin_star_25
Rock Falls, IL
age: 25
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Would love to chop his d*ck off and send it to the fat b*tch who he has been screwin!
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7/6/2008 11:05:17 PM |
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bjk123
Layton, UT
age: 51
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Sometimes I think it's easier to sweep betrayal under the rug. It's so hard to let go....
i think you'll find that each time you think about this you will have to tell yourself to let go again- probably 100's of times and along about 999 it will sink in,
JMO he's an ass, you deserve better, you must be calm because you have a child together and that is what is most important, venting helps- deep breathing helps
fantasize about chopping his d*ck off and how many ways you could do it!
[Edited 7/6/2008 11:07:00 PM]
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7/6/2008 11:09:42 PM |
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pumpkin_star_25
Rock Falls, IL
age: 25
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Sometimes I think it's easier to sweep betrayal under the rug. It's so hard to let go....
i think you'll find that each time you think about this you will have to tell yourself to let go again- probably 100's of times and along about 999 it will sink in,
JMO he's an ass, you deserve better, you must be calm because you have a child together and that is what is most important, venting helps- deep breathing helps
fantasize about chopping his d*ck off and how many ways you could do it!
thanks for the advice... I'm trying
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7/6/2008 11:10:08 PM |
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the_infamous1
Ridgeville, SC
age: 33
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this is for you and the other guy who said he's in the same situation .. JMO but if you were separated then there was no betrayal and if you weren't separated then by you looking for someone else before you cut him loose is just as bad .. now as far as the pain i can understand if you still have feelings for someone seeing them with another can be hard and time will help that ..
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7/6/2008 11:10:42 PM |
heartbroken even though it's over... |
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superhero1976
Strafford, MO
age: 31
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i whish i could find a extremely hot woman just to piss mine off and make her boyfriend jelous
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7/6/2008 11:14:23 PM |
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macaroni2
Maricopa, AZ
age: 55
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Hun..that is called playing games....now why would you stoop down to her level??..not worth it...just brush yourself off and go forward and don't look back..when you least expect it your new love will just drop right in.............( wink ) Sea
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7/6/2008 11:14:54 PM |
heartbroken even though it's over... |
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pumpkin_star_25
Rock Falls, IL
age: 25
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this is for you and the other guy who said he's in the same situation .. JMO but if you were separated then there was no betrayal and if you weren't separated then by you looking for someone else before you cut him loose is just as bad .. now as far as the pain i can understand if you still have feelings for someone seeing them with another can be hard and time will help that ..
I told him (after putting up with a bunch of bullshit) when he went to jail I was going to see other people. The cheating occurred when we were together....
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7/6/2008 11:15:29 PM |
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pumpkin_star_25
Rock Falls, IL
age: 25
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Hun..that is called playing games....now why would you stoop down to her level??..not worth it...just brush yourself off and go forward and don't look back..when you least expect it your new love will just drop right in.............( wink ) Sea
Thanks...in time I'm hoping I will realize that
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