| 7/7/2008 11:45:03 PM |
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ncrn99
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 22
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So, I'm kind hoping to get some answers from all over the spectrum here. Here's the scenerio.
The other night I told this girl that I've been friends with for about 4 months that I like her. At first she ignored it and changed subject, until she proceeded to tell me that she didn't want a relationship like two of our friends have. Which is fine and I knew this going into telling her because their relationship is great for them, but not my ideal relationship either.
Which is part of why I wish she would have let me saw more before it ended up raining on us. Then as we were driving home we had a small argument, which was weird because we had never argued about anything. We made up and a mutual friend has assured me that for now it's all good, but it's all just really FUBAR at this point.
 
So, if there is any ladies out there with some advice please send it, and if you need any more clearification I dont know what else to write but message me with your questions, thanks.
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| 7/8/2008 12:15:30 AM |
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808_sm
Honolulu, HI
age: 40
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I know you looking for female advice, but I putting in my two cents anyways. A arguement or heated debate is actually a good thing. It increases attraction. Women like a challenge. By arguing it show you not going to be passive, like most guy are when they like someone. Insiting an emotion is a good thing in starting an relationship. Humor is the better way to go, but a good heathly arguement is not far from the top.
You actually build up a repore with her. Now when talking with her remind her how you won the arguement in a joking way. Especially when there is a lull in conversation and when you just want to kick it with her...Tell her you bring over the wine and scrabble board and kick her butt again this time in a game of scrabble.
And don't tell her how you feel anymore...let her figure ways of trying to make you spill your guts. Play hard to get. The less you show her how you feel about her the more attracted she will become. This is why women you are not attracted too always give you 100% attention and the ones you are attracted to give you give you 0% attention. Because they know.
Well I gave you a rough plan to go by, maybe the women on this forum can give you a better one. But if they tell you to bring her flowers and write letters and poems an wait or something to happen or to walk away...I think a lot guys have done all of that, including myself and it doesn't work. The way I described worked a few times with me. To prefection.
[Edited 7/8/2008 12:18:46 AM]
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| 7/8/2008 12:21:59 AM |
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ncrn99
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 22
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Thanks, yeah, i did want mostly a female prospective but good advice is good advice, thanks again.
 
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| 7/8/2008 12:27:48 AM |
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rockchick76
Lewisville, TX
age: 31
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you most definetly got us females figured out...
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| 7/8/2008 12:32:00 AM |
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ncrn99
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 22
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I assume taliking to 808_sm, not me
Cause i dont have a clue
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| 7/8/2008 12:37:18 AM |
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808_sm
Honolulu, HI
age: 40
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo I Did't. I am learning to think out of the box and watch people who are successful in keeping relationships. They always seem to do things I never did, like debate a woman, tell her she is wrong, and my favorite, tell her we can be "friends", before she says that to me. I found out women hate that more then men.
But no...I haven't figure you all out.
[Edited 7/8/2008 12:37:46 AM]
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| 7/8/2008 1:22:48 AM |
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judit0606
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 51
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo I Did't. I am learning to think out of the box and watch people who are successful in keeping relationships. They always seem to do things I never did, like debate a woman, tell her she is wrong, and my favorite, tell her we can be "friends", before she says that to me. I found out women hate that more then men.
But no...I haven't figure you all out.
You've got a REAL good start at it, Darlin! Let's just put it that way...real good!
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