| 7/19/2008 10:53:32 AM |
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qu1nn
Denver, CO
age: 30
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Women seem to be on the defensive a lot these days. Go to the park, store or just about any where and they do not look like they are approachable. Perhaps its all the creeps out there that ruin it for the rest of us. So ladies, if you were at the park, could a guy come up to you? What about the store?
Is the only way we can try to connect with you is by putting up a missed connection on C.L. in hopes you read it?
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| 7/19/2008 6:19:39 PM |
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musicnympho6
Aurora, CO
age: 25
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your right its the creeps - they think if you smile at them it means come smack my a** and they look the same as the good guys (not that being smacked is always a bad thing, but i at least want a name first)
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| 7/19/2008 7:28:10 PM |
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snaaber
Greeley, CO
age: 43
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Some women are fine with being approached but it depends on your demeanor and attire. If you look like a bum who needs a good stiff....um...drink, then no. Just keep your eyes peeled for the women that have a conceil/carry. HAHA.  Ok...just kidding on that one. If you want to approach a woman, do it in a place where she feels safe...maybe a grocery store.
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| 7/23/2008 8:15:02 AM |
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rusmus
Longmont, CO
age: 38
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Dude, I know what you mean.It seems like women date guys that threat them like crap.I have start focusing more on my career instead of wasting my time dating.
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| 7/26/2008 9:27:04 PM |
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springhere
Denver, CO
age: 37
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If you think dating is a waste of time you should not do it. But why are you here then?
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| 7/28/2008 2:56:38 PM |
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mort06
Erie, CO
age: 50
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Women seem to be on the defensive a lot these days. Go to the park, store or just about any where and they do not look like they are approachable. Perhaps its all the creeps out there that ruin it for the rest of us. So ladies, if you were at the park, could a guy come up to you? What about the store?
Is the only way we can try to connect with you is by putting up a missed connection on C.L.
in hopes you read it?
That is the best time to be approached. I have seen alot of interesting guys at the store, we make eye contact and it goes nowhere. Its not a bar, its a far better social environment and genuine because more than likely -you are not going to wake up in the morning and regret it. I SAY....go for it guys!
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| 7/28/2008 6:00:32 PM |
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qu1nn
Denver, CO
age: 30
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Hey mort06, when do you go to the store and I will try it our 
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| 7/31/2008 5:21:04 PM |
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durangogirl77
Durango, CO
age: 31
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I have problem with being approach at the store. I ussually have my kid with me. The park would be the same. The best place that I find guys at are the mountains. There are so many hiking trails. I always come across lot of people men and women. The gym is a good place too.
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| 8/6/2008 12:58:01 AM |
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allaloan
Cortez, CO
age: 61
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I have herd that grocery stores is a good place to meet someone,but I can't see that.
Maybe I look unapproachable,i don't know. I've never approached anyone in any store.I'm
there to spend my money. i never looked at women as merchandise.
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| 8/6/2008 1:05:38 AM |
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berber1399
Pueblo, CO
age: 21
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Women seem to be on the defensive a lot these days. Go to the park, store or just about any where and they do not look like they are approachable. Perhaps its all the creeps out there that ruin it for the rest of us. So ladies, if you were at the park, could a guy come up to you? What about the store?
Is the only way we can try to connect with you is by putting up a missed connection on C.L. in hopes you read it?
oh yeah, definitly.. but what i do not like and i will literally LOL at a guy is when he comes up to me with a BS pickup line. Its just not cool. Why would I take someone seriously when he obviously cant take me seriously enough to straight up say "hey my name is ____ and you look great. If your single, i would love to take you out to dinner." but it seems more and more guys feel like they need cheesy things to say to a girl to make her want the date
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| 8/15/2008 7:23:24 AM |
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hatshepsut
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 44
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 I don't mind being approached at all as long as it's in a respectful manner
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| 8/20/2008 5:27:31 AM |
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purrrtygurl
Cheyenne, WY
age: 28
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I am open to being approached just about anywhere, but it seems that some fellows chicken out. Why have a 10 minute conversation with someone, showing your intrest all the while, and then not ask for a name and a number? I get that alot, but as a woman, even in this age of empowerment, I'm not going to ask for that, especially if you've already turned to walk away. Or better yet, instead of making women feel like were being put on the spot by asking for that info (in those rare ocassions) how about men offer their phone #'s to us?
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| 8/20/2008 10:42:29 AM |
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qu1nn
Denver, CO
age: 30
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Sure me could offer up the number, but most women still think the "the guy should call." Nothing wrong with that, but I think they way women come off as guarded makes guys unsure if they should even bother asking for a number. Quick story for all of ya... the 3 people that might read this thread...
2 years ago I was out to dinner with 2 male friends. 1 had a girlfriend and would never do anything, he is the nicest guy on the planet! The other guy was a Mormon... not that there is anything wrong with that. We went out to Dave and Busters for a guys night out, this is what I would refer to as my best day. We are sitting a a large booth, laughing harder then I have ever laughed in my life! Mormon jokes are flying, it was great. I saw a woman sitting alone ordering dinner, and I asked our server to get the scoop on her, the server was a friend of the Mormon kid. She comes back and says that her friend had to work and could not make it. I told the server I was going to buy her dinner, the server went over and told her this, they looked up at our table and she had a big smile. The server left the table and the girl came up to join us. She sat with us and we all talked and laughed, it was great. They kept asking me if I was going to get her number and try to take her out, again I guess it would be. No. The night was perfect as it happened, had I asked and gotten the ole' I have a BF or I am a lesbian comeback, that would have sucked, so I opted for leaving the perfect night perfect! So while you can approach women in just about any setting, sometimes it just does not feel right...
What the hell was I thinking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 8/20/2008 11:18:40 AM |
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newtosprings
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 47
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I wouldn't mind it, to me it shows the guy has a sense of adventure in him.
I find it kind of romantic...
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| 8/29/2008 6:23:57 AM |
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taytice
Aurora, CO
age: 39
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I think a woman has to be a bit guarded at times. Who knows what the mans intentions are
sex casual talk or I want to get to know you. I think it starts with talking and if you make them feel comfortable and engage them then maybe it can proceed if not
It was a pleasure talking with you.
Oh and lose the pickup lines I think the best pickup line is hi how are you?
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