| 8/21/2007 8:33:42 AM |
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collegevirgn
Pleasant Grove, UT
age: 24
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Hi,
I have a question for you all. I am a college guy, still a virgin, because I was raised to believe in not having sex till you are married. Do you agree with that? I get so horny sometimes, and I want to cyber or have phone sex...i've never really seen much porn, cuz i grew up in utah. Do you think I should continue to get off myself and still wait for the real thing or what? You guys give me your best advice....
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| 8/21/2007 10:43:16 AM |
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angelkissedu
Martinsburg, WV
age: 48
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If you were brought up with such strong beliefs, maybe you should wait, if you've waited this long whats a little longer gonna be, I think its a great thing, I hope you are able to find love, and take it from there.......Don't look for perfection its not out there, look for compassion and compatiable......
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| 8/21/2007 1:54:16 PM |
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dreama777
Galivants Ferry, SC
age: 47
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everything angel said, makes sense. how r ya angel? catch ya later.
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| 8/21/2007 1:58:00 PM |
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mishkabacci
Duncansville, PA
age: 42
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man i feel for you tough decision...i held off until i was 12 and boy! whew! that was tough...and to make sure that it wasn't a dream had to tap it again...but yeah its all in the will power...
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| 8/21/2007 1:58:18 PM |
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sincerity
Woodbridge, NJ
age: 47
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I think go with what your innerself tells you. If because of how you were raised tell you wait, then wait if you feel you can't and need to fullfil your urge then do that. Trust yourself and your judgement. We are none perfect and we can only try to do what is right.
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| 8/21/2007 1:59:46 PM |
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striker29527
London, KY
age: 45
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with all the diseases and such, plus the fact you've held lnto your values this long,
WAIT LONGER!!!! (was that loud enough or too loud?)
but if you can't hold out till the rings go on the fingers, make sure it is with someone you can trust and for gods sake, use condoms!!!!!
cannot stress that one enough.
just my opinion guy. and I lost mine at 13 (my birthday present)
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| 8/21/2007 2:00:20 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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w/e your heart desires..just don't let us corrupt you 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 8/21/2007 2:02:42 PM |
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striker29527
London, KY
age: 45
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knew I forgot something in my posting, thanks peaches!! (((((hugs)))))
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| 8/21/2007 2:11:48 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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bro u gotta get laid before u get married . that way u know what ur doing on your honeymood.. i respect your belives, but if u dont know ur wife intimently, how do you know she is the one for u . u need to be sexually compatible 4 ur relationship to last. jmo.. trust me ita all real nice at first but things can go downhill real fast...i recomend that u throw all that mormen shit out the door and have some sex and some fun
[Edited 8/21/2007 2:29:06 PM]
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| 8/21/2007 2:21:10 PM |
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stormy_nights
Weston, OR
age: 40
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Well, if you find a virgin to get married to than you won't have to worry about what soul just said.
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| 8/21/2007 2:27:47 PM |
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collegevirgn
Pleasant Grove, UT
age: 24
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Thanks for the advice...i had a girl ask me if i wanted some nude pics of her to look at while i, well, you know, but i said no. I haven't looked at that stuff before, and then looking back, i wanted to, and when I spoke to her again she said no. What should I do about that?
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| 8/21/2007 2:32:09 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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what would your wife think about those naked cyber pics? i mean r u listing to ur self? you dont want to have sex with a chick before marriage, but you'll, whack ur pud to a nudy pic....you might as well stick ur d*ck in a warm, tasty vagina..dont you think?
get sum leg bro!
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| 8/21/2007 2:36:16 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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hey virgin! i got a secret 4 you bro ...if you ejaculated u r not a male virgin.in my book.so you might as well get laid.. i mean ,what does the book of mormen say about masterbation? does it say its ok ? i think not .
[Edited 8/21/2007 2:36:46 PM]
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| 8/21/2007 2:38:03 PM |
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striker29527
London, KY
age: 45
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stick to your guns (so to speak) and quit second guessing yourself. if your gut says "NO" then there is your answer.
past is past. if it turned out you were wrong in the past, then learn from it
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| 8/21/2007 2:40:20 PM |
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sami2
Eureka, CA
age: 19
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i think that that is completely your choice. if you were raised that way and you have held out this long why not just wait. i was also raised that way. i know the feeling. although i broke it and had sex. cant lie i am happy i didnt wait any more cause sex is great.
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