8/21/2007 4:01:21 PM |
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lourawls
Tucson, AZ
age: 46
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I agree yanisal,
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8/21/2007 4:02:00 PM |
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lourawls
Tucson, AZ
age: 46
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sex site? oops lol
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8/21/2007 4:13:29 PM |
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sami2
Eureka, CA
age: 19
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thanks for agreeing with me soul
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8/21/2007 4:14:55 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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thank you 4 being a woman that likes sex and doesnt hide it , just to be politicaly correct
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8/21/2007 4:19:30 PM |
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gman1967
Ypsilanti, MI
age: 40
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Hi There, I think you should do what you feel comfortable doing!
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8/21/2007 4:22:15 PM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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Dude! This ain't utah! The ideas we were raised with are well ment and generally impractical if not unattainable.........still waiting for that "Peace on Earth and Good will towards men" bullshit...but, I don't think it is gonna happen. You are only young once my man. Now is a time in your life to form experiences to weigh what you do and do not want in your love life. Look around............very few people get lucky enough to get it magically right off the bat! Get out there and live your life....be true to you...USE PROTECTION and common sense........best of luck brother!
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8/21/2007 4:28:12 PM |
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joey_07
Toledo, OH
age: 33
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I think u should get laid as much as u can shit dude your in college. think about!! U will only be in college once have fun with it.
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8/21/2007 4:34:51 PM |
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lovinglife437
Meadville, PA
age: 44
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I think if you felt comfortable with it, you wouldn't be here asking the question. It doesn't matter what any of us say, you've gotta do what's right within your heart. I think when you meet the girl that it feels right with, you will follow your heart. Doing it before that time is a regret you can't take back. Be sure you're ready.
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8/21/2007 4:40:01 PM |
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53lady
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53
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Okay collegevirgin...here comes a true story. I waited...Jan 1972, I met and kept going out with my first real boyfriend. I was also a virgin and so was he. On prom night May 12, 1972, 5 days before my 18th birthday, we finally made love...sorta...with my underwear on...I know, I know...should have bought condoms. We were so in love, etc... We got married June 13, 1972. Sex was NOT the problem...we were young...I thought very happy...I know we were. We never argued, never a cross word. After we got married he went into the Army, because I got pregnant. Well, I lost her, but that's another story.
We went to Germany, and in Feb 1974 I had my daughter Laura, now 33, in an Army hospital in Frankfurt, Germany. We were ecstatatic and still very much in love. Problem...he was a gunner on a tank, and was off to play war...for 3 months at a time. I hated being alone with a new baby, but I still loved him...blah, blah, blah The problem is..he never really listened to me and what I needed to feel good about being married with a baby and being alone all the time. Anyway...if you find someone you really love, it's okay to wait. Do ALOT of talking first about what each of you wants out of life! It was wonderful that each of us were the others first. It was VERY special. I wouldn't trade that to this day!
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8/21/2007 5:08:13 PM |
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joebobox
Kansas City, MO
age: 57
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Hey pal. I was gonna wait too! In my day there was no effective birth control. The old old days. My friend Mike said "Never scru a girl u would'nt marry". Sage advice. When you come across the right girl you won't be able to stop yourself! Just don't do it just for sex-----that comes too often!! Get to know her & like her first! That can take 10 minutes or ten days! My other bud Dean said if she don't do it by the third date she don't like you. In retrospect after many experiences they were both sooo right! Good luck & I hope this helps you... Joe
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8/21/2007 5:10:06 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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wow, Hi new ppl glad your here!
xoxoPeaches.
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8/22/2007 7:41:43 AM |
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collegevirgn
Pleasant Grove, UT
age: 24
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Hi,
Thank you all for your advice, and I think you have me convinced to stick to my beliefs and do what I feel in my heart to be right, to wait for the woman I marry. Thanks for your advice. Hope you all are truly happy.
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8/22/2007 8:04:26 AM |
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country_girl_89
Gainesville, TX
age: 18
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Hey College, I know how hard the temptation is. I too have been raised to wait till I married to have sex. I know how hard it gets. And no I'm not morman, it is just the way i have been raised. I am proud that I am still a virgin. It has been one of the hardest things in my life to do.lol At least it has been so far. And honestly, Not many people have saved them selves for marriage. Which is ok, it is a personal choice. But I am proud to be one of the few who is waiting. ttyl-- let me know what you think
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8/22/2007 8:16:32 AM |
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country_girl_89
Gainesville, TX
age: 18
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It is if you have waited. It isn't easy, and it is so easy to slip.
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8/26/2007 7:37:03 AM |
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mamiyafan
Dallas, OR
age: 55
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You have to be able to live with yourself, so your decision is what counts. What is best for you may, or may not, be best for someone else. Why do you need peer approval for everything you do...or consider doing?
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