| 7/23/2008 3:35:17 PM |
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mem1
Lansdowne, PA
age: 37
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I've always been in long relationships, 2-3years, and was not dating at all for 3 years straight. I think I'm nieve and fall in love too easily.
At what point should I have ended the relationship in this situation:
1.) romantically, all he wanted was a blow job and gave nothing in return
2.) after nearly a year he didn't introduce you to his friends or family, or made you feel ignored in public.
3.) after just moving in with you, he complained about money and didn't help pay any of the bills for over a year.
4.) he spent hours everyday looking at internet porn
5.) he yells at you when you tell him looking at porn hurts your feelings
6.) after 2 years of asking him to change his night shift to day, he did nothing.
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| 7/23/2008 3:37:45 PM |
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bblee
Salisbury, NC
age: 47
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Sad! I wish you had never met him! You are such a pretty girl and can get better I am sure!
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| 7/23/2008 3:38:37 PM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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Should have left his ass right after hello.
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| 7/23/2008 3:44:42 PM |
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mskitty57
Tucson, AZ
age: 58
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Being single is not that bad. Being with someone like that is. People like that will tear you down and lower your self esteem.
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| 7/23/2008 3:50:57 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 39
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You should have ended it with one honey girl.
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| 7/23/2008 4:11:04 PM |
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mowry
Ashland, PA
age: 39
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jmo but you should have ended it sooner than you did for any of the reasons that you posted
but at least you did end it and can now look for a good person to be with. 
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| 7/23/2008 4:25:39 PM |
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1st_breath
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50
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You should have ended it with one honey girl.
not introducing you to friends and family
selfish in sex
cheap cheap L ser
porn addict
yelling
I can't stand it..
He would have been gone the first year or less. I would have never let the poor bastard move in.
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| 7/23/2008 4:28:36 PM |
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lobo_corazon
Kingston, ON
age: 39
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Sounds like it was a good learning experience, if a painful one.
Next time, hopefully you will know to have more respect for yourself than to put up with that bs!
Good luck... 
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| 7/23/2008 4:44:57 PM |
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clubkid66
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41
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Not after that madness. How could you deal with that crap? I am not getting what I want out of a relationship and I'm trying to make you happy then it would not make 2 months let alone 2 years.
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| 7/23/2008 4:48:07 PM |
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lobo_corazon
Kingston, ON
age: 39
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Not after that madness. How could you deal with that crap? I am not getting what I want out of a relationship and I'm trying to make you happy then it would not make 2 months let alone 2 years.
Yup. First sign of "YOU HAVE TO CHOOSE BETWEEN YOUR FAMILY AND ME!" it's "OK! Oh and don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out!"
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| 7/23/2008 4:48:36 PM |
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italianlady05
Omaha, NE
age: 53
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holy sheeet hun ! Why did you put up with all that??? Honestly, it's not that bad being alone...boring sometimes but hell...to put up with all that??
I'm glad you're out of this relationship if that's even what you can call it ! Sounds more like living in hell to me !
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| 7/23/2008 4:54:23 PM |
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missedmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
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i just find that hard to believe, i'm sorry, i wouldn't have lasted a month...please take better care of yourself in the future...
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| 7/25/2008 2:37:49 AM |
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mem1
Lansdowne, PA
age: 37
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Thank you for your advise, it helped a lot! After two months apart now, I am starting to regain my sanity and self respect. I'm looking forward to the future.
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| 7/25/2008 2:39:22 AM |
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drumrman
Belmont, MA
age: 43 online now!
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mem, best of luck. u deserve better than the way he treated u.
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| 7/25/2008 3:19:31 AM |
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nightengale1958
Bonifay, FL
age: 49
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Right away, but that's my answer after being in a less than fulfilling relationship myself. It's better to be alone than treated like you don't matter. Do things now to boost the love of yourself and your self-esteem will follow. You have alot going on with you. Good luck.
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