7/24/2008 8:11:01 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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fredricko
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 49
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when women start to use sex as a way to get what they want when in a relationship(such as you didnt do this or you did that so now Im angry, so now no sex for you) does that put a stain on the relationship and take some of the meaning away from making love and is it a way of control
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7/24/2008 8:13:13 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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alicekathleen
Fresno, CA
age: 63
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Hi, cannot say I have ever refused sex with my partner, if he really wants/needs it. Wish I could say the same for
him! (never go to bed angry!)
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7/24/2008 8:13:19 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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I dont have a headache  and I dont use sex as a means of control    That is dirty fighting...    
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7/24/2008 8:13:45 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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becky38socalif
Joshua Tree, CA
age: 38
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love making is an emotional thing for many women .....if our emotions are all out of wack ....then chances are we are not gonna be in the "mood" ..i dont think it all about using it as a weapon ......jmo ......
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7/24/2008 8:19:35 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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jessicajames17
Foley, MN
age: 21
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i really do have a headache had it all day....can't say i have ever done what your mentioning...i dont think id be able to refuse haha
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7/24/2008 8:41:59 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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kittyj77
College Station, TX
age: 29
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No, I can't say I've ever deprived my ex from my p*ssycat. If anything, the pain in his head went away .
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7/24/2008 9:55:16 PM |
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prednisonegirl
Sioux City, IA
age: 46
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I would have to say a definite yes to all three of your points (control, puts a strain on the relationship, and takes away from the meaning of making love). What's really horrible is that I have on occasion resorted to those tactics..and it can and will ruin the relationship. What I have found, is if the relationship is established on a solid mutual respect and friendship foundation, then these controlling matters don't happen..the couple is able to resolve the issue at hand and then procede with living. It's when you have a couple where neither are willing to be team players..that's when the control takes place. JMO...I am so glad I am beyond those games now!
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7/25/2008 11:34:39 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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1st_breath
Saint Louis, MO
age: 50
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Hey! What if I did something to piss him off and he said NO!!?
I don't play the games..making him do without is my own loss..
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7/25/2008 11:43:32 PM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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Women who use withholding sex as a means of control are retarded. It may work a time or two, but no one likes being blackmailed, and it will invariably backfire eventually.
Besides, I've always found that if I need to persuade my man of something, there is one specific occasion that is the PERFECT time to ask. :o)
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7/26/2008 6:58:25 AM |
I have a headache tonight |
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pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50 online now!
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Actually a good orgasm is the PERFECT CURE for a headache so throw that excuse out the window.
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7/26/2008 7:53:30 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 42
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Coercion and mind games. Just another form of blackmail and manipulation people use on each other. Two can play at that game and rarely ever gets the results you intend when you use it time and time again.
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7/26/2008 8:13:44 AM |
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angiecoleman
San Diego, CA
age: 26
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when women start to use sex as a way to get what they want when in a relationship(such as you didnt do this or you did that so now Im angry, so now no sex for you) does that put a stain on the relationship and take some of the meaning away from making love and is it a way of control
Haven't ever picked a partner like that who plays games. If I saw I had someone like that I'd be out of the relationship faster than than speedy gonzolez can say ANDELEA ANDELEA !
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7/26/2008 8:24:29 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 47
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I've known people who have used sex as a tool AND a weapon...it's not pretty, but both sexes do it.
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7/26/2008 8:26:43 PM |
I have a headache tonight |
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asl_65
Frederick, MD
age: 42
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Actually a good orgasm is the PERFECT CURE for a headache so throw that excuse out the window.
not true......only for a stress headache but not one due to high blood pressure or dehydration
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