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7/29/2008 1:02:36 PM	Why do women post face shot only?
wileyguy Wilkes Barre, PA age: 37	Quote from zeanah: Sorry about the "you" as it was not meant to you personally...."you was meant to anyone and everyone....I apologize. "Z" will never be to prideful to say " I am sorry" you're starting to talk {write} like he does
7/29/2008 1:14:24 PM	Why do women post face shot only?
zeanah Clarion, PA age: 49	Wileyyyyyyyyyyy Z is always just herself. Maybe it shows compatiblity? Hmmmmmmmmmm...I wonder????...hehehehe Maybe HE is writing like I do! "Z" hugs Wiley, then kicks his ass!
7/29/2008 5:59:58 PM	Why do women post face shot only?
reall_bored Las Vegas, NV age: 30	Quote from ice911: Quote from reall_bored: I wasnt sure if I should post or not because I AM a BIG GIRL and I wasnt sure if I was up for being bashed for it. But I do need to stand up for what I believe in. I understand why some women feel the need to not put up full body photos. Its hard being a big woman and to be judged by others. There are some people out there that just dont care about how they look and then there are some that dont have a choice in being large. Now to some that will sound like a crock of shit but its true. I was a size 4-6 my whole life, even after having kids then I got cancer in my Thyroids and gained a hellava lot of weight. I tried dieting, going to the gym 4-5 times a week, walking, everything and nothing seemed to help. I have finally found out how to control my weight and I am starting to loose it all. But my point is, I am still the same person that I was when I was a size 4. I was scared to put full body shots on here but I did for the fear actually starting to like someone and them turning their head to me once they saw that I was overweight. I wanted to put it all out there so that their wasnt any surprises. But that doesnt mean that every woman feels the same way. Its really hard to meet people when you are overweight, people treat you differently. I know this, I have been on both sides of the scale. So before you criticize someone for their not putting up full body pics just know that its much more then that. Just because I am overweight does not mean that I am not a great woman, and it doesnt mean that I wont ever meet someone just as great. My exhusband is now 22 (he was 19 when we got together, I was 27) and he is a very gorgeous man, I was shocked myself that he was interested in me. All of his ex's were skinny and gorgeous. He saw me for me, and he didnt judge me for my weight. Now the guy that started this topic, you might want to be careful because weight is unpredictable with some. You may meet a gorgeous woman who weighs 100 lbs. and after you fall in love she might gain weight. re you going to leave her if she gains weight? I am sorry for you medical condition and I wish u the best,and I hope things look well,but please understand that my points was not that I dislike large people but to simply show a picture of what you look like up close and from far. I understand that we all have different choices and I am fine with that but if you are here on this site or any other and you post a facial only pic .............a guy might respond thinking u might look better but here u both might be wasting each others time and fooling each other and when in reallity he might not feel the attraction. So why waste your time..................so I start to think when u were a size 4 or 6 did u really give the big guys an unatractive guys a real chance or did u feel u could do better? No disrespect and I thank u for your reply......but to your answer regarding (You may meet a gorgeous woman who weighs 100 lbs. and after you fall in love she might gain weight. re you going to leave her if she gains weight?) I was married once and when I met her she was 120lbs ......the I got married and in 3 years she gain maybe 50lbs....now she was 170lbs I still loved her any how , the change happenend so slowly tha i dint see it, but I am sure if she got 200...250 lbs for no medical reason and it was do to eating and lazyness I would leave her. sorry but i am being honest.....I always try to stay lookink as best as possible for my woman and I would only think it would be fair for her to do the same. So in your case I feel sempathy and understanding. I totally understand where you are coming from and I agree with you about being suprised. I myself as a big woman dont want to see disappointment in a mans face that I am attracted to when he sees that I am not what he thought I was and thats why I dont hide anything and thats why I put up pics with no make-up on, etc... I think it hurts more if you hide it now and the disappointment sets in later rather then be upfront and honest now. I realize it looked like I was directing everything towards you but I wasnt. The question was directed to you but the rest was just in general to the few people that were making fat comments on here beause of the no full body pics. To awnser your question about when I was a size 4-6 and not giving big guys a chance.... I cant say I have never judged a book by its cover, but I can honestly say that I have never thrown a book away because of its cover. Meaning, even if I am not attracted to someone upon first meeting I dont just shine them on. I was dating a guy one time that everyone talked crap to me about. He was seriously under weight and he was not by any means arm candy. Him and I started out as friends and one day it turned into more. I didnt see him the same as everyone else did. I saw a man that treated me like I was worth something, a man that looked deep into my soul everytime he looked into my eyes, I saw a man that loved me more everyday for all my flaws and imperfections, he loved me for me. And when you find someone like that their looks just change to you and theres nothing you can do about it. I totally understand where you are coming from with the being lazy and not wanting to do anything because who wants to be with someone that doesnt care about them selves, not even I do. You have to love yourself in order to love someone else.
7/30/2008 12:08:44 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
iamworthknowing Appleton, WI age: 46	I think it is because she might be trying to hide something. Afraid she is not perfect enough. Society has led the world on a chase for their idea of the perfect female, and we don't see ourselves as meeting that criteria of perfect.
7/30/2008 5:58:42 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
wildwoman78 Lakeside, CA age: 30	Not all of us do. I want people to know what I look like before we meet because, although true beauty is within a person, I don't want people to be surprised by my appearance. That is why I post full body photos and they are all recent photos (excluding photos specifically labeled as old Glamour Shots). If women have a body that we are not embarassed by, if we are not shy and if we want a man to see what is out there waiting for a true gentleman , then most of us post as many full body shots as we can. It shows men that they do not have to worry "How much does this girl really weigh" and so on. Hell; sometimes we even post photos of ourselves in a bikini. [Edited 7/30/2008 6:04:21 AM]
7/30/2008 6:36:27 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
ladygoldenhair Valrico, FL age: 52	Quote from ladyeden: Many women don't even like posting a head shot with all the wankers out in cyber land. Next ya'll will be btching cause we're hiding our lard asses inside of clothes instead of doing a full nude and spread shot so you can see "what you're getting". For some, it's still about people first, not Burger King where you order it your way off the menu and snag it without even getting out of the car. If body type, race, age, what ever is on your "must have" list then just post it. If someone says they want slender, I'm not and I bypass quickly (muttering another shallow SOB looking for arm candy). They have unflattering names for those that want to see your bank book balance before they'll give you the time of day. Expecting to see all a woman's "goods" to determine if she meets your physical standards before you even say hello is any different how? If it's important to you, ask for a picture or cam before you decide to meet, take a pass or take your chances. Better yet just assume they/we are HUGE/FUGLY and keep going til you find someone that also feels it's important enough to throw the pics out there. The idea that any woman with a "hot/good" body should want to show it off and display it is hustler mentality. Hell, when I was a young hottie I'd have given my left boob to have an eye to eye conversation. Didn't "dig" being judged on physical attributes then anymore than I care for it now. I find it distasteful, offensive and shallow. So here's a clue. Those that do not care to post a full body shot (or even a head shot) very likely have a different set of values and priorities. They don't wanna. Not everyone feels compelled to display themselves, catering to every Tom, Dck and Harry's visual "needs" to shop the meat bag and rarely, if ever bothering to actually read the profile. Thank you lady eden, my sentiments exactly. When I was younger I would have given my right --- to have a guy talk to my face for a change. Now I am older, wiser and yes, have a few extra pounds. I am not fat but very curvy and I never lack for a date when I want one, but i look for quality in a man. Not some of the bozos commenting on here. If you want a Barbie or arm candy go ahead but you will be right back on here posting how women are horrible and treat you like crap. Until you look for a real woman who may be thin, average, chubby or even fat, with a real soul and love in her heart you will never be happy.
7/30/2008 6:39:10 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
ladygoldenhair Valrico, FL age: 52	Quote from reall_bored: I wasnt sure if I should post or not because I AM a BIG GIRL and I wasnt sure if I was up for being bashed for it. But I do need to stand up for what I believe in. I understand why some women feel the need to not put up full body photos. Its hard being a big woman and to be judged by others. There are some people out there that just dont care about how they look and then there are some that dont have a choice in being large. Now to some that will sound like a crock of shit but its true. I was a size 4-6 my whole life, even after having kids then I got cancer in my Thyroids and gained a hellava lot of weight. I tried dieting, going to the gym 4-5 times a week, walking, everything and nothing seemed to help. I have finally found out how to control my weight and I am starting to loose it all. But my point is, I am still the same person that I was when I was a size 4. I was scared to put full body shots on here but I did for the fear actually starting to like someone and them turning their head to me once they saw that I was overweight. I wanted to put it all out there so that their wasnt any surprises. But that doesnt mean that every woman feels the same way. Its really hard to meet people when you are overweight, people treat you differently. I know this, I have been on both sides of the scale. So before you criticize someone for their not putting up full body pics just know that its much more then that. Just because I am overweight does not mean that I am not a great woman, and it doesnt mean that I wont ever meet someone just as great. My exhusband is now 22 (he was 19 when we got together, I was 27) and he is a very gorgeous man, I was shocked myself that he was interested in me. All of his ex's were skinny and gorgeous. He saw me for me, and he didnt judge me for my weight. Now the guy that started this topic, you might want to be careful because weight is unpredictable with some. You may meet a gorgeous woman who weighs 100 lbs. and after you fall in love she might gain weight. re you going to leave her if she gains weight? Hi real-bored...you are fabulous, brave and beautiful. I am so happy you have found a man who loves you for the person you are.
7/30/2008 6:47:06 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
betterdazes Swartz Creek, MI age: 47 online now!	Quote from baltimorebob: Three Letters FAT and sometimes Lazy Well at least you can see my face, I have no idea what you really look like. You may have a thin body but you could be butt ugly for all I know.... Besides, I would rather see a face than a Harley
7/30/2008 6:48:08 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
fallnstar Miami, FL age: 48	Is this good enough ?
7/30/2008 7:48:10 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
willowgrove1 Cincinnati, OH age: 50	More than likely for the same reasons men do. I do not have any concerns with face shots so as long as the pic is not 5 years old like some I have met. Now that is a set back and not very honest.
7/30/2008 9:12:13 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
adnerb63 Heber Springs, AR age: 45	Maybe it is because we like to believe that maybe - just MAYBE.....there is a guy who wants to know who we are as a person, rather than just what we look like! Women are definitely more complex than just physical appearances. But thanks to your post, I added a full pic of my overweight self (currently pending approval)!!
7/30/2008 10:37:29 AM	Why do women post face shot only?
reall_bored Las Vegas, NV age: 30	Quote from ladygoldenhair: Quote from reall_bored: I wasnt sure if I should post or not because I AM a BIG GIRL and I wasnt sure if I was up for being bashed for it. But I do need to stand up for what I believe in. I understand why some women feel the need to not put up full body photos. Its hard being a big woman and to be judged by others. There are some people out there that just dont care about how they look and then there are some that dont have a choice in being large. Now to some that will sound like a crock of shit but its true. I was a size 4-6 my whole life, even after having kids then I got cancer in my Thyroids and gained a hellava lot of weight. I tried dieting, going to the gym 4-5 times a week, walking, everything and nothing seemed to help. I have finally found out how to control my weight and I am starting to loose it all. But my point is, I am still the same person that I was when I was a size 4. I was scared to put full body shots on here but I did for the fear actually starting to like someone and them turning their head to me once they saw that I was overweight. I wanted to put it all out there so that their wasnt any surprises. But that doesnt mean that every woman feels the same way. Its really hard to meet people when you are overweight, people treat you differently. I know this, I have been on both sides of the scale. So before you criticize someone for their not putting up full body pics just know that its much more then that. Just because I am overweight does not mean that I am not a great woman, and it doesnt mean that I wont ever meet someone just as great. My exhusband is now 22 (he was 19 when we got together, I was 27) and he is a very gorgeous man, I was shocked myself that he was interested in me. All of his ex's were skinny and gorgeous. He saw me for me, and he didnt judge me for my weight. Now the guy that started this topic, you might want to be careful because weight is unpredictable with some. You may meet a gorgeous woman who weighs 100 lbs. and after you fall in love she might gain weight. re you going to leave her if she gains weight? Hi real-bored...you are fabulous, brave and beautiful. I am so happy you have found a man who loves you for the person you are. awww thank you hun, you to are fabulous. I did find that man but we went in our seperate directions. We grew apart and we wanted each other to be happy. It didnt end bad though and we still love each other just not in love with each other ya know.
7/30/2008 4:36:33 PM	Why do women post face shot only?
angiecoleman San Diego, CA age: 26	Quote from adnerb63: Maybe it is because we like to believe that maybe - just MAYBE.....there is a guy who wants to know who we are as a person, rather than just what we look like! (currently pending approval)!! not on this planet
7/30/2008 4:39:45 PM	Why do women post face shot only?
pink_rose Rockland, MA age: 29	I only have one body shot and its me dressed as pennywise and I tried to put it up and they wont post it. So that is my story.
7/30/2008 6:59:53 PM	Why do women post face shot only?
wendy001 Manchester, CT age: 36	I dont have any body shots cause i dont have the camera it was my sis in law and she took them. I had them taken even before i came on here and well were not talking so i cant get anymore pics. My daughter had a camera but let her friend borrow it and well we all know thats gone! Ill get some eventually.

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