| 8/10/2008 9:12:15 PM |
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mellymel1984
New Castle, DE
age: 24
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when they find out that a women has children? im a single mom of a beautiful lil girl and everytime i tell them i have a daughter they stop talking to me or just ignore me why do they do that any one help
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| 8/10/2008 9:22:41 PM |
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jajasun
Denton, TX
age: 42 online now!
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It's really scary for some guys , My last girlfriend had 2 kids and we were together for about a year.Her kids are just entering the teenage years and I couldn't got through that again since I already raised my own son and that was tough enough.
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| 8/10/2008 9:24:54 PM |
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speedshadow9
San Diego, CA
age: 20
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i know that some girls look for just more than a bf when they have kids i know it kinda scares me because its more than just going out with that girl you know
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| 8/10/2008 9:27:54 PM |
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jajasun
Denton, TX
age: 42 online now!
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Yep, it's a package deal.
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| 8/10/2008 9:29:34 PM |
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tigersgrowl
Roanoke, VA
age: 28
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I can tell you one thing is that most men are immature. The minority of men are mature and see the majority of immature men but are powerless to reduce the numbers. These immature men are not ready for children. I am sorry to say this and even more sorry that I saw it. I saw a grown man choose an Playstation II over food for his children about three years ago. I will never get that image out of my head as long as I live. Needless to say, I nearly croaked right there on the floor. The few single men who are mature are afraid that the child or children will not fully accept them. No matter how the ball rolls, children view "this new man is mommy's life" as a replacement daddy or a new daddy who will place the old daddy, the daddy that they knew since birth. I would love to tell the truth why I, personally, would not accept a single mother but it would just be too painful for most women to bear so I keep my mouth shut and my fingers off the keyboard, even if it is the truth. Not to mentions it sounds too much like accusations when it really is far from it.
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| 8/10/2008 10:06:35 PM |
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edrew
Tacoma, WA
age: 39
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Instant family add mommy or daddy , very hard for some to do.Lif ei shard relationships can be harder then add kids right.Some people (very very few can handle that) The few that can if you come across them grab em up and hold on if ya can.My hat is off to all the single parents male or female out there no job is as hard nor as rewarding keep your chin up and be patient the right guy or lady will come along.
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| 8/10/2008 10:28:00 PM |
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redheadedirish
Elkins, AR
age: 31
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why are only men responding to this !!!!
red
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| 8/10/2008 10:30:58 PM |
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redheadedirish
Elkins, AR
age: 31
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when you date someone let them know the daughter is a package deal but make sure you let them know you don't expect them to be responsible for her that she's your daughter and you did it on your own and don't expect anything other than the normal respectful behavior that a man should have around a womans children..Alot of men are afraid we are looking for our next baby daddy not cool at all!
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| 8/10/2008 10:33:11 PM |
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happiestgrl
Walnut, CA
age: 39
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when they find out that a women has children? im a single mom of a beautiful lil girl and everytime i tell them i have a daughter they stop talking to me or just ignore me why do they do that any one help
Hey sweetie! Question..Does your profile say that you are a sexy "mom"? I would definitely make sure it be mention on your profile. See, that way men know what they are getting in too. Wouldn't you want to know if a man that your interested in has kids too? Just be honest honey and if they can't accept that you have a little one..then move on to the next one..You will find him!  I promise.. you must go through alot of WRONG ones to get the RIGHT one
Good Luck!!!
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| 8/10/2008 10:33:58 PM |
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happiestgrl
Walnut, CA
age: 39
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why are only men responding to this !!!!
red
I got your back on this one!!!
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| 8/10/2008 10:37:33 PM |
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stylistic
Rockville, MD
age: 46
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mellymel, with all do respect, you are a young lady with a baby. If I were you I would not be looking for anyone at all who is not at least your age or older, who knows about your child way in advance. I don't know if the father of your child is involved but alot of men may not want the responsibility of raising someone elses baby,and taking financial responsibility. If your going to date, don't involve your child in the relationship untill you have established that this person is in it for the long haul. To many people in and out of the picture confuses children.
Men run for various reasons and for you it may be more so because of your age and the fact you have such a young child, an instant family at such a young age is a great fear.
Focus on raising your daughter,this is the most important person in your life.
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| 8/10/2008 10:40:38 PM |
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daisypetal2007
Hastings, MN
age: 35
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Ya know sweety you so would not want to be with them anyway if they are not accepting of your daughter. Its great you put it out right away so you can find out if they are ready. I myself was not ready to date any men with kids for a couple years because i had two of my own. Selfish ? yes .....but i knew what i could and could not handle at the time. So be greatful they run. There will be one that stays eventually. You are very young dont rush it. Love happens when it is meant to not when we want it to.........
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| 8/10/2008 11:02:43 PM |
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sunnyboy59
Queensland
Australia
age: 70
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There's Plenty of Women on here,,
That Won't have a Bar of a Man with Kids...
It's Not a Gender Specific Issue..
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| 8/10/2008 11:05:00 PM |
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xlibra75x
Gateway, AR
age: 33
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Children never bothered me...
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| 8/11/2008 3:06:04 AM |
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mellymel1984
New Castle, DE
age: 24
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thank u all for ur input
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