| 8/29/2007 9:29:41 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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crystal_faith
Kenton, OH
age: 18
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well i was kinda talkin to this guy and people startin runnin there mouth.. ( u have to understand the town i live in is nothing but drama) but anyways he is sayin he doesnt know who to believe i have never lied to him and told him i never have but he doesnt know if we are goin to work out he is accusin me of stuff i didnt do but i really like him what should i do? Do i waste my time trying to prove to him that the rumors hes hearin arent true... or just walk away thanks for your time.. 
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| 8/29/2007 9:32:24 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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barbarac
North Kingstown, RI
age: 59
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if he has trust issues now at the beginning of your relationship where is it destined to go?
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| 8/29/2007 11:12:44 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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cutencuddls
Hopewell, VA
age: 38
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I personally wouldn't ignore him but nor would I attempt to prove myself to him. I would just continue on my way and not change a thing. Don't justify his insecurities by being overly concerned with the rumors. In the long run, it is easier to let him fade away if that is the way it is going to be than it is to fight to hold on to someone that may not ever trust you.
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| 8/29/2007 11:15:25 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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mishkabacci
Duncansville, PA
age: 42
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first of all trust is the key in a relationship...if he is too ignorant to listen to you and you are upfront and honest...do not waste any more breath or time...there are too many people in the world who will love and respect you more...
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| 8/29/2007 11:58:16 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 18
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just be ur normal friendly self, don't explain unless he asks.
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| 8/29/2007 12:08:37 PM |
heartbroken.. |
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lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
age: 50
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you can only have the rug pulled out from under you so many times befor you start to mistrust people. (notice i said people not just women)) just tell him your not his x. yet! lol. i have trust issues myself and have a hard time with it. but i know not all people are alike.
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| 8/29/2007 5:24:59 PM |
heartbroken.. |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Is it worth defending yourself all the time. If you like drama then go for it but I personally don't. Trust is a big issue and I don't think trust is in this relationship. Time to move on ...
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| 8/29/2007 5:53:04 PM |
heartbroken.. |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 54
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I agree with the rest. You'll always live with defending some innocent thing happening. seems like the trust his people's comments more than the one he's dating. If you continue this, it will never change. you will live a miserable life...
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| 8/29/2007 6:45:09 PM |
heartbroken.. |
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brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48
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I was once in a similar situation, I told her I would be willing to meet face to face with her and anyone who said I did "whatever" and show her I have nothing to hide. When she saw I was willing to face my accuser's that was enough for her. We put that stuff behind us and dated happily for months. We are still friends to this day.
I do agree with other posters that you should not have prove yourself, that's just what I did. Good luck
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| 8/29/2007 8:12:36 PM |
heartbroken.. |
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xsoundedmindx
Williston, SC
age: 25
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I firmly believe in setting people on fire. It makes you feel better AND they probably wont tell anyone.
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| 8/31/2007 10:22:45 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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migs
Whittier, CA
age: 38
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telling him you're not worried about what insecure people are telling him, that you are telling him the truth, to make his choice. ask him to stop all this and make a stand. it's either them or you, and move forward.
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| 8/31/2007 10:55:43 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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johnnybeads
Cincinnati, OH
age: 36
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You need you a man girl........ Go for someone 3-4 years older. Nope, don't marry 'em , but this relationship will give you great advice for the future!
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| 8/31/2007 11:28:40 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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crystal_faith
Kenton, OH
age: 18
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this guy is 23 i usually go for the older guys but i really hate being accused of doing things i know i am not out doing and being called a liar when i have never lied to him he says he wants to work things out one minute then the next he says hes done so i dont know where i stand with him right now friends say i should just forget about him an move on but then the other part of me wants to be with him cuz when we arent arguing hes a sweetheart..i dont know im just soooo confused
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| 8/31/2007 11:30:17 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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mkvgti
Medina, OH
age: 34
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if you are this young and arguing all the time, it will only get worse
my $.02
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| 8/31/2007 11:31:01 AM |
heartbroken.. |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 54
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if you bend now in this relationship, you'll be bending backwards forever. until he grows up... unless you want to mama him, and i dont see that happening.
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