Why the Friendzone?

10/17/2014 8:32:59 PM	Why the Friendzone?
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	I know this has been covered... But I wonder how folks would order these reasons for putting someone in the friend zone. I think these are the big "strategic" reasons. It's up to respondents to order them in your own personal priority. If you want to add something feel free. As always be honest, have fun. (Or the regular DH thing its all good) - Skin Color - Physical Attributes (sex appeal) - Financial Fitness - Intelligence/Education/Career Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
10/17/2014 8:36:34 PM	Why the Friendzone?
stanleyzee Dayton, OH 30, joined Dec. 2012
10/17/2014 8:38:25 PM	Why the Friendzone?
yatame1 Buffalo, NY 19, joined Jun. 2014	She was anti-abolition and i always plan for things worst case . So i just gave it a rest . Second one was 2 good for me . 3rd one was a jailbird have no idea why we even liked each other .
10/17/2014 8:45:07 PM	Why the Friendzone?
flirty_n_fun67 Belleville, ON 47, joined Sep. 2010 online now!	I dont think it needs to be named...we all dont date just anybody...unless there is attraction..compatibility and we enjoy each others company....and attraction for me means the whole package...looks...personality...inner qualities...sense of humour...good communicator etc etc etc...
10/17/2014 8:57:20 PM	Why the Friendzone?
falpeter Sao Paulo Brazil 26, joined Jul. 2014	Well, honestly, you can say several reasons of why they would not be interested....but this is not about it. The person simply don't see Ya as a potential person to be dating. I hate being put in the friend zone.
10/17/2014 9:00:35 PM	Why the Friendzone?
ol39er Cicero, IL 42, joined Jul. 2011	Some people can't break with the past and move on. When my ex broke up with me, she told me that she doesn't do the "friends with exes thing." I was overjoyed at the idea not because I am bitter, but because I wanted to move on. I look at it like this: If you get fired or laid off from a job, why hang around with your ex-boss? Get another job and move on! I only let myself get friendzoned once. It will never happen again.
10/17/2014 9:05:20 PM	Why the Friendzone?
genx1200 Encino, CA 44, joined Oct. 2012	- Looks. If you aint cute, to them, you aint shit. Includes skin color. - Physical Attributes (sex appeal) - Financial Fitness - Intelligence/Education/Career Sure, you have the 3 percent of women who go for intelligence first, but they are in the minority.
10/17/2014 9:05:34 PM	Why the Friendzone?
coldheaven Lolita, TX 34, joined Jun. 2014	Friendzone is good If you want a friend lol Just dont play someone along if that is all you ever wanted in the first place I dont see any excuse for any kind of otherwise behaviour.
10/17/2014 9:27:43 PM	Why the Friendzone?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 36, joined Sep. 2014	i think it's funny when people whine about being friendzoned much like the many other things they whine about but maybe the person that friendzoned u isn't romantically interested in ya and all the whinning In the world about it isn't gonna make her change her mind! it might just scare her away! I missed a good chance with a gal a few yrs ago she was always a friend but I was interested in someone else and I basically ignored her hints at being interested in me because of my interest in this other person and now I'm LITTERALY paying for that huge mistake every day now because she's now engaged and I think back to when we used to talk on Facebook that I shoulda gave her a chance! [Edited 10/17/2014 9:28:43 PM ]
10/17/2014 9:29:36 PM	Why the Friendzone?
klassy_klown Bakersfield, CA 46, joined Apr. 2010	I've friend zoned men if I wasn't attracted to them, and for me attraction has many facets. And, I've friend zoned men that bring with them friend, work and or family complications. Some men are untouchable if becoming involved with them could possibly affect our other personal relationships.
10/17/2014 9:31:48 PM	Why the Friendzone?
hazel1285 Erie, PA 26, joined Jul. 2014	Friend zone my best friends. Anything past friends could ruin a good friendship
10/17/2014 9:37:09 PM	Why the Friendzone?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 36, joined Sep. 2014	oh nurse hazel!
10/17/2014 9:38:18 PM	Why the Friendzone?
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	I wld kill to be in a friendzone..... I hv been told.... "If there is no chance of.me having sex with u....why wld I bother being your friend?" Hell...I can't even.get zoned...
10/17/2014 9:38:55 PM	Why the Friendzone?
darthcapital North York, ON 44, joined Apr. 2014	you cant force attraction. its either there or its not, its not a like a plant where you nurture it etc.
10/17/2014 9:40:16 PM	Why the Friendzone?
machug59 Fairfield, CA 55, joined Dec. 2011	Ahhh, I am always there. I'm fixing it up...throw pillows, flowers, candles... It's cozy. lol
10/17/2014 9:40:30 PM	Why the Friendzone?
coldheaven Lolita, TX 34, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from eyesofmedusa: I wld kill to be in a friendzone..... I hv been told.... "If there is no chance of.me having sex with u....why wld I bother being your friend?" Hell...I can't even.get zoned... Ill zone you but you have to have sex with me first.. KIDDING im f,ing KIDDING
10/17/2014 9:40:36 PM	Why the Friendzone?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 36, joined Sep. 2014	"zoned" out perhaps dusa?
10/17/2014 9:41:43 PM	Why the Friendzone?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 36, joined Sep. 2014	cold puss? I meant coldheaven. lol [Edited 10/17/2014 9:41:59 PM ]
10/17/2014 9:42:03 PM	Why the Friendzone?
smplelife Taylorville, IL 31, joined Jul. 2014	I met a guy on here a couple months ago. We had a few things in common and great conversations. When we met face to face there was no spark for either of us. We were both honest about it and had a good time that night as friends only. We have played golf and a concert together. We friend zoned each other.
10/17/2014 9:43:00 PM	Why the Friendzone?
coldheaven Lolita, TX 34, joined Jun. 2014	Like a b*tch. I mean like_a_boob Stfu [Edited 10/17/2014 9:44:11 PM ]
10/17/2014 9:43:54 PM	Why the Friendzone?
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	@ Klassy K...thanks for the honest answer I appreciate it... Others thanks for input. It's interesting how people view this question. @Medusa...I can try to be your friend. I do like that we disagree on some things but are intelligent enough to be civil about it.
10/17/2014 9:44:17 PM	Why the Friendzone?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 36, joined Sep. 2014	some people are just picky and some are just looking for that intangible red flag that won't ever appear even if ya try to create one!
10/17/2014 9:46:04 PM	Why the Friendzone?
coldheaven Lolita, TX 34, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from darthcapital: you cant force attraction. its either there or its not, its not a like a plant where you nurture it etc. Yeah and it can get people arrested when they try too hard LOL
10/17/2014 9:46:17 PM	Why the Friendzone?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 36, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from coldheaven: Like a btch. I mean like_a_boob Stfu I get to handcuff u to the bed posts so U are the btch 2nite sugar! [Edited 10/17/2014 9:48:30 PM ]
10/17/2014 9:47:24 PM	Why the Friendzone?
coldheaven Lolita, TX 34, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from like_aboss: I get to handcuff u to the bed posts so U are the b*tch 2nite sugar! Gross. Knock it off dude thx
10/17/2014 9:47:34 PM	Why the Friendzone?
ol39er Cicero, IL 42, joined Jul. 2011	Being put in the friendzone also means that you will be saved to be used for something later on. If someone isn't interested in me romantically, fine. Why keep me around for some other purpose? From my perspective, why should I waste my time hanging around with someone who has no romantic interest in me when I could be devoting my time and energy to someone who might be interested? If I wasn't interested in someone, I would tell her so, and wish her the best of luck. Friendzoning her would do neither of us any good.
10/17/2014 9:48:24 PM	Why the Friendzone?
helmholtzwatson Raleigh, NC 49, joined Jun. 2014 online now!	Attraction. no need to complicate.
10/17/2014 9:48:32 PM	Why the Friendzone?
happy_geezer Patchogue, NY 56, joined Sep. 2014	When I was single I never friend zoned a woman unless I was not attracted to her or had no shot at having sex with her.
10/17/2014 9:50:12 PM	Why the Friendzone?
smplelife Taylorville, IL 31, joined Jul. 2014	Why dismiss someone's friendship because there is no attraction? That's kind of narrow minded thinking. @39 [Edited 10/17/2014 9:51:05 PM ]
10/17/2014 9:50:27 PM	Why the Friendzone?
coldheaven Lolita, TX 34, joined Jun. 2014	Me too geezer. I never played extraa friendly to those i did not find attractive and intended to ravish [Edited 10/17/2014 9:51:09 PM ]
10/17/2014 9:50:40 PM	Why the Friendzone?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 36, joined Sep. 2014	lol @ whining about being used!
10/17/2014 9:52:21 PM	Why the Friendzone?
like_aboss Aberdeen, ID 36, joined Sep. 2014	Quote from smplelife: Why dismiss someone's friendship because there is no attraction? That's kind of narrow minded thinking. @39 fear factor of "being used" some people are closed minded
10/17/2014 9:53:12 PM	Why the Friendzone?
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	Cold Barry... I realized a lot this week.... None of it good. I think ppl shld feel.blessed that they can be seen as someone worthy of frienship. Many of.us....aren't seen as worth that in our phyisical lives. It kills me to see.ppl b*tch about being seen as worth being included in someones phyisical existance...just kills me... I dnt get it
10/17/2014 9:54:47 PM	Why the Friendzone?
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	I don't necessarily see being friend zoned as "being used". Of course that can be an aspect of it, but not always.
10/17/2014 10:01:41 PM	Why the Friendzone?
ol39er Cicero, IL 42, joined Jul. 2011	You can be used as a free therapist. I almost fell into that trap.
10/17/2014 10:01:45 PM	Why the Friendzone?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	I have never 'friendzoned' since that is apparently a thing..if I meet a guy and we don't click there is no runner up position. we may remain friendly but we don't 'build' a friendship. I have had friends who at one time or another we enjoyed benefits but we never considered it would be anything else , the friendship remained or faded as things do over time...the bennies were not relevant. I'd like to know wtf people mean when they say friendzoned. what exactly does that look like. do you start going to yoga class together or what? [Edited 10/17/2014 10:02:38 PM ]
10/17/2014 10:06:12 PM	Why the Friendzone?
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	Oh no. Soulflight. I did that. I took a 12 session yoga class with a woman I wanted to sleep with who just "valued me as a friend".....
10/17/2014 10:06:16 PM	Why the Friendzone?
smplelife Taylorville, IL 31, joined Jul. 2014	Exactly what I said in my reply, we both like golf and other activities. I don't think he likes yoga
10/17/2014 10:07:49 PM	Why the Friendzone?
mindya Vancouver, BC 61, joined Jan. 2009	It was knitting in curlers, slathered with Noxzema while watching re-runs of the French revolution that tipped me over the edge.
10/17/2014 10:08:57 PM	Why the Friendzone?
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	"Valued as a friend" And used the word...just ... In.front of.it...... God....we hv become a pathetic...thankless society... Fk
10/17/2014 10:09:20 PM	Why the Friendzone?
coldheaven Lolita, TX 34, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from mindya: It was knitting in curlers, slathered with Noxzema while watching re-runs of the French revolution that tipped me over the edge. Sexy
10/17/2014 10:10:05 PM	Why the Friendzone?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	Lmao @ mindya... seriously Barry?!!! c'mon...people do this? well spank my a** and call me betty!!! sounds to me like friendzoning is a guy thing that women get blamed for...simplelife-no offense intended [Edited 10/17/2014 10:11:50 PM ]
10/17/2014 10:11:54 PM	Why the Friendzone?
ol39er Cicero, IL 42, joined Jul. 2011	Some friendzoned people who are naive think that because they are still kept around as friends, they may still have a chance at romantic involvement, so they do the bidding of the one who friendzoned them. The person who friendzoned people definitely has power over the people he or she friendzoned.
10/17/2014 10:12:16 PM	Why the Friendzone?
mindya Vancouver, BC 61, joined Jan. 2009	She kept slipping out me fingers...
10/17/2014 10:12:54 PM	Why the Friendzone?
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	and I pathetically add that I paid for both of us for the class.... (I make a lot more- it seemed logical) (way too honest for DH) [Edited 10/17/2014 10:13:32 PM ]
10/17/2014 10:13:13 PM	Why the Friendzone?
coldheaven Lolita, TX 34, joined Jun. 2014	Quote from eyesofmedusa: "Valued as a friend" And used the word...just ... In.front of.it...... God....we hv become a pathetic...thankless society... Fk Agree. Ungrateful
10/17/2014 10:13:17 PM	Why the Friendzone?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	Yer killin' my mindya...lmao
10/17/2014 10:13:24 PM	Why the Friendzone?
b2cold Bark River, MI 22, joined Mar. 2014
10/17/2014 10:15:24 PM	Why the Friendzone?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	Oh my Barry...this is a serious thing..swallows laughter oh f**kit...blahaha!
10/17/2014 10:15:45 PM	Why the Friendzone?
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	I should have included a [sic] she said "I just value you as a friend" I was reporting an event- not adding a judgment to friendship.
10/17/2014 10:16:05 PM	Why the Friendzone?
smplelife Taylorville, IL 31, joined Jul. 2014	No offence taken. Ours was mutual and it was awkward till I blurted out I wasn't feeling it like that. It was a sigh of relief and we went on to have a great time. Although he kicks my a** in golf
10/17/2014 10:16:41 PM	Why the Friendzone?
soulflight Dayton, OH 52, joined Apr. 2014	Just tell me it was only that one time...? and @ simplelife...I can see that happening..I've had meets like that, we just never took it past the meet/date and I'm always the 'blurter'.. [Edited 10/17/2014 10:18:06 PM ]
10/17/2014 10:18:38 PM	Why the Friendzone?
genx1200 Encino, CA 44, joined Oct. 2012	Quote from barrydalmi: I should have included a [sic] she said "I just value you as a friend" I was reporting an event- not adding a judgment to friendship. That's harsh! I didn't read the rest of your thread so I don't know if you paid for any kind of date with her. I hope not.
10/17/2014 10:21:16 PM	Why the Friendzone?
eyesofmedusa San Antonio, TX 50, joined Jun. 2012	Quote from barrydalmi: and I pathetically add that I paid for both of us for the class.... (I make a lot more- it seemed logical) (way too honest for DH) No...not too honest....I am not a slurper... However...you did just compound the.impact of all the words I heard this week. And obviously that was the intent of The Universe... Ty Barry... Time I woke the fk.up out of the last bit of the daydreams.. [Edited 10/17/2014 10:22:09 PM ]
10/17/2014 10:21:22 PM	Why the Friendzone?
24milkduds San Francisco, CA 55, joined Mar. 2012	I have mostly men friends...always have...and they are all my friends..no attraction what so ever otherwise but to be friends only...I'm just not the type to sleep around...I will continue keeping my morals...it's who and what I'm about..
10/17/2014 10:22:35 PM	Why the Friendzone?
cajunmister Kinder, LA 64, joined May. 2007	This post reminds me of a dance partner I had. Tall, slender, cute, long blonde hair, big store bought boobies Oh well we had a blast the times we went out. Last time I saw her she was with her fiancé, the guy had grey skin and facial ticks from years of drugs. She said he was in treatment She was pretty but the snakes in that head
10/17/2014 10:24:37 PM	Why the Friendzone?
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	Quote from soulflight: Just tell me it was only that one time...? and @ simplelife...I can see that happening..I've had meets like that, we just never took it past the meet/date and I'm always the 'blurter'.. Yes it was the only class I paid for...12 weeks is along time though.... We do still talk from time to time. I am a "good friend". I am also over my desire to be "with her".
10/17/2014 10:25:56 PM	Why the Friendzone?
klassy_klown Bakersfield, CA 46, joined Apr. 2010	Quote from barrydalmi: I should have included a [sic] she said "I just value you as a friend" I was reporting an event- not adding a judgment to friendship. How did you meet her?
10/17/2014 10:29:47 PM	Why the Friendzone?
barrydalmi Baltimore, MD 51, joined Dec. 2007	At a Conference related to work. We had occasion to exchange emails for a project and later met.
10/17/2014 10:43:11 PM	Why the Friendzone?
machug59 Fairfield, CA 55, joined Dec. 2011	Quote from ol39er: Some friendzoned people who are naive think that because they are still kept around as friends, they may still have a chance at romantic involvement, so they do the bidding of the one who friendzoned them. The person who friendzoned people definitely has power over the people he or she friendzoned. No. If I am "friend-zoned", then that is it. No "I'll back at you later...", I have more respect for myself than to be a last resort. I value my friends, real friends. Those guys...just someone to say hi if I see them around. Although, I have been lucky enough to be fairly good friends with a few men that weren't interested in me romantically.

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