@Wedontgive, You are too pretty to not have gone on any dates hun.
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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When going on a date, what are signs are there that tells you the person is not interested in dating, just looking for sex?
If you feel that the person's only intention is for a hookup, how do you decide to handle the date?
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11/2/2014 6:20:03 PM |
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cali8zice
Albany, NY
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First
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11/2/2014 6:20:16 PM |
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thunderfuk
Beverly Hills, CA
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Last
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11/2/2014 6:21:35 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
51, joined Mar. 2014
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Well @thunder, just by reading your name, your intentions are indeed obvious.
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11/2/2014 6:22:01 PM |
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lckmyclit
Adegem
Belgium
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How about not going...
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11/2/2014 6:22:15 PM |
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ohdannyboy59
Arlington, TX
55, joined Sep. 2012
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They grab your crotch?
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11/2/2014 6:23:35 PM |
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dssg
Cleveland, OH
52, joined Aug. 2014
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When he whips out his love tool or man meat, or pecker or?
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11/2/2014 6:24:45 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
53, joined Nov. 2009
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Usually she jumps my bones BEFORE the lobstah.
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11/2/2014 6:31:00 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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They grab your crotch?
Yikes!
@Lck, I am referring to while you are on the date. Not knowing beforehand. Sorry it was not clear for you there.
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11/2/2014 6:31:54 PM |
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thunderfuk
Beverly Hills, CA
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Don't assume anything
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11/2/2014 6:32:44 PM |
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jenly
Chaska, MN
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I had a date start rubbing his d*ck through his jeans in front of me... that was a pretty clear sign.
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11/2/2014 6:33:28 PM |
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anywenchway
Macon, GA
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He licks his eyebrows
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11/2/2014 6:34:52 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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He licks his eyebrows
That there sure is a long tongue to be able to do that.
@Jenly, that is gross. Hope you left?
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11/2/2014 6:35:35 PM |
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freeyrmind
Miller, SD
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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11/2/2014 6:35:35 PM |
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missamicable
Hurst, TX
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When going on a date, what are signs are there that tells you the person is not interested in dating, just looking for sex?
If you feel that the person's only intention is for a hookup, how do you decide to handle the date?
He said he is imagine me and him in the crumble sheets.
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11/2/2014 6:37:28 PM |
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jenly
Chaska, MN
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Well, there certainly wasn't a second date. lol
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11/2/2014 6:39:10 PM |
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pariah84
Leavenworth, KS
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I imagine they don't share much information and constantly pay you complements and get you to drink heavily.
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11/2/2014 6:40:42 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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Trying to get me to drink heavily would not work with me @Paria. I don't drink.
@Jenly, not be a second date for me either!
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11/2/2014 6:42:37 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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Either this has never been an issue for me, my memory is worse than I thought or they were really quite subtle.
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11/2/2014 6:43:34 PM |
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pariah84
Leavenworth, KS
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I usually get tricked with candy and promises of bunnies.
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11/2/2014 6:45:21 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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@Paria,
And just what tricks did the ladies use on you?
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11/2/2014 6:47:59 PM |
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pariah84
Leavenworth, KS
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Boobs.... Then I get hypnotised
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11/2/2014 6:50:47 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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You poor thing @Paria.
You need to man up there hun and not let the ladies take advantage of you.
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11/2/2014 6:52:53 PM |
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pariah84
Leavenworth, KS
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I don't wanna "man up" I'm a Toys R Us kid!!!!!
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11/2/2014 6:57:39 PM |
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acdmv
AndowjGirifalco
Italy
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The road to hell is paved with good intentions...
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11/2/2014 6:58:09 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
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1. His hands and mouth are everywhere they shouldn't be...
2. Discussion is limited to his accomplishments, possessions and endowments..
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11/2/2014 7:05:18 PM |
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debyduh
Hamburg, PA
51, joined May. 2014
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I iron that out before the date. Weeding is such a chore.
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11/2/2014 7:05:33 PM |
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get2knowuwell3
Fort Worth, TX
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I had a date start rubbing his d*ck through his jeans in front of me... that was a pretty clear sign.
i was trying to tell you to take over the job
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11/2/2014 7:08:05 PM |
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hellokimi
Las Vegas, NV
21, joined Jun. 2013
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He licks his eyebrows
Lmao
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11/2/2014 7:09:40 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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1. His hands and mouth are everywhere they shouldn't be...
2. Discussion is limited to his accomplishments, possessions and endowments..
Conceited fellow was he now?
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11/2/2014 7:11:36 PM |
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_drake
Lexington, KY
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I had a date start rubbing his d*ck through his jeans in front of me... that was a pretty clear sign.
He was probably from Tennessee
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11/2/2014 7:12:06 PM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
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Well..
In some peoples eyes..
If the sex is not good... they will not date you..
Kind of a catch 22 there..
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11/2/2014 7:13:28 PM |
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sweetmama117
Bronx, NY
54, joined Aug. 2013
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Every other word is sex related.
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11/2/2014 7:15:43 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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Well..
In some peoples eyes..
If the sex is not good... they will not date you..
Kind of a catch 22 there..
That leads to bed hopping @Nature.
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11/2/2014 7:17:40 PM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
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I've never had that situation. I am boring and logical. I only go on dates with women I want to have sex with. That seems to make the most sense to me.
Its a good question though.
I'm not sure there are really that many people who "only want sex". I think we do something along the way to run them off...or the sex was really bad.
True psychopathic sex predators are actually rare.
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11/2/2014 7:17:50 PM |
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yosoyeluniquo
New York, NY
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what did you do in your last date that you found out he wanted sex more than a date?
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11/2/2014 7:17:59 PM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
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That leads to bed hopping @Nature.
It is just in response..
You asked if there are signs..
I guess I just gave reason to it all.
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11/2/2014 7:19:01 PM |
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icecreamsammich
Abilene, KS
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When going on a date, what are signs are there that tells you the person is not interested in dating, just looking for sex?
If you feel that the person's only intention is for a hookup, how do you decide to handle the date?
Again with this?
It seems like your fav topic. Evil men only wanting sex.
If a woman just wants sex? Usually rarely happens. Almost all women over 40 really do have a higher sex drive and want sex without games. Part of that is a bit of a genuine relationship where we care, and are exclusive.
That can happen quickly. Again, older women know what they want and usually can make that call in two weeks.
I have never been on a date where a woman only wanted a hookup. i have been on dates where things moved quickly but there was always a degree of a relationship.
A drama queen harping on all men want sex would totally repel me so that would end things if that conversation ever surfaced. It is more typical to controlling women that will use sex as a weapon in a relationship. So those women are bad for a relationship and make themselves only good for sex. You can't be a hostage and be in a relationship.
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11/2/2014 7:21:50 PM |
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chambella
New South Wales
Australia
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When going on a date, what are signs are there that tells you the person is not interested in dating, just looking for sex?
If you feel that the person's only intention is for a hookup, how do you decide to handle the date?
Subtle hints, actions.....
How I would handle it . Be up front about it and tell him that is not where this is heading.. I am sure he would appreciate you being up front.
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11/2/2014 7:23:26 PM |
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pariah84
Leavenworth, KS
30, joined Jul. 2014
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I want "Aussie" brand furniture.
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11/2/2014 7:25:02 PM |
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_drake
Lexington, KY
58, joined Aug. 2014
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yall got lectricity down there in austrilie?
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11/2/2014 7:29:15 PM |
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hellokimi
Las Vegas, NV
21, joined Jun. 2013
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1. Most his grand idea dates revolve around watching movies at his place and hardly ever taking u out on a real date
2. His hands are scouting ur body and his mouth is gross. Lmao
3. He ask u to come over... or he don't wait he try everything uncomfortable in the car while u looking at him sideways.
4. If you don't have a car. He waits for you to take bus to his place and ask how long it's gone take.
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11/2/2014 7:31:17 PM |
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jenly
Chaska, MN
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i was trying to tell you to take over the job
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11/2/2014 7:31:24 PM |
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chambella
New South Wales
Australia
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I want "Aussie" brand furniture.
ohh I haven't seen you around for a while.. where you been hiding?
yall got lectricity down there in austrilie?
LOL Nah.. we use Solar or wind power when possible .. or we ride our bicycles hooked up to a generator to store the electricity in batteries...
Candles is a good option too LOL
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11/2/2014 7:33:22 PM |
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pariah84
Leavenworth, KS
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I just been busy,Miss Bella. I would neva hide from muh peeps!
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11/2/2014 7:33:48 PM |
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icecreamsammich
Abilene, KS
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You have lots of very attractive women down under too.
So keeping the lights out is another option as well. Light a fire and grab your woman.
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11/2/2014 7:43:00 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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Subtle hints, actions.....
How I would handle it . Be up front about it and tell him that is not where this is heading.. I am sure he would appreciate you being up front.
@Chambella, that is a good answer.
@Ice, you are certainly entitled to your opionion.
@Barry, that is a logical answer. Why go out on a date with someone you are not sexually attracted to? But are your motivations only to have sex with them or see if there might be a possible relationship with them?
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11/2/2014 7:44:28 PM |
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pariah84
Leavenworth, KS
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@Chambella, that is a good answer.
@Ice, you are certainly entitled to your opionion.
@Barry, that is a logical answer. Why go out on a date with someone you are not sexually attracted to? But are your motivations only to have sex with them or see if there might be a possible relationship with them?
@Pariah You just need more boobies.
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11/2/2014 7:45:36 PM |
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wedontgiveaf
Vancouver, WA
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I haven't went on any dates.
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11/2/2014 7:51:17 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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@Pariah You just need no boobies. |
11/2/2014 7:53:25 PM |
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pariah84
Leavenworth, KS
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I didn't you you favored drinking "Haterade"
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11/2/2014 7:53:49 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
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If I am going out on date with a guy, I'm already interested...and if he DOESN'T want to have sex with me....why are we on a date?
Why didn't we just hang out with friends?
We might not have sex that date or the next date but we damn sure better be wanting it to go there or something is wrong and we should have already been moving on to other prospects.
and this "only" sex business, wth do you mean by that? it IS only sex..ei mean dang, if he proposes or something, there will be NO sex. nothing should be THAT serious right off the bat.
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11/2/2014 8:04:01 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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You make some very good points @Soul.
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11/2/2014 8:36:53 PM |
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icecreamsammich
Abilene, KS
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Quote from soulflight:
If I am going out on date with a guy, I'm already interested...and if he DOESN'T want to have sex with me....why are we on a date?
Why didn't we just hang out with friends?
We might not have sex that date or the next date but we damn sure better be wanting it to go there or something is wrong and we should have already been moving on to other prospects.
and this "only" sex business, wth do you mean by that? it IS only sex..ei mean dang, if he proposes or something, there will be NO sex. nothing should be THAT serious right off the bat.
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I hear you.
On a date? There is an attraction already or we would not have gone there. Second date it is for sure.
How we arrive at the promised land is just between us.
But this OP posts this same topic over and over again.
Evidently she is extremely hot and men can't begin to control themselves.
I have never dated a woman that hot but someday maybe I will!
One can only hope...
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11/2/2014 8:44:14 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
52, joined Apr. 2014
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@ icecream
something tells me you have a little black book full of possibilities
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11/2/2014 8:46:20 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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If I am going out on date with a guy, I'm already interested...and if he DOESN'T want to have sex with me....why are we on a date?
Why didn't we just hang out with friends?
We might not have sex that date or the next date but we damn sure better be wanting it to go there or something is wrong and we should have already been moving on to other prospects.
and this "only" sex business, wth do you mean by that? it IS only sex..ei mean dang, if he proposes or something, there will be NO sex. nothing should be THAT serious right off the bat.
clean on isle # ALL
the frigging glass menageries shattered all over the entire place
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11/2/2014 8:49:18 PM |
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icecreamsammich
Abilene, KS
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Quote from soulflight:
@ icecream
something tells me you have a little black book full of possibilities
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Ha!
That was total sarcasm.
Holland used to post relatively interesting things but lately it seems like thinly veiled men bashing at times. Crying all men want sex... Boo boo... All normal humans want sex! Newsflash!!
I like you though sweet thing. Your posts are thought inspiring.
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11/2/2014 8:49:39 PM |
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sweetsinglelife
Waterford, CT
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I had a date start rubbing his d*ck through his jeans in front of me... that was a pretty clear sign.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
How gross can someone be.
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11/2/2014 8:49:50 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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now ifn all the kiddies would jes get out
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11/2/2014 8:58:43 PM |
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soulflight
Dayton, OH
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Quote from icecreamsammich:]
Ha!
That was total sarcasm.
Holland used to post relatively interesting things but lately it seems like thinly veiled men bashing at times. Crying all men want sex... Boo boo... All normal humans want sex! Newsflash!!
I like you though sweet thing. Your posts are thought inspiring.
Not sarcasm.
Thanks.
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