| 8/16/2008 7:03:26 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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brunettechic89
Winfield, MO
age: 19
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I met a guy on here last night. He seems to be a really nice guy but he is taking thing WAYYYYY too fast! I usually dont end up meeting the people that i talk to online just because of a really bad experience i had one time from doing that. Basically you never really know the person on the other side of the computer and what there intentions are..and how much bullshit they made up! Anyways any insight on what i should do?
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| 8/16/2008 7:05:32 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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If it doesn't feel right, you can either tell him he's moving too fast and see if he responds accordingly, or you can tell him that you're not interested and end it. Either way, you have to be in control of your comfort.
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| 8/16/2008 7:06:33 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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1redneck4u
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 36
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yea be careful 
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| 8/16/2008 7:06:34 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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im_vika
Brooklyn, NY
age: 33
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Just be honest with him. Tell him that you want him to slow down. If he doesn't respect your wishes, then he is not right for you.
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| 8/16/2008 7:07:51 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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jugged76
Cleveland, TN
age: 31
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yes i agree tell him he is either going way to fast or that you are not interested and besides speaking from a guys prospective and this is not how i am but he is looking for something from you that a computer screen cant give him
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| 8/16/2008 7:09:06 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 51
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offer to meet him in a public place that you feel comfortable at and then see if there is any chemistry, then take it from there.
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| 8/16/2008 7:09:13 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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pittchat
Pittsboro, NC
age: 45
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One nights conversation is not enough. I agree that you have to feel comfortable and it has to feel right before you meet anyone. Be very sure that you feel okay with it and still meet in a public place the first time.
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| 8/16/2008 7:09:39 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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brunettechic89
Winfield, MO
age: 19
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oh yes i know what he wants...but he aint gettin it from me!
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| 8/16/2008 7:17:28 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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bekki_08
Ridgeland, MS
age: 39
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I met a guy on here last night. He seems to be a really nice guy but he is taking thing WAYYYYY too fast! I usually dont end up meeting the people that i talk to online just because of a really bad experience i had one time from doing that. Basically you never really know the person on the other side of the computer and what there intentions are..and how much bullshit they made up! Anyways any insight on what i should do?
It's true that you never really know the person that you communicate with online but in all honesty that also holds true when you meet someone face to face in the real world. I have met guys before in day to day life that turned out to be totally wacko! We are taking chances on whomever it is that we meet and wherever it is that we meet them. Go with your instincts.
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| 8/16/2008 7:30:05 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50 online now!
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Listen to your gut. Do not meet him one minute before you feel comfortable doing it and make sure you meet in a public place.
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| 8/16/2008 7:40:50 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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lobo_corazon
Kingston, ON
age: 39
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...I usually dont end up meeting the people that i talk to online just because of a really bad experience i had one time from doing that...Anyways any insight on what i should do?
It sounds like you have some trust issues you need to deal with. Maybe online dating isn't for you, or maybe you should just be single for a while and get the whole independance thing down pat?
Good luck!
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| 8/16/2008 7:44:27 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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mjkittredge
Nashua, NH
age: 27
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maybe, instead of trying to slow things down yourself, try to out-speed him, then he'll want to slow things down
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| 8/16/2008 7:46:01 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 51
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maybe, instead of trying to slow things down yourself, try to out-speed him, then he'll want to slow things down
works every time!
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| 8/16/2008 8:58:57 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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juniebegood
Huntington, NY
age: 54
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I met a guy on here last night. He seems to be a really nice guy but he is taking thing WAYYYYY too fast! I usually dont end up meeting the people that i talk to online just because of a really bad experience i had one time from doing that. Basically you never really know the person on the other side of the computer and what there intentions are..and how much bullshit they made up! Anyways any insight on what i should do?
Internet dating can be fun, but it can also be dangerous too. It is hard enough for us older women, who have more experience in the world of dating, to always be successful in weeding out the crazies and nut jobs. You are much younger, and fairly new to the dating world in general. Perhaps your intuition isn't as developed as someone my age. Don't sweat it, because it all comes in time.
Since you are so young, I'd suggest you take things slowly. Really try to get to know the guy first, before agreeing to meet him in person. I'm sure you've heard this advice before, but when you meet a new guy for the first time, make sure you take your own car, and make sure you meet him in a very public place. Rather be safe than sorry!
Good luck, and hang in there!
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| 8/18/2008 6:09:25 PM |
whoah! slow down! |
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billybushae
Euless, TX
age: 19
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all right this what you should do, tell him to slow down nicely cause he dont want ya to leave him hangin but he probably dont want what u think so take your time not his remember your in control not him
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