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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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| 1. Enlightened |
| 2. Self Hate |
| 3. I Don't Know |
| 4. Racist |
| 5. A Simple Preference |
| 6. ANOTHER RACE THREAD, STFU!!! |
If someone refuses to date, have sex, or marry someone of their own race, solely because of what race that person is...that makes them...
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| 11/23/2014 12:34:17 PM |
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esmeraldar
Toms River, NJ
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Number six. Nuff said.
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| 11/23/2014 12:34:19 PM |
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moobs020308
Washington, DC
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there is more than enough of me to go around for all wimmins!
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| 11/23/2014 12:34:37 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
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Number six. Nuff said.
This
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| 11/23/2014 12:36:59 PM |
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bill_i_am2
FPO, AP
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| 11/23/2014 12:39:28 PM |
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eyesofmedusa
San Antonio, TX
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Number six. Nuff said.
This
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| 11/23/2014 12:39:37 PM |
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stumppy
Wind Gap, PA
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7. Author is an AW
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| 11/23/2014 12:40:02 PM |
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riflessivo
AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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Number six. Nuff said.
This
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| 11/23/2014 12:40:21 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
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I think the above answers all show this thread is closed  .
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| 11/23/2014 12:41:34 PM |
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moobs020308
Washington, DC
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i luvtokiss azz!
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| 11/23/2014 12:43:06 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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Your comment doesn't count unless you vote.
Just like in the real world.
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| 11/23/2014 12:46:05 PM |
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nothingneeded
Johnston, IA
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Don't care, don't know, not concerned.
#6
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| 11/23/2014 12:47:06 PM |
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playingindirt
Eugene, OR
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It's their own dang preference and none of my business.
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| 11/23/2014 12:49:39 PM |
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machug59
Fairfield, CA
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Number six. Nuff said.
Nuff said.
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| 11/23/2014 12:50:09 PM |
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moobs020308
Washington, DC
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chug
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| 11/23/2014 12:55:51 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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If they're your race it makes them.....obviously not want you. Why exactly is this even your problem? It's not like they're personally attacking you. You can't make an accurate judgment of someone you don't even know.
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| 11/23/2014 12:58:51 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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Is there a scientific answer to this question?
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| 11/23/2014 1:01:19 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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Is there a scientific answer to why gay men are attracted to gay men. Is there a scientific answer to why gay women are attracted to gay women?
What exactly would you call them? Sexist?
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| 11/23/2014 1:05:52 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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That's a good question actually!
I'm serious.
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| 11/23/2014 1:06:54 PM |
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bill_i_am2
FPO, AP
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Why worry about someone else whilst you judge their choice !!~!~!!
You worry about you and let them worry about them !!~!~!!
Let them think the grass is greener on the other side of 'da fence !!~!~!!
Don't let other peoples choices effect your chosen way to live !!~!~!!
Don't let them live in your head rent free ( yes they are, that's why this thread ) !!~!~!!
Add your favorite cliche` here ------>> "__________________________________" !!~!~!!
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| 11/23/2014 1:09:06 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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I'm going to get to the bottom of this!
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| 11/23/2014 1:17:06 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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I'm being even more serious. Why is it your problem?
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| 11/23/2014 1:19:19 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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Injustice anywhere, is injustice everywhere.
It benefits me, the better everyone else is.
If a large portion of society is found to be suffering from a mental condition...that will not help me live a better life.
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| 11/23/2014 1:21:27 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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So then gay people, interracial only daters, and people with other specific preferences have problems and are doing injustices to people? And this makes sense, how?
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| 11/23/2014 1:21:46 PM |
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bill_i_am2
FPO, AP
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K !!
Rent free it is !!~!~!!
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| 11/23/2014 1:21:50 PM |
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1darksavior
Far Rockaway, NY
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Number six. Nuff said.
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| 11/23/2014 1:23:48 PM |
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playground1
Santa Monica, CA
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Injustice anywhere, is injustice everywhere.
It benefits me, the better everyone else is.
If a large portion of society is found to be suffering from a mental condition...that will not help me live a better life.
#6
Captain Save a Black Man
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| 11/23/2014 1:26:01 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
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Who anyone dates is the business of that person, and who that person dates, and no one else. Get a life. Quit whining.
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| 11/23/2014 1:27:55 PM |
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cali8zice
Albany, NY
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| 11/23/2014 1:30:53 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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So then gay people, interracial only daters, and people with other specific preferences have problems and are doing injustices to people? And this makes sense, how?
I didn't exactly say that. You asked how this effects me. It may not. Or it may. I have that quote to give an example that if it IS a mental condition (as yet to be determined), how it would effect me.
Now, let's get to the bottom of this, once and for all.
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| 11/23/2014 1:47:38 PM |
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gfjf
Niagara Falls, NY
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Is there a scientific answer to why gay men are attracted to gay men. Is there a scientific answer to why gay women are attracted to gay women?
Actually there was at one time. But they were outlawed, not discredited, outlawed... just give that some thought.
You may want to look up the DSM archives.
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| 11/23/2014 1:49:34 PM |
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gfjf
Niagara Falls, NY
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You can't make an accurate judgment of someone you don't even know.
Sure you can. It's called judging a tree by the fruit it bears.
What people say or do is the only way you can judge them.
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| 11/23/2014 1:53:57 PM |
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kclady49
Kansas City, MO
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I vote 6 because the answer is not just one thing. Some people its a preference. For example I am all for interracial dating but I never been attracted to blacks so I never dated one so it is not necessarily about race. I am willing to date a black man if I can find one I find attractive and does not act ghetto. I have black friends. Also for some people it is indeed hatred, some people have had not enough dating experience to really make decision
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| 11/23/2014 2:01:43 PM |
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gfjf
Niagara Falls, NY
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I never been attracted to blacks...
... it is not necessarily about race.
I am willing to date a black man if I can find one I find attractive and does not act ghetto.
I have black friends.
Ho... Lee... SHIT! 
Did this just happen? 
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| 11/23/2014 2:18:47 PM |
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smthgabouther
Baltimore, MD
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Its their preference and business.
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| 11/23/2014 2:21:04 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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Ho... Lee... SHIT!
Did this just happen?
I'm at a loss for words myself!
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| 11/23/2014 2:21:55 PM |
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gfjf
Niagara Falls, NY
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I'm at a loss for words myself!
I know, right?
Wow!
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| 11/23/2014 2:24:11 PM |
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love2kiss8
Columbus, OH
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I hope we all date our race the human race that is. Unless someone is more into animism and more into chairs and stuff.
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| 11/23/2014 2:25:22 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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Vote
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| 11/23/2014 2:25:24 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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How can any of you be at a loss for words. So she used the word black. She then later explained that she doesn't like guys who act ghetto. Ghetto. Black. Do you see the connection? Don't even get sensitive about it cause you know the black culture pretty much invented ghetto hoodratty, ratchety,behaviors and trends.
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| 11/23/2014 2:27:10 PM |
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b2cold
Elk Grove Village, IL
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It makes them
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| 11/23/2014 2:44:13 PM |
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theycallmemikey
Noble, OK
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Actually there was at one time. But they were outlawed, not discredited, outlawed... just give that some thought.
You may want to look up the DSM archives.
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| 11/23/2014 3:05:19 PM |
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24milkduds
San Francisco, CA
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Schitt people come up with, cracks me up!
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| 11/23/2014 3:10:48 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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How can any of you be at a loss for words. So she used the word black. She then later explained that she doesn't like guys who act ghetto. Ghetto. Black. Do you see the connection? Don't even get sensitive about it cause you know the black culture pretty much invented ghetto hoodratty, ratchety,behaviors and trends.
I disagree. When one knows history, you'll discover many things about other races that are more "ghetto" and "hoodratty", and "ratchet" than your own people you just insulted.
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| 11/23/2014 3:16:03 PM |
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patriottype
Salt Point, NY
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If someone likes all races but prefers a particular look or type thats ok.....................If someone thinks their own race is unattractive......that person is delusional,pathetic and just plain sad......and should have your pity.
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| 11/23/2014 3:17:54 PM |
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gfjf
Niagara Falls, NY
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What are you banging your head for? I didn't write the DSM, blame the people involved in writing it.
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| 11/23/2014 3:32:56 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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I disagree. When one knows history, you'll discover many things about other races that are more "ghetto" and "hoodratty", and "ratchet" than your own people you just insulted.
I didn't insult anybody. I made a very good observation of one of the biggest reason why people don't mess with black folks. Both male and female. Did you know I'm German, Irish, English, and African?
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| 11/23/2014 3:37:41 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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If someone likes all races but prefers a particular look or type thats ok.....................If someone thinks their own race is unattractive......that person is delusional,pathetic and just plain sad......and should have your pity.
Agreed. So how do you vote?
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| 11/23/2014 3:39:30 PM |
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patriottype
Salt Point, NY
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from twining:[e]How can any of you be at a loss for words. So she used the word black. She then later explained that she doesn't like guys who act ghetto. Ghetto. Black. Do you see the connection? Don't even get sensitive about it cause you know the black culture pretty much invented ghetto hoodratty, ratchety,behaviors and trends.[]Black people from Australia and Africa don't see themselves as victims or oppressed........also Mexicans not raised in the USA have a great work ethic.
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| 11/23/2014 3:43:29 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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No, it's not a very good observation. And you must not know much about blacks, to say what you just did.
And your ethnicity is half white, half nubian/black.
Because your black gene is dominant, you look just like any other black person.
And in America, mulattos and those who even look black...were/are treated as such.
So there is no need to go around saying you're German, Irish, Native, etc...AND BLACK.
You might as well just say black, unless asked. Because you look black, and will treated as black. So it's best to try and uplift blacks as much as possible in your case, instead of trying to do anything else.
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| 11/23/2014 3:44:36 PM |
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patriottype
Salt Point, NY
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The question should be why so many people have a negative view of themselves Or who perpetuates the IDEA THAT BLACK IS UGLY...and who believes it and why.
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| 11/23/2014 3:49:36 PM |
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patriottype
Salt Point, NY
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Just like some black guys that treat women of other races like there something special..........There are black women that seem to think men of other races are better people than black men. I always think they have a negative self-image.
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| 11/23/2014 4:00:47 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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Interesting points Patriot.
That's what I'm trying to tell Twining. She's saying things about blacks, like they are bonafide facts. Like blacks invented being "ghetto" and shit. And she's black herself.
There are many trailer park and hillbilly communities that make black ghettos look like luxury. They tore all the projects down in the south 15 years ago, and "ghetto" blacks all live in subdivisions in the south. While I haven't even gotten into the history of the barbaric and crazy cultures that aren't black yet.
So, that's self-hate, when you put your own race down like that, AND YOU'RE WRONG on top of that!
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| 11/23/2014 4:05:37 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
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Darling, I could talk crap about white folks all day long but you made this thread because some black women prefer white meat over black meat. You see to make yourself considerable comfortable in threads like that yet disappear like a ghost in threads started by black men kissing other culture's asses.
This self hate you keep bringing up. It seems like you might have it yourself since you've been quite interested in attacking black women who love white men. If that didn't offend you personally, you wouldn't be making such a fuss.
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| 11/23/2014 4:17:03 PM |
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nile_valley
Los Angeles, CA
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Sweetheart, I'm not offended by any woman dating anyone else.
What I address, is when people do like you just did...and put down my race, gender, religion, or nationality in the process.
The reason you see me in thread like this more than in other threads, is because obviously...more of a particular race or gender keeps doing the same thing.
And this topic is not gender based, but goes for both genders.
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| 11/23/2014 4:23:59 PM |
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patriottype
Salt Point, NY
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There is a difference between dating outside of your race vs refusing to date a particular race even your own.......some people are racist against their kin..........
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| 11/23/2014 4:33:47 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Big Timber, MT
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"Ghetto" was historically associated with German-Jewish culture. But since "some of you" insist on changing the rest of history, go ahead and change this tidbit, too...
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| 11/23/2014 4:34:48 PM |
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kiki7651
Melvindale, MI
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5 and 6
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| 11/23/2014 4:36:58 PM |
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ronleeseberg
Mauston, WI
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Date who you want OP.
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| 11/23/2014 4:43:44 PM |
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niterydah
Houston, TX
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..........................someone who doesnt date a person of their own race or ethnic group does this i think for different reasons but mostly they find the culture of the other race that they are targeting for dating to be more appealing than their own....n i find in most cases is that a person who dont date their own race mostly have a very poor understanding of their race culture so they run from it n wish to separate themselves from their race culture
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