12/31/2014 3:57:47 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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What do you do if your ready for a serious relationship but the person your with isn't? I mean I dunno because we dated before and started talking again here lately and I want to have a serious commitment but he doesn't  
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12/31/2014 3:58:59 PM |
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xray6

Fort Stewart, GA
27, joined Mar. 2012
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Why you ask
You just going to stay around anyway
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12/31/2014 4:00:14 PM |
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italianroyalty

London
United Kingdom
21, joined Jul. 2014
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here is the solution.
Shotgun wedding.
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12/31/2014 4:01:12 PM |
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mac000001
Manchester, NH
45, joined Dec. 2013
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Flirt with his best friend
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12/31/2014 4:02:08 PM |
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riflessivo

AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
40, joined Jan. 2014
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Are you ok with continuing without your needs being met?
If so carry on.
If not ask a bunch of strangers what you already know 
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12/31/2014 4:02:43 PM |
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poppinpopout
Claymont, DE
52, joined Dec. 2014
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Move on.
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12/31/2014 4:03:03 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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Flirt with his best friend
That's not a good answer that would just push him away
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12/31/2014 4:04:03 PM |
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d__u__b

Athens, GA
50, joined Jul. 2012
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you're the mommy of 22?
at YOUR age???
my, but you've been a busy little beaver. 
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12/31/2014 4:04:16 PM |
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dixie_dancer

Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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regularly smoking mother of 2 at 23 ... and you wonder why he won't commit ...
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12/31/2014 4:04:27 PM |
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mac000001
Manchester, NH
45, joined Dec. 2013
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I beg to differ
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12/31/2014 4:04:53 PM |
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brandycool1

Syracuse, NY
44, joined Jun. 2013
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Idk...usually they're ready first.
1. Back off and let things happen when they happen.
2. State your piece and move on if his goals aren't yours.
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12/31/2014 4:06:02 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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you're the mommy of 22?
at YOUR age???
my, but you've been a busy little beaver. 
No I do not have 22 kids
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12/31/2014 4:07:15 PM |
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extortionegos

Hayward, CA
37, joined Apr. 2014
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Cut him off and find a new lover
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12/31/2014 4:07:29 PM |
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dixie_dancer

Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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No I do not have 22 kids
your username says you do
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12/31/2014 4:08:03 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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I don't want to move on I have very strong feelings for him and my needs are being met
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12/31/2014 4:08:54 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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you set the rules to begin with
either go for them or don't
some tries to change it mid stream
work out the new rules and o for them or don't
whats so hard about it?
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12/31/2014 4:08:54 PM |
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extortionegos

Hayward, CA
37, joined Apr. 2014
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Stay with it then
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12/31/2014 4:09:17 PM |
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italianroyalty

London
United Kingdom
21, joined Jul. 2014
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regularly smoking mother of 2 at 23 ... and you wonder why he won't commit ...
He'll commit, but he'll need a tall building to jump off of.
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12/31/2014 4:09:49 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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your username says you do
No I was 22 when I made my profile
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12/31/2014 4:10:25 PM |
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dixie_dancer

Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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I don't want to move on I have very strong feelings for him and my needs are being met
are your childrens' needs being met? while you're busy pining over this guy who's busy getting his game on with other ladies?
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12/31/2014 4:12:14 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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Heck yea my kids needs are being met
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12/31/2014 4:13:19 PM |
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technologist_1
Powell, OH
49, joined Dec. 2014
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Mommy,
There are TWO words that you DO NOT say to men: COMITTMENT, and MARRIAGE. Unless you want to see them run as far away from you, as they can!
As you get older, it will be so much easier to just "go with the flow"!
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12/31/2014 4:13:45 PM |
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d__u__b

Athens, GA
50, joined Jul. 2012
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No I do not have 22 kids
well, there's your problem right there. nobody likes dishonesty. 
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12/31/2014 4:14:17 PM |
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dixie_dancer

Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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Heck yea my kids needs are being met
uh huh ...
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12/31/2014 4:14:52 PM |
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mac000001
Manchester, NH
45, joined Dec. 2013
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Kids pffft
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12/31/2014 4:17:01 PM |
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italianroyalty

London
United Kingdom
21, joined Jul. 2014
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I bet they are living under the staircase like harry potter.
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12/31/2014 4:18:02 PM |
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dasnixter

Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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Do you know an underage cousin, not his sister, that you can use to blackmail his hide into marriage?
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12/31/2014 4:19:24 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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I bet they are living under the staircase like harry potter.
STFU no they are not I love my kids and take very good care of them
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12/31/2014 4:22:13 PM |
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poppinpopout
Claymont, DE
52, joined Dec. 2014
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I don't want to move on I have very strong feelings for him and my needs are being met
Then don't move on, but you can't get angry at him if he doesn't change his mind since he did tell you he was not ready for a commitment. At some point, when you are ready, you will decide how much time you are willing to wait to see if he changes his mind. You may also kick yourself for waiting too long hoping he will change his mind and he doesn't. I would never hope to change someone's mind.
But if it's working for you now, fine, go with it.
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12/31/2014 4:32:03 PM |
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fishnthec

Mesquite, TX
63, joined Oct. 2010
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At some point, you have to realize if your needs are truly being fulfilled.
For most men, this comes fairly easy. For women, they may question this for the rest of their lives.
Don't kill me, I'm only the messenger! 
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12/31/2014 4:33:10 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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jes a curious question
at your age, why would you want to do sum like get married?
odds are agianst it lasting
especially for another 70ish yrs
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12/31/2014 4:34:14 PM |
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dixie_dancer

Kansas City, KS
26, joined Feb. 2013
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jes a curious question
at your age, why would you want to do sum like get married?
odds are agianst it lasting
especially for another 70ish yrs
especially with 2/22 kids already ...
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12/31/2014 4:36:16 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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right
and those are good reasons for him not to want to get married
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12/31/2014 4:38:03 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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Just to set the record straight I DO NOT have 22 kids damn
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12/31/2014 4:39:08 PM |
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extortionegos

Hayward, CA
37, joined Apr. 2014
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That's a lot of kids yo
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12/31/2014 4:39:28 PM |
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dasnixter

Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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Do you have access to a live chicken?
Are familiar in the black art of voodoo?
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12/31/2014 4:40:28 PM |
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technologist_1
Powell, OH
49, joined Dec. 2014
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Do you have access to a live chicken?
Are familiar in the black art of voodoo?
  
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12/31/2014 4:40:46 PM |
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mr_larrybob
Ruidoso, NM
94, joined Sep. 2014
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phuck relationships.
Go get the penis that you are after, take a bath afterwards and go to work and earn your own money.
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12/31/2014 4:41:32 PM |
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italianroyalty

London
United Kingdom
21, joined Jul. 2014
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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12/31/2014 4:41:41 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax

Big Timber, MT
24, joined Apr. 2014
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Two ideas:
1. Quit smoking
2. Planet Fitness...

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12/31/2014 4:41:53 PM |
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brandycool1

Syracuse, NY
44, joined Jun. 2013
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Lol!
You must admit that there's a good reason for people to see the screen name " mommy of 22" and come to the obvious conclusion.
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12/31/2014 4:44:44 PM |
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mary__me
Lake City, AR
51, joined Mar. 2014
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Is this a spin off from the Dugger family?
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12/31/2014 4:47:12 PM |
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eyesofmedusa

San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Hmm...how many single dads are here...how many are asked if their kids needs are being met....hell how many are asked if.they are even paying support ?
Then picless pros making comments on looks ot body shape....priceless..
Oh and I am sure she didn't introduce herself to him using her DH user name....has no.impact at all...
But carry on...
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12/31/2014 4:57:41 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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<--- single dad and posting
what about it?
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12/31/2014 5:10:02 PM |
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hisbaby4ever13
Ramseur, NC
32, joined Jul. 2014
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Move on
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12/31/2014 5:13:03 PM |
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driver406

Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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Simple!
The level of commitment is always controlled by the person who is least interested. So if he wants to be "just friends" you either accept him on those terms or dump him again and find another.
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12/31/2014 5:14:25 PM |
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mustangwriter

Boerne, TX
54, joined Nov. 2009
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What do you do if your ready for a serious relationship but the person your with isn't? I mean I dunno because we dated before and started talking again here lately and I want to have a serious commitment but he doesn't  
I know what to do...but I ain't tellin'.
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12/31/2014 5:14:33 PM |
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icecreamsammich

Abilene, KS
49, joined May. 2014
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Simple!
The level of commitment is always controlled by the person who is least interested. So if he wants to be "just friends" you either accept him on those terms or dump him again and find another.
That is pretty much it
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12/31/2014 5:29:20 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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Simple!
The level of commitment is always controlled by the person who is least interested. So if he wants to be "just friends" you either accept him on those terms or dump him again and find another.
dependent upon which interest.
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12/31/2014 6:54:42 PM |
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eyesofmedusa

San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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<--- single dad and posting
what about it?
Read what I wrote 
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12/31/2014 6:55:51 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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i did and i didn't get correlation
so i asked
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12/31/2014 7:03:13 PM |
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eyesofmedusa

San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Hmm...how many single dads are here...how many are asked if their kids needs are being met....hell how many are asked if.they are even paying support ?
Then picless pros making comments on looks ot body shape....priceless..
Oh and I am sure she didn't introduce herself to him using her DH user name....has no.impact at all...
But carry on... 
Do you get asked if your kids needs are being met Mis ?
Do you get asked if you are a good father ? Do ppl accuse you of being less than a good parent because you may or may not be looking to date ?
Probably not..........but many asked this OP these questions and eluded to much while posting about her question...........
And that had sht to do with her question..........but the double standard was Large and in Charge.........front and center.............
That was my point 
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12/31/2014 7:05:17 PM |
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thomasclement77
Florence, OR
28, joined Nov. 2014
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I move on to greener pastures.
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12/31/2014 7:06:09 PM |
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thomasclement77
Florence, OR
28, joined Nov. 2014
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Simple!
The level of commitment is always controlled by the person who is least interested. So if he wants to be "just friends" you either accept him on those terms or dump him again and find another.
This is genius. I don't agree with most of what you say but this is spot on.
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12/31/2014 7:07:54 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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i don't get asked about my kids
i don't include my kids to the public
and ifn asked, i'd mostly likely be apt to answer, it's none the persons business
my kids have no bearing on my post i this forum
further, my kids have no bearing on my dating, beyond making it know i have kids and "she" will have to work around things pertaining to that at times.
AND THEY AREN'T MEETING THEM unless WE get serious
so anything about my kids has nothing to do with qualifying my right to post
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12/31/2014 7:13:16 PM |
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eyesofmedusa

San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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But ppl feel it is fine when it is a female poster................
Just pointing out the obvious hun.....
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12/31/2014 7:13:34 PM |
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chambella

New South Wales
Australia
94, joined Jun. 2014
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I don't want to move on I have very strong feelings for him and my needs are being met
You cant 'make' someone love you, commit to you, just because YOU want them to.. and you posed the question but you are not willing to listen to anyone... Why the heck even ask the question..
Carry on....
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12/31/2014 7:17:40 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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very recently a woman msg'd on another site.
right off starts asking about my kids
i'll share some generic info abut them, but i won't go into any real detail
within a few msgs's she's talking about if we hit it off she'd like to meet them
i explained i don't allow that because if they do and a relationship starts they may get hurt if it craters
she throws out that she'd require it
"thank you for your interest and time, but we got nothing else to talk about. goodbye"
was my response
simply my kids are my concern... not some stranger that thinks i have subcomb to her approval, methods or expectations.
people got that shit flat a** backwards.... "you" got to meet mine just to get PRIVATE information, much less close.
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12/31/2014 7:18:28 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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But ppl feel it is fine when it is a female poster................
Just pointing out the obvious hun..... 
this people didn't do it
but you choose to lump me into it
YET AGAIN
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12/31/2014 7:21:32 PM |
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mommy_of_22
Lagrange, GA
23, joined Jul. 2014
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You cant 'make' someone love you, commit to you, just because YOU want them to.. and you posed the question but you are not willing to listen to anyone... Why the heck even ask the question..
Carry on.... 
I just was able to get back on I have been feeding my kids and getting them ready for bed and I didn't Say that he didn't have feelings for me he just isn't ready to become serious yet because he says he's not financially stable enough yet so I dunno
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