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jer3552

Vale, OR
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Its an archaic term and maybe not politically correct, but I first noticed it in junior high, where one female would be surrounded by other females who praised her and looked up to her and were willing to shower praise and allegiance to her ...ive seen it when I worked in nursing homes also, so it seems to go on till the end....Ive never been able to grasp or understand it. Can anyone shed light, without being ugly or mean please, and no need to name names...this phenomenom must serve some kind of useful purpose..
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1/6/2015 11:41:21 AM |
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ifiweruidh8me2

Cheyenne, WY
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1st.....queen bee of my castle...LOL 
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1/6/2015 11:41:38 AM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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  ...Ducks rule
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1/6/2015 11:43:07 AM |
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kingslayer99

Arlington, TN
50, joined Oct. 2014
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OP its called mean girl syndrome. And its alive and well on these forums!
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1/6/2015 11:43:32 AM |
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24milkduds

San Francisco, CA
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I tend to stay away from women and men who behave this way...I just can't spend my time kissing up to anyone...I don't follow, my path is faith and being just me
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1/6/2015 11:44:03 AM |
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1sirens

Champaign, IL
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There is a code that we beautiful follow...
Very strict code thats been passed down to only the most beautiful people.
It started back in the days of Cleopatra and still we practice the code to this very day

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1/6/2015 11:44:11 AM |
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ibane

Zanesville, OH
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Till next week jer 
The queen bee is a bossy lil thing
The rest are scared of her...its not about respect
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1/6/2015 11:44:25 AM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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good attitude at milkduds
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1/6/2015 11:44:27 AM |
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eyesofmedusa

San Antonio, TX
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Hmmmm...and strong men hv a ...posse ..I.think it is called now....
Not sure it is gender specific thing hun...
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1/6/2015 11:45:38 AM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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good point eyes   
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1/6/2015 11:46:24 AM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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There is a code that we beautiful follow...
Very strict code thats been passed down to only the most beautiful people.
It started back in the days of Cleopatra and still we practice the code to this very day
 u r my ebony queen like Cleopatra  
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1/6/2015 11:47:15 AM |
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24milkduds

San Francisco, CA
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Ahh jer
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1/6/2015 11:47:19 AM |
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ibane

Zanesville, OH
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Hmmmm...and strong men hv a ...posse ..I.think it is called now....
Not sure it is gender specific thing hun... 
Only those who have a reason to be afraid of sumthin.
Or lack self confidence
Two different things 
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1/6/2015 11:50:12 AM |
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amicablyme
Wheeler, IN
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She is usually a tolerable b*tch. Arrogantly leading and controlling others that look up to her. Her clan is full of wantabee's. It could be any or all things she posses, from material, physical, to intelligence. She excells in social skill and understands her charisma is a powerful tool.
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1/6/2015 11:50:22 AM |
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1sirens

Champaign, IL
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u r my ebony queen like Cleopatra  
I was just focking around. .but thank you jer
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1/6/2015 11:50:31 AM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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my mom always said wolves run in packs, men walk alone
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1/6/2015 11:52:29 AM |
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riflessivo

AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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Geez Jer what women do you know?
I'm glad I can balance happily between men and women.
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1/6/2015 11:53:11 AM |
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kingslayer99

Arlington, TN
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Quote from jer3552:
"my mom always said wolves run in packs, men walk alone"
Im sorry so? I thought we where talking about women? Do I troll with a pack on these ridiculous joke forums flagging people like these hags do?
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1/6/2015 11:53:14 AM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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maybe its a yankee thing rifle
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1/6/2015 11:55:02 AM |
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kingslayer99

Arlington, TN
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Quote from amicablyme:
"She is usually a tolerable b*tch. Arrogantly leading and controlling others that look up to her. Her clan is full of wantabee's. It could be any or all things she posses, from material, physical, to intelligence. She excells in social skill and understands her charisma is a powerful tool."
My God a woman who actually posts on topic and answer's questions! Now if she would post a less scary pic she might get approached.
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1/6/2015 11:57:36 AM |
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riflessivo

AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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Could be Jer 
I can imagine it working with cheerleaders 
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1/6/2015 11:58:18 AM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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She is usually a tolerable b*tch. Arrogantly leading and controlling others that look up to her. Her clan is full of wantabee's. It could be any or all things she posses, from material, physical, to intelligence. She excells in social skill and understands her charisma is a powerful tool.
..tyvm it really exists,,its not my imagination ...thank you and I believe u made some valid points, could omit the b*tch and substitute with woman or person though  
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1/6/2015 11:59:00 AM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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Could be Jer
I can imagine it working with cheerleaders   good British humor....
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1/6/2015 11:59:27 AM |
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helmholtzwatson

Raleigh, NC
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Hmm....maybe I'm missing this one. Is this the Diva-like thing? 
I've had GFs that were definately the "Alpha" of their women friends...but they got that way thru humor, love & general badassitude. Not any kind of controlling cattiness.
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1/6/2015 12:00:57 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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Diva like is a more modern term for it I believe
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1/6/2015 12:06:39 PM |
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fishnthec

Mesquite, TX
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All you have to do is spend time in an office, industrial environment, or social gathering of any kind to notice;
Men will insult each other all the time, but they really don't mean it.
Women will compliment each other all the time- they don't mean it either! 
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1/6/2015 12:07:31 PM |
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playingindirt

Eugene, OR
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they have women (men too) around them that can't think for themselves and can't come up with an original thought between them.
Its no honor.
they're usually control freaks.
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1/6/2015 12:08:34 PM |
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barrydalmi

Baltimore, MD
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It is a very real thing. There are great books and studies on it. Men have a similar thing the idea of the "alpha male" in a group. It's also known a "pecking order"- a term I am sure many have heard.
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1/6/2015 12:09:50 PM |
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ifiweruidh8me2

Cheyenne, WY
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She is usually a tolerable b*tch. Arrogantly leading and controlling others that look up to her. Her clan is full of wantabee's. It could be any or all things she posses, from material, physical, to intelligence. She excells in social skill and understands her charisma is a powerful tool.
Oh.. well then I'm still a follower...      
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1/6/2015 12:10:26 PM |
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helmholtzwatson

Raleigh, NC
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Diva like is a more modern term for it I believe
Gotcha.
I do know somebody like that (in fact Gogo has met her). She's very funny & fun to be around in very short doses...but bathouse crazy & dramarama 24/7.
Seems to go thru sychophants pretty quickly, too.
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1/6/2015 12:10:43 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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thanks guys and gals I now see that it exists with both genders...good points 
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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see:
back handed compliment
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1/6/2015 12:13:12 PM |
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chris_90352

Sykesville, MD
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1/6/2015 12:15:38 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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large stinger 
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1/6/2015 12:15:48 PM |
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ifiweruidh8me2

Cheyenne, WY
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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1/6/2015 12:20:00 PM |
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playground1

Los Angeles, CA
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Jer, it's just a different
Version of a clique.
Generally led by a not so nice insecure person who is bossy, two-faced and enjoys drama
A group of insecure people with minimal social skills seem to gravitate to this person.
These types need someone to look up to, to be led by, so they feel like they belong...pretty much weak personalities
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1/6/2015 12:20:39 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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 tyvm princess
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1/6/2015 12:23:33 PM |
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chris_90352

Sykesville, MD
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Is it kind of like kingslayer's "female wolf packs"?
https://DateHookup.dating/Thread-1395106.htm
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1/6/2015 12:24:35 PM |
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1sirens

Champaign, IL
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I don't think all queen bees want to be around weak minded people. ..some surround themselves with other bold out going people
Who wants to lead a pack of lames
I need to be around people who exude excellence. .in real life at least
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1/6/2015 12:26:55 PM |
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ifiweruidh8me2

Cheyenne, WY
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Is it kind of like kingslayer's "female wolf packs"?
https://DateHookup.dating/Thread-1395106.htm
umm no I believe what King is referring to is deeply rooted in unhealthy paranoia.....SO CLOSE.. yet soo far away!!
 
@ Star I agree 100% and this too with men. 
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1/6/2015 12:27:40 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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great point ladies  
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1/6/2015 12:32:50 PM |
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riflessivo

AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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Jer question. Do you consider any of us ladies to be like this?
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1/6/2015 12:33:50 PM |
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playground1

Los Angeles, CA
53, joined Feb. 2011
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@jer
I used to see these
Cliques in school
And still do occasionally
watching the little underlings
vying for attention from the
Bee, I'm thinking "good Lord,
have some self respect! Grow a backbone"
It's funny and pathetic
At the same time
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1/6/2015 12:36:26 PM |
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whalemstrsback

Corning, CA
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i
know
all
about
henpecked!!!
i have chickens...
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1/6/2015 12:38:11 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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Jer question. Do you consider any of us ladies to be like this?
no I do not but please answer this...does manc refer to someone from Manchester? u r smart and I am not intimidated nor afraid to ask u things I don't know 
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1/6/2015 12:38:43 PM |
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eyesofmedusa

San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2012
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Hmm....maybe I'm missing this one. Is this the Diva-like thing?
I've had GFs that were definately the "Alpha" of their women friends...but they got that way thru humor, love & general badassitude. Not any kind of controlling cattiness.

I hv known.many strong women like this....they didn't need hollow accolades...they didn't need for ppl to agree...they didn't need absolute adoration....
It was mutual...shared...she was just the strongest.,or appeared to.be so to.those who.didnt know her...
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1/6/2015 12:38:56 PM |
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riflessivo

AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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Yes it does Jer 
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1/6/2015 12:39:48 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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see rifle im getting smarter just hanging out with u....thanks for that  ...should I call u Staf?? 
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1/6/2015 12:40:55 PM |
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riflessivo

AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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I'm not sure I'm of help Jer but I'm glad you think so 
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1/6/2015 12:41:35 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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u r very bright rifle  
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1/6/2015 12:41:40 PM |
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miscbyproduct

Cleveland, TX
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guy went int eh service, come out worked i the state in commo
put i his yrs for retirement, but was still too young
went to work for att, well on his way to another retirement
along th way he got married
they live in a beach house which in texas is always prone to hurricanes and flooding
she was a queen bee type and he went right along with it
white furniture covered in clear plastic covers
white carpet, with clear plastic mats for walking on
2 kids that at like beat down dogs
i can't even begin to understand how he managed to stay with that thing
if worse cme to wrose, get in the boat, go fishing and never come back
have the checks dpeposited in central america somewhere
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1/6/2015 12:46:00 PM |
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playingindirt

Eugene, OR
59, joined Mar. 2014
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Quote from jer3552:
"my mom always said wolves run in packs, men walk alone"
Im sorry so? I thought we where talking about women? Do I troll with a pack on these ridiculous joke forums flagging people like these hags do?
I bet you do because you block women that tell what they really think of your horrible disposition.
you block them so it appears like you're the big man when you say don't tell me to back off when you were out of line.
you're a punk a** little man that has to make your remakes towards people childish as you swing your little pink pale around pretending to be a man. a orange and pink to-to is all your missing.
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1/6/2015 12:46:34 PM |
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riflessivo

AlmafuerteStaffordshire
United Kingdom
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I bet you do because you block women that tell what they really think of your horrible disposition.
you block them so it appears like you're the big man when you say don't tell me to back off when you were out of line.
you're a punk a** little man that has to make your remakes towards people childish as you swing your little pink pale around pretending to be a man. a orange and pink to-to is all your missing.
Nicely put Anne 
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1/6/2015 12:47:14 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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hi playingindirt how r u princess?  good job Ann
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1/6/2015 12:48:41 PM |
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playground1

Los Angeles, CA
53, joined Feb. 2011
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I don't think all queen bees want to be around weak minded people. ..some surround themselves with other bold out going people
Who wants to lead a pack of lames
I need to be around people who exude excellence. .in real life at least 
...Pack of lames
Good point Star! ... but
I think, when the Bee starts looking around for someone stronger, she's losing her confidence and becoming an underling.
You can't be a Queen Bee without servants
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1/6/2015 12:50:28 PM |
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baldhead1va

Richmond, VA
49, joined Jan. 2014
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Jer is quite the lady's man; I see ya brotha!
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1/6/2015 12:51:53 PM |
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jer3552

Vale, OR
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thanks bro...wish I was as young and handsome as u my friend 
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1/6/2015 12:54:13 PM |
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ifiweruidh8me2

Cheyenne, WY
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I bet you do because you block women that tell what they really think of your horrible disposition.
you block them so it appears like you're the big man when you say don't tell me to back off when you were out of line.
you're a punk a** little man that has to make your remakes towards people childish as you swing your little pink pale around pretending to be a man. a orange and pink to-to is all your missing.
Would you or anyone please be so kind to tell King I said HI & That I sadly decline his request to be my DOM daddy.....I would appreciate it so much!! He blocked me before I could answer his private messages!! Thank you!!  
Quoting is fine too!! 
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1/6/2015 12:55:36 PM |
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playingindirt

Eugene, OR
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hi playingindirt how r u princess?    good job Ann
I'm no princess jer. just a woman that's grounded enough that I don't have to talk down to people or mistreated them to make out like I'm something.
he really had it coming but I'm sorry I brought negatively into your thread.
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