| 1/19/2015 8:55:39 AM |
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mistermister81
Opa Locka, FL
33, joined Jan. 2014
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nevermind...
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| 1/19/2015 8:58:36 AM |
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sweetsinglelife
Waterford, CT
57, joined Jul. 2014
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Which is it? She gave it up before the date or there wasn't any nookie?
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| 1/19/2015 9:02:07 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Which is it? She gave it up before the date or there wasn't any nookie?
He's losing track of his story.
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| 1/19/2015 9:14:43 AM |
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sweetsinglelife
Waterford, CT
57, joined Jul. 2014
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He's losing track of his story.
He'll think something up.
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| 1/19/2015 9:20:16 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
49, joined Nov. 2014
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My last date started well, and went sour quickly. Told me I was not genuine. And then asked me to buy her a car. I laughed.
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| 1/19/2015 9:22:53 AM |
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whalemstrsback
Corning, CA
57, joined Oct. 2014
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i
am
rethinking
this
whole
dating
thing
now...
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| 1/19/2015 9:23:36 AM |
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a4umposter
San Antonio, TX
47, joined Dec. 2014
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| 1/19/2015 11:05:22 AM |
Ever go on a date thats a complete waste of time |
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layoutguy1960
Irwin, PA
54, joined Feb. 2012
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So far they've all been wastes of time ..except for short term fun
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| 1/21/2015 11:53:00 AM |
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bruce_2014
Dothan, AL
59, joined Jan. 2014
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Women play more games then men because they already have an idea what we eventually want. A woman already know what kind of dealings she want or don't want out of a man before she even goes on a date. The date is just the bonus either way no matter if she was just trying to get or free date or if she was going to f**k you. The ones that know they want you sexually really have no hang ups about taking her out on some expensive date. Not saying don't take a woman out on a date, but if you're not getting what you want out of it then it don't make sense. Trust me she will be giving what you want to someone else.
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| 1/21/2015 11:59:59 AM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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Meeting another human is never a complete waste of time. You may not be a romantic match--it may not even be someone you want to stay in touch with at all--but there's always something to be learned, enjoyed, etc. if that's what you're looking for.
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| 1/21/2015 12:03:06 PM |
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toxictears1970
Lafitte, LA
44, joined Dec. 2014
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 yep
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| 1/21/2015 12:04:42 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
47, joined Jul. 2013
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Quote from lilod: Meeting another human is never a complete waste of time. You may not be a romantic match--it may not even be someone you want to stay in touch with at all--but there's always something to be learned, enjoyed, etc. if that's what you're looking for.
Mostly this. 
There have been one or two exceptions.
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| 1/21/2015 12:39:09 PM |
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sir_hugo_drax
Big Timber, MT
24, joined Apr. 2014
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If a date is ever a "waste of money" then your broke a** shouldn't be dating anyway...
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| 1/21/2015 3:53:06 PM |
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truheartofgold
Saugerties, NY
56, joined May. 2012
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I don't think I've had a date that was a complete waste of time. I like meeting new people and sometimes I may have more in common with some people. But I usually enjoy myself either way.
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| 1/21/2015 3:54:09 PM |
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rightguyforu72
Naperville, IL
32, joined Nov. 2014
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Gotheon wants to go on a date with me.
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| 1/21/2015 3:56:55 PM |
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e_girlfriend
Šachovskaja
Russia
28, joined Aug. 2013
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No, but you can always get up and go.
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| 1/21/2015 4:23:25 PM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
60, joined Jun. 2007
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I had a date with a gal in high school where I just couldn't make a connection.
I found out later that she was a lesbian.
http://www.micheleisam.com/jasmine/
She's the one on the left.
[Edited 1/21/2015 4:26:21 PM ]
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| 1/21/2015 4:39:59 PM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
63, joined Oct. 2010
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Maybe once or twice. I have some kind of fun or learning experience with most every date.
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| 1/21/2015 4:53:55 PM |
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lindsey_g3
Dewitt, MI
31, joined Apr. 2013
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You ever go on a date with someone and its completely boring or they piss you off and you want your money back.
I used to think it was rude to go dutch when you ask a woman out but considering my last three feel like its a necessity.
What do you think
When the date is that bad, I end it early and ask for a seperate check. if a man asks me on a date and I pick up my own check its a guarantee that I dont intend to see him again.
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| 1/21/2015 4:58:57 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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I been meanin' to go on one of them dates, but
I gotta get the family farm back before I can think about that-Delmar.
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| 1/21/2015 5:01:24 PM |
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
46, joined Aug. 2013
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I usually get to know people pretty good first before I agree to a date to avoid that problem. Meet & greet for coffee is better than a date if you're trying to see if you have any chemistry.
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| 1/21/2015 5:03:30 PM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
51, joined Dec. 2007
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Yes. I finish the date. I thank them graciously, pay the bill gladly and go on about my business.
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| 1/21/2015 5:06:23 PM |
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mortara
Pittsburgh, PA
61, joined Feb. 2014
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Actually the proper way to do this is say you need to go to the restroom and head for the door. Although winter time is a little hard to do this because she may ask you why your taking your coat to the restroom. Don't ask how I know this.
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| 1/21/2015 5:07:06 PM |
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happylauren
Crown Point, IN
53, joined May. 2013
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A coffee date is really all that is necessary. Why waste money on someone you don't even know?
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| 1/21/2015 5:09:06 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Yes...i wanted to go to the car and do him right there right then in the backseat...he was having none of it...and i wanted my 2.00 back for coffee....
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| 1/21/2015 5:09:52 PM |
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jer3552
Vale, OR
60, joined Oct. 2013
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| 1/21/2015 5:12:47 PM |
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annick1234
AngualastoNew South Wales
Australia
26, joined Dec. 2014
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yes we ended up shopping but yeah after that the guy was like there was no chemistry 
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| 1/21/2015 5:20:08 PM |
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dasnixter
Jessieville, AR
54, joined Jul. 2010
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"A coffee date"
You have to bring a spare Starbucks carry in mug to the table.
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| 1/21/2015 5:30:51 PM |
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fishnthec
Mesquite, TX
63, joined Oct. 2010
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A coffee date is really all that is necessary. Why waste money on someone you don't even know?
If I ask a lady out with a date in mind, and she says "We'll have to meet for coffee first", I'll usually tell her, "No Thanks" and ask someone else out on a date!
It's my expense, and if a lady thinks she is too good to go out and share a reasonably priced meal together with me, and spend a couple of hours to get to know one another, then forget it. I've got better things to do than sit around and drink coffee with someone I don't even know. It seems all too pretentious to me.
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| 1/21/2015 5:35:10 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
58, joined Jun. 2011
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B*tches and she f**ks up?
Yep she did by going on a date with someone who thinks of women in this way 
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| 1/21/2015 5:44:52 PM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
41, joined Sep. 2010
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I prefer to think that the OP's screen name is Fatal Bert.
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| 1/21/2015 5:46:07 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
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| 1/21/2015 7:34:43 PM |
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notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
54, joined Feb. 2013
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You ever go on a date with someone and its completely boring or they piss you off and you want your money back.
I used to think it was rude to go dutch when you ask a woman out but considering my last three feel like its a necessity.
What do you think
Yep, once. Bought her breakfast, and very little conversation the entire time. No follow up phone calls or nothing. Complete waste of time! 
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| 1/21/2015 7:39:32 PM |
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notdeadyet60
Dixon, IL
54, joined Feb. 2013
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Why would i take a date to McDonald's
And downtown Chicago isnt cheap
Chicago was your mistake to begin with! $150 for a date? Seriously?
You didn't think that through very well did you? 
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| 1/21/2015 7:43:46 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
48, joined Aug. 2012
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If I ask a lady out with a date in mind, and she says "We'll have to meet for coffee first", I'll usually tell her, "No Thanks" and ask someone else out on a date!
It's my expense, and if a lady thinks she is too good to go out and share a reasonably priced meal together with me, and spend a couple of hours to get to know one another, then forget it. I've got better things to do than sit around and drink coffee with someone I don't even know. It seems all too pretentious to me.
I agree that it's silly the protective measures many people seem to think to decide whether or not to "invest" in spending an hour with another human over dinner, but how is it that you have better things to do than sit and talk and drink coffee but not better things to do than sit and talk and eat a meal? What's the philosophical difference?
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| 1/21/2015 8:43:36 PM |
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miscbyproduct
Cleveland, TX
54, joined Apr. 2012
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going just to eat, no need take a date
frankly, nor is there jes for chit chat... flirt with the waitress
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| 1/21/2015 8:46:37 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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I think we've all done that but not intentionally.
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| 1/21/2015 9:16:45 PM |
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samantha89ky
Kimper, KY
25, joined Apr. 2014
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yes! i met 3 different guys from the internet a few months back. we talked awhile before meeting & shared pics. but when we finally met in person, OMG. they did not look like their pics! they all had a lil more lbs too... 3 guys on 3 different days!!! what was the luck of that? plus they could not hold a conversation. i was the one that had to keep talking & asking questions. *because of my bad luck, i havent went out with a guy since. im afraid that i'll be wasting my time again and be to nice & stay awhile. *only if they would of help with the conversation some, it would of been fine!
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| 1/21/2015 9:23:54 PM |
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ruthsan6
Orlando, FL
53, joined Dec. 2013
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Well NO ONE said dating is a guarantee.........you should have had a clue before the date if she was gonna be a charmer or not OR maybe it was YOU she didn't like...that could go both ways and she could be here posting it somewhere else.... They always say we women have to kiss a lot of frogs before getting the prince..and that goes both ways...
Now as far as dutch...nothing wrong with it as long as you state it in a polite way and that it's understood...nothing ventured nothing gained...
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| 1/21/2015 9:26:57 PM |
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ruthsan6
Orlando, FL
53, joined Dec. 2013
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You don't have to offer dinner to meetup for the first time...you can say "let's go out for coffee" that way you can see if it works w/o having your wallet suffer any damage..
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| 1/21/2015 9:32:01 PM |
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kingslayer99
Arlington, TN
50, joined Oct. 2014
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Yeah I do em just like I did happy Lauren stick em with the bill sneak out the back jack! After all time is money!
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| 1/21/2015 9:33:57 PM |
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SunrizeSunset
Dahaneh ye KasharBuenos Aires
Argentina
37, joined Dec. 2014
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Little pzzy boys
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| 1/21/2015 9:42:25 PM |
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SunrizeSunset
Dahaneh ye KasharBuenos Aires
Argentina
37, joined Dec. 2014
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herpy trait
Yeah I do em just like I did happy Lauren stick em with the bill sneak out the back jack! After all time is money!
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| 1/21/2015 10:19:11 PM |
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smstephanie
Moorhead, MN
41, joined May. 2014
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Im not complaining just asking a question
And i spent that much because it was what i wanted to do and fyi i already got the p*ssy before the date
Was just asking a question
Then you have nothing to ask about...and fyi if that's how you ask a question that you present it as a complaining cry sack, then you may want to work on your pesentation of a sentence.
Because of all the crying these days i read in the forums, I chose to pay my own way..always. I don't want someone worrying about their wallet and or anything they feel may have been a waste.
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| 1/21/2015 11:06:45 PM |
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debyduh
Hamburg, PA
51, joined May. 2014
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Why did you spend THAT much on a first date?
Really. Why?
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| 1/21/2015 11:25:17 PM |
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artist820
Tehachapi, CA
58, joined Jan. 2013
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yeah, if you're a cheap f**k. If the cost of the date is a concern you're too f**king poor to be dating.
he's got that right
Yes, OP, especially when the date turns into an interview.
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| 1/22/2015 2:05:02 AM |
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spaceface79
Des Moines, IA
35, joined Mar. 2014
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yeah, if you're a cheap f**k. If the cost of the date is a concern you're too f**king poor to be dating.
For. real.
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| 1/22/2015 2:09:35 AM |
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sanchenuss
Waterloo, SC
32, joined Jan. 2013
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ever make a post on date hook up thats a complete waste of time?
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| 1/22/2015 3:00:18 AM |
Ever go on a date thats a complete waste of time |
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amargosa
Riddle, OR
56, joined Aug. 2011
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Many times, but unless she behaves like a total a**hole, you just man up and see it through politely to the end.
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