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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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Point blank : I am an editor for a pinup model magazine.I approve photos and answer messages from the gals daily . I love this gig and am not giving it up for anyone . Control and jealousy will run me off quickly .I feel complete honesty is the best way to go but a lot of women do not like this and it can cause problems. I personally have zero interest im dating a model as it gets old fending off other males plus a lot of models are shallow, narcissistic and only interested in you because you can further their career -not exactly relationship material . My question is :should I be upfront immediately or wait to see if a spark has developed before saying something? I'd like some of the ladies' input on this one. As for the males , yeah , I know I'm one lucky bastard, thanks for reminding me for the millionth time . It gets pretty racy with the lingirie, thigh highs and 5"stillettos but would YOU quit?
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| 2/5/2015 4:23:49 PM |
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walt_hallow
Lexington, KY
58, joined Nov. 2014
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An editor for a pin-up magazine on DH? ..
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lookin4him2012
Boone, NC
46, joined Jan. 2012
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An editor for a pin-up magazine on DH? ..
I know right. We get all kinds here for sure. 
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| 2/5/2015 4:26:19 PM |
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m10420
Big Lake, AK
38, joined Mar. 2014
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Right!?
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| 2/5/2015 4:30:52 PM |
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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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Delicious Dolls magazine , any more rude comments?
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| 2/5/2015 4:32:13 PM |
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blondie855
Keokuk, IA
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 2/5/2015 4:34:33 PM |
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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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Send a message to our facebook page and ask for Mike , I will answer .
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| 2/5/2015 4:36:19 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
47, joined Jul. 2013
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I always have rude comments to spare.
OT:
Don't lead with.....
"hi, my name is_______ and I work with pinup models."
Just let the natural flow of conversation and learning about each other happen.
Don't defend your job and don't brag about getting to work with the girls. It's just a job.
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| 2/5/2015 4:38:29 PM |
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ms_holland
Danville, AL
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Hmmm.... On the off chance you are real op, I will answer your question.
I would hope that by the time a lady my age is secure in herself. If I dated you, you gave me proper attention, etc. Why would I worry about other women to begin with? 
I have to good sense to seperate your job from our relationship. And knowing me, I would keep you to occupied for you to be looking at those there self-absorbed models. 
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| 2/5/2015 4:39:55 PM |
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blondie855
Keokuk, IA
59, joined Aug. 2014
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Send a message to our facebook page and ask for Mike , I will answer .
OK and you can send one to me compliments of Playboy and ask if I'm not the next model...
People make fake pages and profiles all the time just to get attention....
And if you've got such a great job and a woman then what the hell are you doing on a FREE Dating site?
Promoting much????
And looking for six figure income 35 years old and younger lol... What an idiot...
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| 2/5/2015 4:40:25 PM |
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lilod
Rochelle, IL
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Usually what you do for a living comes up in natural conversation, right? So, when it comes up, be honest. Of course, most people don't describe their jobs in minute detail at that point, so I wouldn't necessarily describe the photographs you receive and such at that stage (though questions might arise when you explain what you do).
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grneyesrme
Sacramento, CA
46, joined Aug. 2013
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No need for a discussion if you don't have chemistry to begin with.
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| 2/5/2015 4:43:49 PM |
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happytobeme17
Vineland, NJ
60, joined Feb. 2014
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I always have rude comments to spare.
OT:
Don't lead with.....
"hi, my name is_______ and I work with pinup models."
Just let the natural flow of conversation and learning about each other happen.
Don't defend your job and don't brag about getting to work with the girls. It's just a job.
 love your new picture your such a hoot
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wnts2byrs
Conway, AR
42, joined Oct. 2014
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Wait until she asks what you do for a living.
I usually find out relatively quickly as to what someone's line of work is & 95% of the time, it is he who asks me.
Gauge her response & go from there.
You know what you will & will not tolerate.
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| 2/5/2015 4:44:53 PM |
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settee_m
Dallas, TX
61, joined Feb. 2013
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Wait....we're not suppose to ask what you do for a living, and you're not suppose to tell...it's rude or something, I forget at the moment.
Don't tell her what you do until after the honeymoon. That apparently is the only time it's any of her business...
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| 2/5/2015 4:44:54 PM |
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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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It is just a job and I keep that way .I know hiding it is not the thing to do just when the right time to mention it is the issue . For the thoughtful answers, they are very much appreciated .
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| 2/5/2015 4:48:17 PM |
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mssweettaste3
Youngstown, OH
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Wait to tell them. Women don't want that kinda competition right off the bat. It will look like your bragging trying to make her jealous. Very unappealing.
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| 2/5/2015 4:50:58 PM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
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Quote from okfinewhateva:Point blank : I am an editor for a pinup model magazine.I approve photos and answer messages from the gals daily . I love this gig and am not giving it up for anyone . Control and jealousy will run me off quickly .I feel complete honesty is the best way to go but a lot of women do not like this and it can cause problems. I personally have zero interest im dating a model as it gets old fending off other males plus a lot of models are shallow, narcissistic and only interested in you because you can further their career -not exactly relationship material . My question is :should I be upfront immediately or wait to see if a spark has developed before saying something? I'd like some of the ladies' input on this one. As for the males , yeah , I know I'm one lucky bastard, thanks for reminding me for the millionth time . It gets pretty racy with the lingirie, thigh highs and 5"stillettos but would YOU quit?
I follow a few pinup models on Facebook. The retro pics are hot.
Is your pinup magazine in print or just electronic form?
Ever had the Crimson Vixens in your magazine?
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| 2/5/2015 4:54:14 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
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Let it come up naturally, and be interested in what she does, too, rather than going on and on like you did here (though, hopefully, it was just to explain rather than to brag.) Neither hold off and hide it, nor rush and make sure she knows how "cool" your job is.
I kind of wonder why your job hasn't become old hat to you and you don't even notice the women all that much. Why would any woman worth her salt and confident in her own skin worry about a lot of pretty women wandering about your work, doing their work? You're all professional, I would assume.
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
51, joined Nov. 2013
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It's just a job. If she has a problem with it, then she isn't for you. Be upfront with her.
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| 2/5/2015 4:55:54 PM |
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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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We have a Facebook page and printed issues . The Facebook page is completely free . The owners live on Dallas TX and are really cool people . I talk cars with them all the time and we use a lot of street rods as backgrounds . It's a pretty cool gig .Haven't seen any of the Crimson Vixens but that's not to say they haven't been on there . The mag was started in 2011 and I've only been on the staff since last year.
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
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So you look at pics like this all day?
Not a bad job.
I look at em too all day, but its just a ..... hobby. 
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| 2/5/2015 4:57:42 PM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Nov. 2014
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The Facebook page is completely free .
Normally I don't tell dudes to message me
But in your case, I'll make an exception.
If you wanna email me the name of the Facebook page I'll check it out.
Odds are I already follow em.
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| 2/5/2015 5:00:48 PM |
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CuseGuyJ
Syracuse, NY
44, joined Nov. 2014
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Tough job you've got!
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| 2/5/2015 5:02:34 PM |
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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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It's Delicious Dolls . I have nothing to hide. Yep ,I see a hundred of those a day , it never gets old , lol.
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| 2/5/2015 5:21:56 PM |
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chris_90352
Sykesville, MD
41, joined Sep. 2010
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An editor for a pin-up magazine on DH? ..
Didn't you know, Walt?
95% of men on DateHookup are self-employed millionaires, CIA agents, and owners of their own personal Playboy Mansions.
95% of women on DateHookup are in high-profile government jobs and can't afford to show their faces to mere mortals.
Everyone else Has No Life.
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| 2/5/2015 8:30:20 PM |
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amusicluvr
Salem, OR
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If it were me, I'd be totally upfront about it right away...by mentioning it in my profile. That way, the women for whom it would be a problem will avoid you, and those who contact you will find it not a problem. I have done a bit of glamour photography, and don't hide that fact. Not mentioning it up front will only cause problems.
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| 2/5/2015 8:32:27 PM |
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luxorus
Seneca Castle, NY
36, joined Apr. 2014
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I thought the pedestal was for the models?
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| 2/5/2015 8:33:35 PM |
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driver406
Saint Paul, MN
62, joined Oct. 2009
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If it's that big as issue then bring it up on the first date.
Is yours as good a gig as the guy who photographs them?
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| 2/5/2015 8:34:30 PM |
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twining
Anderson, SC
22, joined Jun. 2014
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First off, your profession is personal along with thesalary . As long as you have a place of residence, automobile, and job, you're dateable.
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| 2/5/2015 8:35:12 PM |
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_bear_claws_
Chandler, AZ
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An editor for a pin-up magazine on DH? ..
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| 2/5/2015 8:44:00 PM |
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naturebiy
Mc Kenzie, TN
39, joined Jul. 2011
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How long do you normally wait to boast about your job to women?
The energy I get from the post is that it is probably on the tip of your tounge as soon as you meet someone, and most of the first conversations revolve strictly around that.
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| 2/5/2015 8:47:19 PM |
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kingslayer99
Arlington, TN
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from okfinewhateva: "Delicious Dolls magazine , any more rude comments?"
No but what exactly is your delima bro? Tell em your gay!
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| 2/5/2015 8:47:21 PM |
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im2thexy
Belleville, ON
47, joined Dec. 2014
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Heff is that you?....
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| 2/5/2015 8:49:41 PM |
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kingslayer99
Arlington, TN
50, joined Oct. 2014
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Didn't you know, Walt?
95% of men on DateHookup are self-employed millionaires, CIA agents, and owners of their own personal Playboy Mansions.
95% of women on DateHookup are in high-profile government jobs and can't afford to show their faces to mere mortals.
Everyone else Has No Life.
And?
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| 2/5/2015 8:50:28 PM |
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wench_doctor789
Atlanta, GA
38, joined Nov. 2014
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If the situation was reversed no guy would have a problem with this
In fact, they would insist that work be brought home
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| 2/5/2015 8:51:13 PM |
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gotheon123
Apex, NC
47, joined Jul. 2013
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Coco
That's for damn sure.
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| 2/5/2015 9:02:51 PM |
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micheleisgreat
Pittsburgh, PA
51, joined Nov. 2013
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I work with correctional officers 
You would not believe how many men that have met that have a problem with this! 
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| 2/5/2015 9:52:48 PM |
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ayemie
Granite Bay, CA
44, joined Jul. 2010
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An editor for a pin-up magazine on DH? ..
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| 2/5/2015 11:25:24 PM |
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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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I had a long convo with a lady tonight and she had no problem with it . So we're planning on going out next weekend . Honesty is the best policy .
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| 2/6/2015 12:39:01 AM |
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acdmv
Scarsdale, NY
47, joined Aug. 2014
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No doubt she'll be pinning you up for some loot OP....
...at least until you wake-up from this fantasy.
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| 2/6/2015 12:49:40 AM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
61, joined Jun. 2007
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Fess up.
Admit to her that you're really a fluffer for that magazine.
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| 2/6/2015 1:06:05 AM |
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miscbyproduct
Isle Of Man
United Kingdom
18, joined Apr. 2012
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not that believe OP
but
i can see reason for a person in such a job to keep some privacy about it
to easy to target
jes the scandal alone could and probably would be career ending
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| 2/6/2015 1:08:14 AM |
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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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why not? When I was dating I saw no difference of the quality of men on a paid site verses here. Some where just smart enough to realize they didn't have to pay to be on a dating site.
I bought a subscription on match.com and promptly canceled it after a month , the scammers were like c*ckroaches there and there seemed no monitoring on approving profiles. I've looked at eHarmony and it looks like it might be the way to go .Who knows?
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| 2/6/2015 1:12:47 AM |
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norwegianwood64
Pearlington, MS
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Women who online date are very controlling, so I would say you are up shit creek without any toliet paper. Most women get pissed if you don't delete your profile after the first date.
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| 2/6/2015 1:18:35 AM |
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vagmasterflash
Durand, WI
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You should always tell your story when the time feels right. Can't be obtuse, and overbearing about it. Go with the flow.
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| 2/6/2015 1:22:41 AM |
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okfinewhateva
Antioch, TN
48, joined Jun. 2011
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Excellent point .
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