Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?

6/27/2015 7:41:17 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	I have had a string of customers after customers who are just shocked that I'm still single. I had that male customer who said I'm very handsome and he was baffled why I was single I had this very sweet black family today who bought a car from me. The grandma was just a wonderful lady and she said pretty much the same thing. I said its just hard to find a good one and she goes "no its not", cracked me up. The whole family absolutely adored me. Is dating really that easy for the rest of the male population? I just don't get it. If you're a guy and you don't meet women naturally through friends, what do you do? every other form of dating is so incredibly hard [Edited 6/27/2015 7:42:03 PM ] Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
6/27/2015 8:09:58 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
iam_resurrected Reno, NV 45, joined Jul. 2014	WE ARE NOT shocked you are single. WE ARE SHOCKED however that you have not come out of the closet
6/27/2015 8:11:11 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from iam_resurrected: WE ARE NOT shocked you single I'm talking about people who actually see me and talk to me in real life And pipe down Paul, don't you have a TV show to make?
6/27/2015 8:11:40 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
iam_resurrected Reno, NV 45, joined Jul. 2014
6/27/2015 8:12:36 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
grneyesrme Sacramento, CA 48, joined Aug. 2013	I was waiting for your daily brag post.
6/27/2015 8:14:07 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014
6/27/2015 8:15:27 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from grneyesrme: I was waiting for your daily brag post. Serious question Is dating really that easy for rest of population? Is everybody else able to meet women through friends? I feel like I live in a parallel universe at times [Edited 6/27/2015 8:15:38 PM ]
6/27/2015 8:15:29 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lilod Aurora, IL 49, joined Aug. 2012	My bigger question would be how and why so many people you're showing cars find out that you're single. I've bought a lot of cars in my lifetime, and I can't ever remember the salesman's marital status coming into play.
6/27/2015 8:16:15 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from grneyesrme: I was waiting for your daily brag post. Me too...we missed a day. A mirror broke in his bathroom
6/27/2015 8:18:41 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from lilod: My bigger question would be how and why so many people you're showing cars find out that you're single. I've bought a lot of cars in my lifetime, and I can't ever remember the salesman's marital status coming into play. Making customers care about you is the easiest way to close at a very high clip. If they care about you, they're less likely to leave, less likely to negotiate and less likely to shop around. I close at 40-60% clip, the industry rate is 25%. Even the people who don't buy from me love me I make everyone feel like I'm their best friend in the world. Plus customers ask me all the time about my background, where I was born, what I do for fun, etc... [Edited 6/27/2015 8:20:03 PM ]
6/27/2015 8:18:52 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	Quote from ridelightning7: Serious question Is dating really that easy for rest of population? Is everybody else able to meet women through friends? I feel like I live in a parallel universe at times Yes, it is that easy.
6/27/2015 8:20:20 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ol_buddy_ol_pal Charlotte, NC 48, joined Apr. 2014	I'm more shocked people still post in your threads.
6/27/2015 8:21:18 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from ol_buddy_ol_pal: I'm more shocked people still post in your threads. You just did.....
6/27/2015 8:22:10 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from ol_buddy_ol_pal: I'm more shocked people still post in your threads. You just did.....and I did again [Edited 6/27/2015 8:22:40 PM ]
6/27/2015 8:22:55 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from candy0426: Yes, it is that easy. Talking about men, obviously not women. The only women who have struggled in dating are hideously deformed or obese (and many of those still have suitors) Is the whole male population able to meet women naturally through friends? That's the only medium of dating that's at least close to being somewhat reasonable - everything else is near impossibly hard
6/27/2015 8:23:30 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	Luna, you crack me up lately. I you.
6/27/2015 8:24:40 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ol_buddy_ol_pal Charlotte, NC 48, joined Apr. 2014	Quote from lunaglider: You just did.....and I did again Oh wow. Now I'm totally shocked. Like, stick my finger in the light socket shocked!
6/27/2015 8:25:44 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from lunaglider: Me too...we missed a day. A mirror broke in his bathroom I got mirrors everywhere in my house, no worries
6/27/2015 8:25:49 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from ol_buddy_ol_pal: Oh wow. Now I'm totally shocked. Like, stick my finger in the light socket shocked! Me too, bartender I'll have a double.......post. [Edited 6/27/2015 8:26:33 PM ]
6/27/2015 8:26:27 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from ol_buddy_ol_pal: I'm more shocked people still post in your threads. I'm more shocked I'm so frustrated that I need to create these threads to relieve tension
6/27/2015 8:27:35 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from candy0426: Yes, it is that easy. Talking about men, obviously not women. The only women who have struggled in dating are hideously deformed or obese (and many of those still have suitors) Is the whole male population able to meet women naturally through friends? That's the only medium of dating that's at least close to being somewhat reasonable - everything else is near impossibly hard.
6/27/2015 8:27:42 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from ridelightning7: I'm more shocked I'm so frustrated that I need to create these threads to relieve tension Try jacking off to relieve your tension...
6/27/2015 8:29:34 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from lunaglider: Try jacking off to relieve your tension... I do that 3 or 4 times a day on my day offs. I have the sex drive of a rhino But that's just physical, I need to relieve the mental anguish as well
6/27/2015 8:30:06 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	Quote from ridelightning7: Talking about men, obviously not women. The only women who have struggled in dating are hideously deformed or obese (and many of those still have suitors) Is the whole male population able to meet women naturally through friends? That's the only medium of dating that's at least close to being somewhat reasonable - everything else is near impossibly hard. Sweetheart you do realize I date men. The majority of women date men. Focus, honey. If it's easy for me... Then it's easy for the men I am dating.
6/27/2015 8:31:19 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lilod Aurora, IL 49, joined Aug. 2012	Quote from candy0426: Sweetheart you do realize I date men. The majority of women date men. Focus, honey. If it's easy for me... Then it's easy for the men I am dating. Candy, he thinks that you are sitting on a throne dismissing several dozen suitors for every one you deign to allow a first date...and that if you were just a little younger and hotter, that would be hundreds rather than dozens.
6/27/2015 8:31:39 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from ridelightning7: I do that 3 or 4 times a day on my day offs. I have the sex drive of a rhino But that's just physical, I need to relieve the mental anguish as well So, you come to present us with mental anguish with your whine and cheese posts?
6/27/2015 8:32:32 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
hurryme Bloomingdale, GA 51, joined Mar. 2011	Read the first few sentences and Jester came to mind.. I like Jester but he keeps it to a sentence or two.. Good luck with you and your mirrors..
6/27/2015 8:32:37 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Quote from candy0426: Luna, you crack me up lately. I you.
6/27/2015 8:33:48 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	Quote from lilod: Candy, he thinks that you are sitting on a throne dismissing several dozen suitors for every one you deign to allow a first date...and that if you were just a little younger and hotter, that would be hundreds rather than dozens. Next!!! Park that bus on the other side of the road please, my neighbors are complaining.
6/27/2015 8:34:27 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from candy0426: Sweetheart you do realize I date men. The majority of women date men. Focus, honey. If it's easy for me... Then it's easy for the men I am dating. Yea about as easy as climbing mount everest with one arm behind your back In all fairness, you're in your late 40s. Older women do tend to be much more reasonable and down to earth. I've had a few who were interested in me and they were very nice but it just doesn't work long term because I want kids in 4-6 years the ones in their mid 20's are impossible to please. You could have a diamond d*ck and they would complain it's too shiny
6/27/2015 8:34:38 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
oceanblues53 Cayce, SC 58, joined Apr. 2011	Quote from ridelightning7: I do that 3 or 4 times a day on my day offs. I have the sex drive of a rhino But that's just physical, I need to relieve the mental anguish as well I wonder if his eyes cross when he's relieving his mental anquish...
6/27/2015 8:37:21 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from lilod: Candy, he thinks that you are sitting on a throne dismissing several dozen suitors for every one you deign to allow a first date...and that if you were just a little younger and hotter, that would be hundreds rather than dozens. And you think this is far off base? How many messages does she get a day? 100? Isn't that 100 suitors who want to get with her But anyways, I've always said older women are much more reasonable, even the attractive ones. That 36 year old Latina woman I went out with is very attractive and extremely nice but this arrangement just doesn't work long term for me. Unfortunately I have to date someone around their 20s so I can have family and kids in 4 years or so.
6/27/2015 8:44:04 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Look, kid,'I understand you wanting to be particular in what you seek. No problem...but why do you have to inflict you narcissistic threads on us on an almost daily basis? Are you really that much of an attention wh*re? You appear to be more intelligent than that....
6/27/2015 8:45:55 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	Think of yourself as a car and sell it.
6/27/2015 8:46:26 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from lunaglider: Look, kid,'I understand you wanting to be particular in what you seek. No problem...but why do you have to inflict you narcissistic threads on us on an almost daily basis? Are you really that much of an attention wh*re? You appear to be more intelligent than that.... it's just an outlet for extreme frustration I can't say any of this stuff to be anybody in real life. All my friends and family think off me as that awesome guy. I don't want to inflict anybody with my problems or sufferings. When I'm around other people, I want them to be happy and only associate positive feelings with being around me.
6/27/2015 8:51:43 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from candy0426: Think of yourself as a car and sell it. customers are much much much easier to deal with than women in my demographics. Hell, the women in their 20s who buy a car from me are 500 times easier in that process than attempting to date them. The difference between dating and my job is that a lot of customers are interested in buying a car and make the process very easy for me. It baffles me how other people struggle in this job - if you smile and make people feel comfortable around you, they'll buy very easily and pay you all the profit. With women, the process of dating is like trying to solve a 5,000 piece puzzle. Once you put all 5000 pieces together, you might have a chance of getting a phone number that will automatically ignore you when you call her [Edited 6/27/2015 8:52:07 PM ]
6/27/2015 9:10:49 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lilod Aurora, IL 49, joined Aug. 2012	Quote from ridelightning7: it's just an outlet for extreme frustration I can't say any of this stuff to be anybody in real life. All my friends and family think off me as that awesome guy. I don't want to inflict anybody with my problems or sufferings. When I'm around other people, I want them to be happy and only associate positive feelings with being around me. So, when you repeatedly tell us what great friends you have, what you really mean is that you have a group of people you socialize with but are careful not to let see who you really are or how you're really feeling? Do you have any authentic relationships in your life?
6/27/2015 9:18:22 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from lilod: So, when you repeatedly tell us what great friends you have, what you really mean is that you have a group of people you socialize with but are careful not to let see who you really are or how you're really feeling? Why the f*k would I inflict them with the suffering I feel inside? It makes me look like a huge btch to them and lowers their respect level about me. Most of my male friends are big manly dudes. We don't talk about our emotions. Also I'm interested in making others feel great around me, not making them feel bad around me. I mean I'll sometimes ask for small tips about dating but am I going to tell them that I feel soul crushing loneliness and often times wonder if I will die alone? F**k no. I can't talk about it to my mom or my sister because they already feel horrible about it, it's like rubbing salt in a wound. My mom has literally cried about this issue (of me being permanently single forever). [Edited 6/27/2015 9:19:18 PM ]
6/27/2015 9:20:50 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Have you tried the other dating sites?
6/27/2015 9:23:09 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from lunaglider: Have you tried the other dating sites? online dating? Online dating - where you might have a chance with a slightly above average looking woman if you look like Chris Hemsworth and play for the Los Angeles Lakers but you would still probably have to send out 100 messages to get 1 reply [Edited 6/27/2015 9:24:10 PM ]
6/27/2015 9:25:19 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lunaglider Edwards, CO 62, joined Dec. 2013	Well, with your 'tude I can see why not...was just trying to help. Keep the Pity Party going on here.
6/27/2015 9:29:08 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	Mmm Thor
6/27/2015 9:29:53 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from lunaglider: Well, with your 'tude I can see why not...was just trying to help. Keep the Pity Party going on here. if you're going to talk about real life dating, I might be inclined to listen Real life dating is obviously very hard but there are men out there who are able to survive in it. Online dating is a horrible and hideous caricature of real life dating. Like I said before, if you look like Chris Hemsworth and are a famous athlete, you might get a date out of a 1000 messages you send. For us normal folks who are merely "regular handsome", you got this
6/27/2015 9:34:44 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	That is not Thor. Yummy
6/27/2015 9:36:20 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from candy0426: That is not Thor. //www.bodybuilding.com/fun/images/2013/race-god-to-norse-god-chris-hemsworth-thor-two-workout-3.jpg' /> Yummy that's ideal physique right there. Would love to get to that build in a year or two in fantasy land, I would love to get as big as the Rock but I don't want to do steroids
6/27/2015 9:37:16 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
holly_z San Antonio, TX 48, joined Jun. 2015	Quote from iam_resurrected: WE ARE NOT shocked you are single. WE ARE SHOCKED however that you have not come out of the closet
6/27/2015 9:38:54 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	Mm the rock
6/27/2015 9:40:10 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
ridelightning7 Springfield, IL 27, joined Feb. 2014	Quote from candy0426: Mm the rock He's a legend
6/27/2015 9:42:30 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
candy0426 Newtown, PA 47, joined Aug. 2014	I wouldn't kick him outta bed
6/27/2015 10:18:23 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lilod Aurora, IL 49, joined Aug. 2012	Quote from ridelightning7: Why the f*k would I inflict them with the suffering I feel inside? It makes me look like a huge btch to them and lowers their respect level about me. Most of my male friends are big manly dudes. We don't talk about our emotions. Also I'm interested in making others feel great around me, not making them feel bad around me. I mean I'll sometimes ask for small tips about dating but am I going to tell them that I feel soul crushing loneliness and often times wonder if I will die alone? F**k no. I can't talk about it to my mom or my sister because they already feel horrible about it, it's like rubbing salt in a wound. My mom has literally cried about this issue (of me being permanently single forever). Which is a very long way of saying that however good your intentions, all of your relationships are fake and none of these people you claim to be close with or who think you're so great know you. That's a sad, empty way to live.
6/27/2015 10:47:36 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
amusicluvr Salem, OR 63, joined Nov. 2013	The reason we are so shocked you are still single is because it is now legal for gays to marry each other, and you should have taken advantage of that by now. Aren't you glad that you asked?
6/27/2015 10:55:44 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
snhgirl Scottsboro, AL 45, joined Nov. 2008	Quit telling people and they won't be shocked!Problem solved!
6/27/2015 11:00:33 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
amusicluvr Salem, OR 63, joined Nov. 2013	OP - Suffering inside? WTF do YOU know about suffering inside? Let me guess...they cancelled your favorite TV show...Will & Grace...right? Wait until you have: been tortured (GESTAPO style), seen most of your loved ones die, survived an attempt on your life by someone who had been a friend, and learned that you have an incurable disease. THEN you can talk about suffering inside. As for me, I have a magnetic personality....partly due the fact that I am confident, and do not spend my life whining. Women approach me...in grocery stores, book stores, libraries, government offices, doctor's offices, etc. Even here, the woman I ended up with contacted me first. I placed my profile, posted some stuff in the forums, and she noticed, and messaged me. As an alleged car salesman, you should understand. You present the product, in an attractive package, and let the potential customers browse a bit. When they see what they want, they will let you know. When one does, you close the deal.
6/27/2015 11:03:45 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
im2thexy Belleville, ON 48, joined Dec. 2014	Do you wear a shirt that says..."im single"...when i was working i never discussed my personal life with clients or customers...
6/27/2015 11:40:52 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
jetzazzy Milwaukee, WI 48, joined Aug. 2014	Quote from lilod: I've bought a lot of cars in my lifetime, and I can't ever remember the salesman's marital status coming into play. When you're watching a movie, just go with it It's called "suspension of disbelief" It's just a made up story
6/27/2015 11:46:43 PM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
lilod Aurora, IL 49, joined Aug. 2012	Quote from jetzazzy: When you're watching a movie, just go with it It's called "suspension of disbelief" It's just a made up story That's the AUTHOR'S responsibility. If the story is told well, my disbelief is going to suspend itself. If I have to tell myself, "Oh, just let that go...it's just fiction," someone isn't doing his job.
6/28/2015 12:00:33 AM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
jetzazzy Milwaukee, WI 48, joined Aug. 2014	the OP isn't a good enough con
6/28/2015 12:02:38 AM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
tasty_taters2 Springfield, IL 37, joined Jan. 2015	Quote from iam_resurrected: WE ARE NOT shocked you are single. WE ARE SHOCKED however that you have not come out of the closet THIS!
6/28/2015 12:04:12 AM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
mustangwriter Boerne, TX 55, joined Nov. 2009	Quote from ridelightning7: I have had a string of customers after customers who are just shocked that I'm still single. And they all walked away murmuring...He must have a tiny pee pee.
6/28/2015 12:04:45 AM	Why are People So Shocked I'm Single?
im2thexy Belleville, ON 48, joined Dec. 2014

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