bruce_2014
Dothan, AL
58, joined Jan. 2014
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We can also make assumptions about people. we assume we know what kind of person they must be. we are also identifying who they must be and then putting them in the box that fits.
FACT
This is typical especially for women on Dating sites. When a man asks a simple question such as:
"Can you have alone time with the man you are interested in because you have kids?
This does not mean he does not like kids but how many women assume otherwise from a message they receive from someone they do not know or have never even met?
Waste of time to even bother with these types.
[Edited 4/2/2016 9:08:42 AM ]
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bruce_2014
Dothan, AL
58, joined Jan. 2014
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How many of us have had the experience where we assume something about someone by reading a message,
but then later, we find out something entirely different once we explore further or get to know the person?
We miss out on really knowing another person and who they are, what they care about, when we don’t take the time to let them reveal themselves.
Think about your own assumptions. Are there “types of people” you generally like or don’t like?
And both women and men on dating sites wonder why they cannot have a relationship or find someone for other than sex. LOL
Assummimg is just a bad trip that gets you nowhere.
[Edited 4/2/2016 9:16:49 AM ]
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TheSpazRaz
New York, NY
37, joined Dec. 2015
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Your first profile claimed you were extremely hung...how did that work out for you Einstein. 
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