9/6/2007 10:20:41 PM |
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caddydady
Evansville, IN
age: 40
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Ok, I'm divorced. My wife and I will never reconcile. We agreed 8 years ago to get me a vasectomy. Am I out of the market? I really dont want kids but if it happened I would do the right thing. Who do I need to look for? I'm damn sterile. Do I have to go through life alone?
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9/7/2007 1:41:32 AM |
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xsoundedmindx
Williston, SC
age: 25
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Last I heard, those things could be reversed.
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9/7/2007 2:07:03 AM |
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metu
Dahlonega, GA
age: 46
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You say you don't want kids, you got yourself fixed........there are plenty of women who don't want a "sperm donor".
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9/7/2007 2:54:25 AM |
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crowwoman59
Wabasha, MN
age: 48
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I am in my forty's and at this age myself and a lot of women I know and have known wouldn't care. There are so many women with kids who would be intereted in meeting, if you are good with kids. Anyway, I have and do know many single women who would certainly not rule you out for that reason anyway. Just be up front, but maybe not on the first date unless it comes up. If you are a decent guy you should be meeting someone. Maybe think about dating women a little older. Don't give up hope.
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9/17/2007 2:54:53 PM |
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qazyguy
Rockville, MD
age: 53 online now!
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Sperm can be "harvested" even after a vasectomy.
Qazy
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9/17/2007 6:01:57 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Sorry, but having kids is not something that's high on my priorty list, I've got mine If i ever get with someone again who wants one there are many many children out there to adopt and raise with love. jmo
xoxoPeaches.
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9/17/2007 6:04:30 PM |
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lo_sue
El Paso, TX
age: 33
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how about looking for someone who doesn't want kids she's got her own do the The Brady Bunch thing
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9/17/2007 6:06:18 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Yes, Kids are a major issue in dating because we must respect the wishes of the ppl we chose to date but, our kids are our first and should be our first concern...I just wish everyone respected that.
xoxoPeaches.
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9/17/2007 6:15:24 PM |
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traumadez
Redlands, CA
age: 44
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Hello!!! You're 40!!! You already have given to this worlds population!!! Why would you want more kids??? Adopt... Brady Bunch thing... Grand parent soon??? Enjoy an adult relationship??? JMHO!!!
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9/17/2007 7:17:18 PM |
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striker29527
London, KY
age: 45 online now!
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there are soooooo many kids out there that need a loving family to be adopted into. or you could go do the Big Brother/Big Sister thing too if you aren't able or willing to adopt.
just some food for thought guy.
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9/17/2007 7:29:23 PM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 54
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What a wimpy cry for attention.... WE decided on a vasectomy, and now YOU are crying over it. What is the difference. Does the plumbing still work? Yes.....
Dude you are acting like such a victim, and embarrassment to us guys....
Begging is not becoming of you.... or of men... Reverse it, or suck it up and move on! Ya' big crybaby!
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9/17/2007 7:32:00 PM |
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nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
age: 37 online now!
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there are lots of people who do not want kids out there..good luck
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9/17/2007 7:34:48 PM |
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happyrunnr1
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 26
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ive never known anyone sterile
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9/17/2007 7:49:36 PM |
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krazz
Whittier, CA
age: 54
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They look like you and me..... and can even be "normal." There is no telltale sign or body disfiguration. Go figure..... There are plenty of children who would love to be part of a family that has a sterile parent. Millions of them all over the world.....
So dude, stop being a VICTIM, and do something that could real change a childs life, for the positive... DON'T BE A WIMP-ASS WHINEY P*SSY-WHIPPED LOSER.... Or get yourself booked on Jerry Springer's show... "She got me snipped, and then left me."
Did I make myself clear?
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9/17/2007 8:02:31 PM |
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lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
age: 50
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straight from the horses mouth. hi kraz.
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