| 5/22/2007 3:21:58 PM |
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walt32
Duncan, OK
age: 28
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anybody else notice she said GENITALLY . well we know where her mind is
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| 5/26/2007 10:48:25 AM |
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krupa
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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That's a blow off dude! I am sure she is cool but move on my man. The heart wants what the heart wants. She don't want. let the next guy deal with it!
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| 5/27/2007 4:03:11 PM |
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cutiepye9
Augusta, GA
age: 28
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The "she does not like kissing" line is just an excuse for an easy way of saying "I just like you as a friend" or "I'm not interested in you romantically".....I have done this a couple of times and it usually with guys I have no intentions of being no more than friends with.
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| 6/3/2007 1:13:27 PM |
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honeygrl30
Philadelphia, PA
age: 32
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i'm sorry to say this but sometimes people don't kiss because they are seeing someone else and if they don't kiss they're really not cheating. i've done it we're just kidding ourselves
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| 6/10/2007 1:47:45 AM |
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sweetiedolls
Pasadena, MD
age: 31
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Wow dude I can relate 2 this there was this guy I really liked and he tried to kiss me at the end of a few dates I liked him so I couldnt kiss him Iwas to nerves so maybe that was her problem!!
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| 6/10/2007 6:30:45 PM |
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esoteric1
Blair, NE
age: 39
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hmm....to kiss or not to kiss....tricky situation. Pleasant hours spent together. Shy smiles, alot of uncertainty...this goes back to what a particular woman may want. And we know that's not black and white. Some want to be swept off their feet. Some want a slow burning drawn out build up to a passionate embrace. Maybe she was self conscious about her breath or maybe yours? Maybe she's not comfortable with public affection, ( if it was in public)...could be any number of things. Or it could be just as she said, "she doesn't like kissing". If thats the case, and I personally would take it at face value, gotta go with the facts for now, be careful what you think you can deal with and what you really need in a relationship. If you like to kiss and she doesn't, after time you'll feel like your very much missing something. I don't think it's wrong to kiss on a first date, if the electricity is there. I guess ya have to ask yourself at that moment did it feel right, smooth? At that moment in time, because timing can be very important, did you feel it was the right thing to do? And did you feel that she felt that also? Hell..ask her why she doesn't like kissing. She's the only one that can tell ya.
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| 6/10/2007 6:48:00 PM |
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bendi
Maryville, TN
age: 44
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Remember in the old movies the girl used to say "I never kiss on the first date." Maybe she just doesn't want u to think she's too easy. the kiss was supposed to come on the next date, I guess. Maybe she does like u and she's trying to make a good impression. We women are quite complicated.
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| 6/13/2007 12:34:41 AM |
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freeonthree
Red Bluff, CA
age: 54
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If you really like her, you'll wait. Ya gotta be friends first. Don't even worry about that first kiss right now. Some women just like to take things slow and easy. She's probably been hurt before, and you need to reassure her with respect and patients. If she respects and trusts you, then she'll want to see you again and again. If ya treat her right, she'll probably be stealin one from you real soon. Let her lead you down the road to passion and love. Sounds like you guys had a nice time together.
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| 6/13/2007 10:56:05 AM |
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bunnyears
Seattle, WA
age: 43
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I think she gave you some great clues.
She mentioned 8 yrs? Well, if someone was just trying to avoid a kiss, would they get that detailed? I don't think so.
My impression is that there's been hurts, maybe even worse. Many women have been abused and used or just had bad experiences.
Give it some time, if you're interested in her, show her she can trust you. If she's been hurt or abused that may take some time.
Down the road when you're sitting some place intimate, tell her you'd love for her to talk to you and share anything she'd want to share with you. The closer you're willing to get to her heart, probably the more she'll open up....if you've proven yourself to be SAFE.
Take it slow, enjoy other things about her. Chances are, if she's waited 8 yrs, she's unsure of what she can offer.
Just my opinion.
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| 6/16/2007 7:09:13 PM |
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angelfacecute
Glens Falls, NY
age: 36
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I think your right kissing a pick is good but also if you kiss a passioniate kiss like i was given i thought he really like me but maybe he did but i haven't heard from him since i tried to once or twice and email but he said it was to much.
So I would say wait for the passionate kiss till the second date that way they no your coming back.
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| 6/19/2007 8:42:08 AM |
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faithisobelle
Arecibo, PR
age: 29
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dude... she doesnt like you like that.
move along!
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| 8/2/2007 6:23:04 PM |
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happyrunnr1
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 26
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iv never heard that and i think that very funny
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| 8/5/2007 12:41:22 AM |
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singlennj
Budd Lake, NJ
age: 48
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So, is this the no kissing thread?
Hand shakes only?
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| 8/20/2007 6:02:33 PM |
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perladi
Indianapolis, IN
age: 43
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yes she is not beeing true to you or maybe she did not like at all.
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| 8/21/2007 2:25:41 PM |
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mishkabacci
Duncansville, PA
age: 42
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honestly i could not judge that scenario but if the day went as perfect as can be then she was blowing you off...if throughout that date you said something or did something to discourage her than she blew you off...now in conversation you should have picked up how she felt about you and where she stood as far as boundaries are concerned
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