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YOU GO, GIRL!!! Sigh...some people just HAVE to be sooo

mean and negative. WE'VE ALL been where you were at last night, even if SOME PEOPLE don't want to admit it!!! Better Luck next time, sweetie!

9/8/2008 11:45:09 AM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
goodintention54 Plymouth, MI age: 55	Angel has the right idea.... patience..you're young, attractive,rest assured it will happen for you. Your profile states you have children living at home with you. My children live with me as well and I find it impossible to feel lonely. Let your little ones help you re-channel your energies from lonelyness to patience and soon you'll be in a "huddle" of your own.
9/8/2008 11:54:29 AM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
cjo22eyes Saint Charles, IL age: 24	Quote from fallnstar: Quote from cjo22eyes: Quote from jxl: Look... Pitying yourself is not going to make things any better. At least you're alone and lonely. You could have been feeling lonely while in the middle of a relationship. Be happy with yourself before you get into another relationship. You can't let your happiness be determined by your relationship status, otherwise you'll have a very tough time. People are attracted to positivity, once you change your own outlook of yourself, things will change. Can it get worse? Yeah it could... Find another game to play this one is f**king depressing. You can't help how you feel. Its not as if I'm walking around all day long saying "woe is me" The reason I come to this site and post forums is cause I know I can get support here from people who are going through te same shit. I have never been single, or dated, or anything. This is all very new to me, and I'm sorry if I am having a hard time dealing with it all. I am in no way trying to be negative, just trying to get through it. And your right, lonliness is depressing......but some people get depressed when there heart hurts. Its not very fair to say that I just pity myself, and that I'm just being negative. Jesus, if I can't turn to an advice forum for help and support than where can I?? Alot of people here are depressed and lonley.. But we don't come to the Forum for THERAPY... Like you do.. You need to talk to a professional about how you feel, NOT US. Lord, your not going to die w/ out a man... You must have some hobbies, or things you like doing .. roller blading, hiking, scuba diving...I don't know you so, Try to keep busy... Do activities you enjoy... It's when your not looking for a man that you will find one... Chin UP . Really, I won't die without a man huh? You sure about that, I mean it's a pretty serious situation.......OH WAIT! THAT WASN'T WHAT I WAS SAYING AT ALL. Apparently people cannot have lonely nights without being deemed pathetic and desperate. OH MY GOD! Since when is asking advice termed therapy? Seriously, this is a dating and realationship forum. This is what people come to talk about here. What the Hell is with all this stuff about me not having hobbies, or NEEDING a man. I just needed some advice for a sec, I have plenty of things in my life that I love and that keep me very busy. Surprisingly I do not just sit at home and think of ways to find a man. I give up! Thanks to all the people who were sweet enough to let me know that I wasn't alone, and to HELL with all the insensitive bastards who clearly don't know how to read people the right way. Btw, I feel much better today. I guess last night was just one of those nights. That thread was meant for the people who feel the same way I do, it always helps to know that you're not alone. [Edited 9/8/2008 12:02:50 PM]
9/8/2008 12:09:52 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
klassykitten Toccoa, GA age: 51	You went right to where you should have. This topic belongs in the forums a lot more than a majority of them. So stand your ground...you did fine. I know what you mean...some days you are the windshield and do just fine. But on those days you are the bug...it just sucks. I feel that very same way just going to the grocery store and seeing the couples together. It wouldn't be so bad if I didn't know what I was missing...LOL. I would gladly trade your 24yr loneliness for my 51yr loneliness. It isn't fun at any age.
9/8/2008 12:22:47 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
cjo22eyes Saint Charles, IL age: 24	Quote from klassykitten: You went right to where you should have. This topic belongs in the forums a lot more than a majority of them. So stand your ground...you did fine. I know what you mean...some days you are the windshield and do just fine. But on those days you are the bug...it just sucks. I feel that very same way just going to the grocery store and seeing the couples together. It wouldn't be so bad if I didn't know what I was missing...LOL. I would gladly trade your 24yr loneliness for my 51yr loneliness. It isn't fun at any age. Thank you so much. I thought thats why I came here, its a nice change from talking about sex all the time. Dont worry girl, I don't think it matters what age you are. Loneliness is loneliness, it just plain aches. Good thing it doesn't last forever!
9/8/2008 12:23:58 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
angelleyess Middleboro, MA age: 35	Quote from klassykitten: You went right to where you should have. This topic belongs in the forums a lot more than a majority of them. So stand your ground...you did fine. I know what you mean...some days you are the windshield and do just fine. But on those days you are the bug...it just sucks. I feel that very same way just going to the grocery store and seeing the couples together. It wouldn't be so bad if I didn't know what I was missing...LOL. I would gladly trade your 24yr loneliness for my 51yr loneliness. It isn't fun at any age. awww klassy wuv ya hun hugs for all us lonely people
9/8/2008 1:04:30 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
bigrockradian Independence, KS age: 48	I feel for ya 22eyes. I have been single for almost 2 yrs and wonder why I get that way for no reason. But I also haven't been looking real hard. So it's probably my fault. But you are a pretty lady and apear very heartfelt. that right there gives a lot going for you. You are probably like me, too picky, but safe. Be positive and Mr. Right will be around the corner looking too. Heres to ya
9/8/2008 1:05:48 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
judit0606 Big Stone Gap, VA age: 51	Really, I won't die without a man huh? You sure about that, I mean it's a pretty serious situation.......OH WAIT! THAT WASN'T WHAT I WAS SAYING AT ALL. Apparently people cannot have lonely nights without being deemed pathetic and desperate. OH MY GOD! Since when is asking advice termed therapy? Seriously, this is a dating and realationship forum. This is what people come to talk about here. What the Hell is with all this stuff about me not having hobbies, or NEEDING a man. I just needed some advice for a sec, I have plenty of things in my life that I love and that keep me very busy. Surprisingly I do not just sit at home and think of ways to find a man. I give up! Thanks to all the people who were sweet enough to let me know that I wasn't alone, and to HELL with all the insensitive bastards who clearly don't know how to read people the right way. Btw, I feel much better today. I guess last night was just one of those nights. That thread was meant for the people who feel the same way I do, it always helps to know that you're not alone.
9/8/2008 1:14:14 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
oneskeptic Absecon, NJ age: 39	Well damn, my comments weren't insensitive... Jeez!!
9/8/2008 1:36:53 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
wildman217 Pennsburg, PA age: 35	Quote from oneskeptic: Quote from cjo22eyes: Quote from jxl: Look... Pitying yourself is not going to make things any better. At least you're alone and lonely. You could have been feeling lonely while in the middle of a relationship. Be happy with yourself before you get into another relationship. You can't let your happiness be determined by your relationship status, otherwise you'll have a very tough time. People are attracted to positivity, once you change your own outlook of yourself, things will change. Can it get worse? Yeah it could... Find another game to play this one is f**king depressing. You can't help how you feel. Its not as if I'm walking around all day long saying "woe is me" The reason I come to this site and post forums is cause I know I can get support here from people who are going through te same shit. I have never been single, or dated, or anything. This is all very new to me, and I'm sorry if I am having a hard time dealing with it all. I am in no way trying to be negative, just trying to get through it. And your right, lonliness is depressing......but some people get depressed when there heart hurts. Its not very fair to say that I just pity myself, and that I'm just being negative. Jesus, if I can't turn to an advice forum for help and support than where can I?? Welcome to my world! It's really not that bad for me because I'm an independent person that doesn't need someone else to make me feel validated. I love being in a relationship but since I have been single for over 4 years, I have found out a lot about myself, something I never really did while in a relationship because I was too busy trying to make them happy and not fully concentrating on myself. I say enjoy your single life, you have freedoms to do whatever you want WHENEVER you want to do them and have noone to report to! Embrace it and you will start to enjoy it, when someone comes a long it will be a bonus to your quality of life. You're young, you can do tons of things like go to the gym, go out with the girls, stay at home and do absolutely nothing, and a ton of other things on a whim! Its great, you'll see!! he speaks the truth.well said.
9/8/2008 1:45:25 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
zing2008 Sacramento, CA age: 56	Well guys you really have said some great things. And I am being serious But she is sad and lonely and feeling blue I bet we all have been there or still are. There is really nothing you can do about it but get another life keep busy sign up for dance lessons learn how to play golf again stay busy and if possible stay away from couples. Unless they are maybe setting you up with someone. Good luck you really don't need it thou with your age and looks you will be fine.
9/8/2008 1:47:30 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
hotforit Hattiesburg, MS age: 50	some of the insights on here sound like kids. first no one is here for therpy to think such maybe you need it. she is looking for friends for comfort not ill and stupid advice. and yes i deai with the same evry day. destiny will provide you with the love of your life when it is time. He may not live where you do but you will know. Just do not take the first thing to come along there are a lot of men who prey on lonely women.Look at the man for what he is not what he wants you to see. you have a friend in me anytime you want to just talk. i know how it feels and i am not here to pass judgement on how you feel. Some on here give advise but if they were happy in life and not lonely also they would not be on here. best wishes
9/8/2008 2:33:50 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
muskrat_love42 Camilla, GA age: 43	Tell me about it. People sometimes don't seem to understand that if you are not in a relationship it is depressing to be around people that are obviously into each other. My roommate is always discussing the men in her life knowing that I have not even been dating, much less in a relationship.
9/8/2008 2:57:08 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
energy22 Philadelphia, PA age: 47	one thing people dont get about lonlieness IT IS ONLY HOW YOU FEEL DESPITE WHAT OTHERS THINK YOU CAN FEEL LONELY AND BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE OTHER PERSON and if you think your not gonna feel lonley in a relationship YOU ARE WRONG and being lonley is not a good reason to be with someone because we unconsisously are gettin with someone to FIX us and our lonelyness that means im not secure with myself and cant deal with my feelings,we become dependant emotionally on another person,NOW I AM NOT BELITTLEING ANYONES PAIN,FOR I TOO KNOW IT WELL ive been so lonley at times i feel like i cant breathe it passes and i was single at one point for FIVE LONG A** YEARS,NO SEX EITHER MIND YOU, while like you,id say my friends all seem to find their partner,the reason why we think were not lonley in a relationship is BECAUSE WE FOCUS ON THE OTHER PERSON AND DONT LOOK AT HOW WE ARE FEELING, ive been in a relationship and have had feelings of lonliness had nothing to do with my girlfriend or how the relationship itself was going it was just how i was feeling and it passes,just like good feelings pass,when we are lonley and single like i am now we become sad that we are single an lonley then comes self pity and the beating ill give myself,ya know the whats wrong with me shit,all part of being human the key for me is im lookin to be with somone because i am human i belive i posses the capacity to love and be loved by another NOT TO FIX OR TO BE FIXED,no one can will or ever has except GOD and he wants me to feel my feelings,and helps me get through... so hang in dont beat yourself up too badly and it could be we will all meet the one when its time i know it aint easy.... [Edited 9/8/2008 3:10:05 PM]
9/8/2008 2:59:50 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
1redneck4u Fredericksburg, VA age: 37 online now!	yea i no how it is
9/8/2008 3:13:41 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
whynotgrl Durham, NC age: 51	Quote from cjo22eyes: I just spent the past 4 hours over at my friends house watching the Bears whip the shit outta the Colts. There was me and two other very in love couples there. Why is at that when you are at your absolute lonliest, there is always someone to rub it right in your face?! I'm seriously hurting right now, I can't stand how lonely I have been getting. Can it get much worse than this? And, if its so easy for people to find love like all my friends, why am I having such a hard time?? My heart hurts tonight. You are so young and pretty..I cannot imagine that you would be lonely. If you are alone then imagine how difficult it is for us older women. I bet they were not trying to make you feel bad, especially if they were friends. I think you are just extra sensitive at the moment. Get busy girl chatting it up with some of the cuties here. Like I said before, you are pretty, you won't be lonely for long. Hang in there!

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