lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?

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9/7/2008 9:41:48 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
cjo22eyes Saint Charles, IL age: 24	I just spent the past 4 hours over at my friends house watching the Bears whip the shit outta the Colts. There was me and two other very in love couples there. Why is at that when you are at your absolute lonliest, there is always someone to rub it right in your face?! I'm seriously hurting right now, I can't stand how lonely I have been getting. Can it get much worse than this? And, if its so easy for people to find love like all my friends, why am I having such a hard time?? My heart hurts tonight.
9/7/2008 9:48:19 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
cyberhi04 Dover AFB, DE age: 21 online now!	ohhhhhh yea your in the club too. My heart hurts everyday so dont feel bad. Optimism is the the key to stayin happy though
9/7/2008 9:48:59 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
aka_neo Marathon, FL age: 51	Cheer up young lady ,the cults will win next week .
9/7/2008 9:50:27 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
jaziej32 Templeton, MA age: 33 online now!	Well Gorgeous I have been single for a year today and lonely I am, I just think that your looking to hard into your friends and focasing on them to much because your lonely. Some people like me and you are just fed up with our past relationships and have been threw hell so we tend to look for a better life and are alittle picker about who we choose this time around. I'm 32 going on 33 in 10 days and have had enough head games and have searched my whole life for that special some one and will find her one day but for now be patient that day will come and be worth the wait
9/7/2008 9:53:57 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
thankuvets Oklahoma City, OK age: 40	Yeah, spent the day riding with some buds our last stop two of them get the numbers and hang out with two very beautiful girls, and here I was just twiddling my thumbs... LOL Although I have met a girl that is very sweet, who knows, we shall see. Later.
9/7/2008 10:02:38 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
jxl New York, NY age: 34	Look... Pitying yourself is not going to make things any better. At least you're alone and lonely. You could have been feeling lonely while in the middle of a relationship. Be happy with yourself before you get into another relationship. You can't let your happiness be determined by your relationship status, otherwise you'll have a very tough time. People are attracted to positivity, once you change your own outlook of yourself, things will change. Can it get worse? Yeah it could... Find another game to play this one is f**king depressing.
9/7/2008 10:08:25 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
flirtboy Upper Darby, PA age: 31	It's just a part of life...you can't always be with somebody...and the funny part is that when you are with somebody, you don't really think of it much differently...it's nice to be with a person, but it's not everything in life...if you consider your interests, you will most likely find a person you are interested in by pursuing them...Take a class or two at college...I'm sure plenty of guys there would love to meet you...Join a local social group, as I'm sure there are plenty of guys there who would love to meet you. Truthfully being a Bears fan myself, I'd love to meet you...except that I'm in Philly:/
9/7/2008 10:08:31 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
romneve Gainesville, FL age: 88	Well said, jxl!
9/7/2008 11:22:22 PM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
th6231 Point Pleasant Beach, NJ age: 61	To be honest with you--there are no words to console you in a time like this. There are times in life when there is just nothing to say but, "I am sorry to hear that".No amount of "stay happy" talk will help....that is not what you want to hear. But we don't mind you sending your feelings here--it is good to vent. It is good to express yourself. Maybe someone--someplace will have a helping hint--I'm sorry I don't have one. But I can say that there is always hope inthis life. You do have to believe that!! can things get worse?? It isn't a matter of worse--it is a matter of saying you will have different challenges from time to time--we ALL have them. we all get in a slump. That is the way life is. Sometimes adversity builds up our character. Makes us better people. It makes us think. I will not bother to tell you or remind you that some people do have it a lot worse. Illness and the like----what is important is YOUR happiness at this particular time. So good luck to you.
9/8/2008 5:26:45 AM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
cjo22eyes Saint Charles, IL age: 24	Quote from jxl: Look... Pitying yourself is not going to make things any better. At least you're alone and lonely. You could have been feeling lonely while in the middle of a relationship. Be happy with yourself before you get into another relationship. You can't let your happiness be determined by your relationship status, otherwise you'll have a very tough time. People are attracted to positivity, once you change your own outlook of yourself, things will change. Can it get worse? Yeah it could... Find another game to play this one is f**king depressing. You can't help how you feel. Its not as if I'm walking around all day long saying "woe is me" The reason I come to this site and post forums is cause I know I can get support here from people who are going through te same shit. I have never been single, or dated, or anything. This is all very new to me, and I'm sorry if I am having a hard time dealing with it all. I am in no way trying to be negative, just trying to get through it. And your right, lonliness is depressing......but some people get depressed when there heart hurts. Its not very fair to say that I just pity myself, and that I'm just being negative. Jesus, if I can't turn to an advice forum for help and support than where can I?? [Edited 9/8/2008 5:28:13 AM]
9/8/2008 5:38:33 AM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
lilac48604 Saginaw, MI age: 33	I understand completely how you feel. I think everyone goes through it once in a while. Some people just take more time to move on than others do. You'll be fine! All I know is that it won't do you any good trying to avoid the situation...just get out there and have some fun. Go to places where you can potentially meet someone...and be open to meeting people. I swear guys can tell if you're sulking or just otherwise not ready to open up to someone. Get yourself together and let yourself open up. You'll be having fun in no time. Life will go on!!
9/8/2008 11:13:34 AM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
fallnstar Miami, FL age: 48	Quote from cjo22eyes: Quote from jxl: Look... Pitying yourself is not going to make things any better. At least you're alone and lonely. You could have been feeling lonely while in the middle of a relationship. Be happy with yourself before you get into another relationship. You can't let your happiness be determined by your relationship status, otherwise you'll have a very tough time. People are attracted to positivity, once you change your own outlook of yourself, things will change. Can it get worse? Yeah it could... Find another game to play this one is f**king depressing. You can't help how you feel. Its not as if I'm walking around all day long saying "woe is me" The reason I come to this site and post forums is cause I know I can get support here from people who are going through te same shit. I have never been single, or dated, or anything. This is all very new to me, and I'm sorry if I am having a hard time dealing with it all. I am in no way trying to be negative, just trying to get through it. And your right, lonliness is depressing......but some people get depressed when there heart hurts. Its not very fair to say that I just pity myself, and that I'm just being negative. Jesus, if I can't turn to an advice forum for help and support than where can I?? Alot of people here are depressed and lonley.. But we don't come to the Forum for THERAPY... Like you do.. You need to talk to a professional about how you feel, NOT US. Lord, your not going to die w/ out a man... You must have some hobbies, or things you like doing .. roller blading, hiking, scuba diving...I don't know you so, Try to keep busy... Do activities you enjoy... It's when your not looking for a man that you will find one... Chin UP .
9/8/2008 11:23:37 AM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
angelleyess Middleboro, MA age: 35	Quote from cjo22eyes: I just spent the past 4 hours over at my friends house watching the Bears whip the shit outta the Colts. There was me and two other very in love couples there. Why is at that when you are at your absolute lonliest, there is always someone to rub it right in your face?! I'm seriously hurting right now, I can't stand how lonely I have been getting. Can it get much worse than this? And, if its so easy for people to find love like all my friends, why am I having such a hard time?? My heart hurts tonight. awww honey, I know how your feeling some days are worse then others and it just sucks going to certain things like football game gatherings or to weddings I myself have been feeing the exact same way, iv been single for over 2 1/2 yrs and often find myself staring at other couples in awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww wishing it were me but i also know that this cant last forever.. someone will come along and sweep us off of our feet. We just need to be a lil more patient is all
9/8/2008 11:29:45 AM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
oneskeptic Absecon, NJ age: 39	Quote from cjo22eyes: Quote from jxl: Look... Pitying yourself is not going to make things any better. At least you're alone and lonely. You could have been feeling lonely while in the middle of a relationship. Be happy with yourself before you get into another relationship. You can't let your happiness be determined by your relationship status, otherwise you'll have a very tough time. People are attracted to positivity, once you change your own outlook of yourself, things will change. Can it get worse? Yeah it could... Find another game to play this one is f**king depressing. You can't help how you feel. Its not as if I'm walking around all day long saying "woe is me" The reason I come to this site and post forums is cause I know I can get support here from people who are going through te same shit. I have never been single, or dated, or anything. This is all very new to me, and I'm sorry if I am having a hard time dealing with it all. I am in no way trying to be negative, just trying to get through it. And your right, lonliness is depressing......but some people get depressed when there heart hurts. Its not very fair to say that I just pity myself, and that I'm just being negative. Jesus, if I can't turn to an advice forum for help and support than where can I?? Welcome to my world! It's really not that bad for me because I'm an independent person that doesn't need someone else to make me feel validated. I love being in a relationship but since I have been single for over 4 years, I have found out a lot about myself, something I never really did while in a relationship because I was too busy trying to make them happy and not fully concentrating on myself. I say enjoy your single life, you have freedoms to do whatever you want WHENEVER you want to do them and have noone to report to! Embrace it and you will start to enjoy it, when someone comes a long it will be a bonus to your quality of life. You're young, you can do tons of things like go to the gym, go out with the girls, stay at home and do absolutely nothing, and a ton of other things on a whim! Its great, you'll see!!
9/8/2008 11:39:37 AM	lonliness is my game, anyone else playing?
angelleyess Middleboro, MA age: 35	re:. I love being in a relationship but since I have been single for over 4 years, I have found out a lot about myself, something I never really did while in a relationship because I was too busy trying to make them happy and not fully concentrating on myself. well thats just it Iv had all the time I need to find myself and NEVER needed or need a man. I am very happy with my life the way it is now, I just would like to share some of my time holding, kissing and hugging someone other then my daughter if you know what i mean? the bed can get very cold at night and it would be nice to have someone to slow dance with. I miss the human touch but i wont just settle for anyone either I do have patients in this area and will wait as long as it takes to make the right connection but it dont mean i wont get lonely from time to time.. It's only natural .... jmo

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