ghostrider419
Casa Grande, AZ
age: 48
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I myself am disabled and truly believe my profile has been passed over by many of the ladies here just for that reason. (That, and I don't have 6 pack abs, wear Armani suits, and make $250,000 year) As far as dating a lady with disabilities, it would really have to depend on the nature of the disability. And I don't say that with any malice. I have signed up on a disability dating site also and have seen some of the ladies on there. Some are quadriplegics on ventilators. Being that I am also disabled, but it's not visable, and having to take care of someone like that in that position and try to manage my own problems would certainly put a strain on our activities and lifestyle. I am looking for someone I can take care of in a relationship sort of way, but not someone who needs a fulltime medical facility. I hope this doesn't sound harsh, I'm not meaning it like that at all. Obesity is another one I don't wish to have to deal with. I am overweight, but not what I would consider obese. To some women, I am just a lard ass. That's ok with me if they skip me by because I don't need shallow people in my life anyway. Too much drama and I really don't want to live up to someone elses standards of how THEY think I should look or act. I am who I am. Either accept me for me or walk away... I have some lady friends who are what I would consider obese. They are great friends and I would do anything for them, but I am not attracted to them physically. I guess it would really have to depend on the disability and their ability to manage it.
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