| 9/8/2008 5:54:32 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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mellymel1984
New Castle, DE
age: 24
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 best advise for u is just dont give up on anything and u wil find some one out there that doesnt care what u have but will care for u cause they love u thats what im waiting for lol its a lil corney but oh well
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| 9/8/2008 6:45:00 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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puffinpie
Highland Park, NJ
age: 45
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If you can't take care of yourself, how can you take care of a woman?
True, It stinks being broke, but instead of feeling sorry for yourself,
pick yourself off of the ground, and get over it. Get your act together and
and make your life worth something. Then you will be worth something to someone
else.  
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| 9/8/2008 7:52:34 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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grobs
New Braunfels, TX
age: 38
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yea you can do it...
go cheap for your self for a while...
i mean eat out of stupid dollar store can foods..
next.. save every dime you make, take out child support, spousal support, ect.
if you have an expensive car with expensive monthly payment, get rid of it, and get a low expensive car with low monthly payment.
learn cheap entertainment.. its out there.
look if i have to do it at my age... you surely can do it at your age....
besides you look nice... seems there will be other women in your situation..
true... you have to work up to some financial gain.. so you can offer something on the table for your next lady... don't want to be a bum.. right? or worse a user or moocher...
but you learn to cut back on foods you do not need, supplies and extra's you do not need.
ect...
you can do it... start small... it will build again, where you feel more secure.
you can do it.
usa
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| 9/8/2008 8:23:35 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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fallsguy24
Wichita Falls, TX
age: 24
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being broke should not have to much to do with finding love just my 2 cents
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| 9/8/2008 9:58:26 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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mistadoright595
Meridian, MS
age: 28
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Of course its possible...A true mate doesnt look at what you have, rather what you are about. Your personality is what shines through, your heart of kindness is what should be attractive....
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| 9/9/2008 6:16:11 AM |
Broke but longing for love |
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katydid63
Toms River, NJ
age: 45
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yes you will find it. how do i know? i fell in love with someone who had a criminal record and is broke and lives with his mom. i am no longer with him, but trust me our breaking up at nothing to do with his having a criminal record or the fact that he was broke. the right woman is out there you just have yet to meet her. good luck to you.
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| 9/9/2008 8:38:30 AM |
Broke but longing for love |
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oblue
Bowling Green, KY
age: 50
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got caught up in greed of material n money..Lost everything due to my ignorance..I purchased stolen art trying to make profit...took an arrest and did my time..starting over..
I am financially poor but because I love life and appreciate every breath of fresh air I breathe, I am fortunate to feel rich emotionally..heyy I survived my trials and tribulations and became a better man because of it..Money or stature doesnt make one who he os she is..The Love in ones Heart does..
Not many women are going to be taken with the idea of dating someone who is a criminal... in short thats what you are.
I kinds doubt that was your only criminal activity too, the stolen art.
This is why I like to do criminal background checks on anyone I meet.... so I can protect myself from the crimninal element coming into my life and around my home and family.
That may be so but everyone needs a secound chance.He has done the time an has a new life
dont hate. to you dude and good luck
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| 9/9/2008 8:39:52 AM |
Broke but longing for love |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
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got caught up in greed of material n money..Lost everything due to my ignorance..I purchased stolen art trying to make profit...took an arrest and did my time..starting over..
I am financially poor but because I love life and appreciate every breath of fresh air I breathe, I am fortunate to feel rich emotionally..heyy I survived my trials and tribulations and became a better man because of it..Money or stature doesnt make one who he os she is..The Love in ones Heart does..
Let me get this straight in my head. You bought stolen art, knowing it was stolen, but still you bought it to make money, got caught and did time?
You're absolutely right. Money and stature do not make a person. INTEGRITY DOES. Unless you include that in your life's equation, you are bound to repeat your mistakes. Love is fleeting, at best, and unless you love yourself first, you will never find it from another. Find your inner integrity which will lead you to self love. I had it all twice and lost it all twice. Makes no difference to me. "Things" have to be maintained and dusted and insured....too much trouble.
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| 9/9/2008 8:50:04 AM |
Broke but longing for love |
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pixie1963
Crossville, TN
age: 44
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got caught up in greed of material n money..Lost everything due to my ignorance..I purchased stolen art trying to make profit...took an arrest and did my time..starting over..
I am financially poor but because I love life and appreciate every breath of fresh air I breathe, I am fortunate to feel rich emotionally..heyy I survived my trials and tribulations and became a better man because of it..Money or stature doesnt make one who he os she is..The Love in ones Heart does..
Not many women are going to be taken with the idea of dating someone who is a criminal... in short thats what you are.
I kinds doubt that was your only criminal activity too, the stolen art.
This is why I like to do criminal background checks on anyone I meet.... so I can protect myself from the crimninal element coming into my life and around my home and family.
That may be so but everyone needs a secound chance.He has done the time an has a new life
dont hate. to you dude and good luck
I think for him to admit on here that he has a criminal record is proof that he is taking responsibility for what hes done and wanting to start over, for people to judge him just on that is ignorant, I agree that it is scary to date now, but please people how many guys do you think you have dated that doesnt have a record just because they didnt get caught? Atleast hes honest!
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| 9/12/2008 9:24:39 AM |
Broke but longing for love |
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indie68
Ogden, UT
age: 40
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I think as long as you are honest about it and trying to overcome it then you should be ok. If you continued to be unemployed that could cause a strain on any relationship even if you had already been in it. People have circumstances that come into their lives that cause them to start over. I know I could very well be in that spot myself soon due to my divorce and him not caring about what happens to his kids as long as he screws me over from jail. You are honest about the stolen merchandise and the jail time so some women may respect that you are trying to overcome. Hang in there.
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| 9/12/2008 12:44:44 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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clubkid66
Brooklyn, NY
age: 41
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Yes, but get your stuff together. No romance without finance.
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| 9/12/2008 1:04:24 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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lucky7708
Rockford, MN
age: 57
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Not at a brothel you won't...
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| 9/12/2008 1:28:42 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 45 online now!
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"If you can't take care of yourself, how can you take care of a woman?"
I didn't realize that women needed someone to take care of them.
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| 9/12/2008 1:49:17 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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whynotgrl
Durham, NC
age: 51
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You fell off of the horse..But you can get back on. Next go round you may be more sucessful than the first. Stay positive and hang it there. It will get better!
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| 9/12/2008 2:12:54 PM |
Broke but longing for love |
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texas_okie
Laverne, OK
age: 42
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Sometimes - bad things happen to good people - for whatever the reason (greed, not paying attention to details, over induligence in muriad of things...) Key factors are: Owning up to your responsiblity in the matter; accepting the outcomes/consequences; and learning from the circumstance. - Which it sounds you are.
Sometimes - the flying carpet is ripped out from underneath us because it has to be - to recenter our perspectives, and force us to soul search ~ to rememer what is important during this earthly journey through life.
Always Believe..... and keep the faith!
Peace!
P.Win
Awsome Post!
Keep the faith!
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