9/11/2007 10:46:14 AM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 54
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Having children does add complications to the free spirit sex you had before them. Having kids around all time is like living with your mother-in-law. No private time. The suggestion listed by the post above are all so very true. You definitely need to get out of your rut, or you will find yourself a single man.
A suggestion you might try, is set aside a night each week for Date Night with your spouse. I do not care what you do on date night. Heck, even a trip to the grocery store, a trip to the ice cream store, out for coffee or even the movie she wants to see. Taking her shopping at her favorite store works too. She knows your financial status, and probably will not spend money you do not have, but it sure makes her feel great that you want to spend time with her. Might even get some nifty ideas for presents for her when you learn what she shops for. Most people your age seem to settle into routines. Each of you have chores you do daily as part of the family operations. Surprise her by cooking dinner for her. Kids are a blessing but do not need to rule the household. I very much dislike using the television as a baby sitter, but put a movie in for the kids, take your spouse to your bedroom, and do whatever. Chit, give her a bubble bath. Not every situation will result in sex, but man, if you let her know how much you appreciate her, every day, you'd be surprised how much you will get.
Date Night might only be for 2 or 3 hours, and surely you can get a relative or neighbor to watch the children for that time period. Heck, offer to exchange the favor with neighbors who have the same problem.
When all else is said, do not allow yourself into a rut. Keep the marriage alive. Kids will never totally be gone, because you are their backbone even when they are 30, but your spouse is someone you plan on spending the rest of your life with. Keep it exciting, keep it alive.
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9/11/2007 10:51:54 AM |
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1pinkstar
Omaha, NE
age: 55
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great suggestions, all of you. I wish my ex would have had some of this adivce. Its too late now. I went so long without it from him that I didn't hate him, didn't love him, just didn't care anymore.
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9/11/2007 11:21:56 AM |
what can a man do to get more sex from their girlfriend or wife? |
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rajuncajun
Defuniak Springs, FL
age: 45
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i let ya borrow my sign , if the girls on here dont peek
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9/11/2007 2:45:26 PM |
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rv2323
East Meadow, NY
age: 31
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i do the 1 time a week date night it helps - i think its the kids bills all that shit - i always try to keep it going - things are getting better though- thanks to everyone for there very helpful suggestions
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9/11/2007 3:00:38 PM |
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nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
age: 37
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cuddle....paint my toes....take out the garbage....not always in that order....oh yeah...cooking for me gets big brownie points.....
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9/11/2007 3:38:03 PM |
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eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48
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more sex? Try restraints
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9/11/2007 4:07:10 PM |
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hellolunawoman
Whittier, CA
age: 46
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Treat her like a lady.
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9/11/2007 4:13:51 PM |
what can a man do to get more sex from their girlfriend or wife? |
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twiz
Martinsville, VA
age: 56
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kitty what you want to eat i;ll cook for ya
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9/11/2007 4:42:48 PM |
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nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
age: 37
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meat and veggies kinda girl....lots of wine..xo
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9/11/2007 4:52:32 PM |
what can a man do to get more sex from their girlfriend or wife? |
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angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 34
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trust me he wouldnt need more with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im always up for it... hhehehehe
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9/11/2007 5:23:04 PM |
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53lady
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53
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Okay...I've talked with 3 different men..2 are married, one is not. They all tell me the same thing...their wives or partners, flat out refuse sex! I'm like WTF???? Women...NEVER refuse you husband or partner sex. Oh, there may be good reasons, but I am told...they just gave it up...wanted no more sex! Now maybe if he pisses you off everyday in lots of ways...I can see where that might turn you off of them...BUT...if you really love them and want to STAY together...better find a way back to the bedroom, or else you are going to lose them...and it would be your fault!!! Why...because you didn't talk to thme or go to counseling, or do whatever it took to keep them around!
Blame it on the kids, the bills, say "I'm tired", whatever...but DO NOT use sex or lack of sex as a punishment or some kind of lever against them. It WILL backfire on you and you WILL lose!!! They will and ARE looking at us single women for sex. Better go to counseling or whatever it takes to hold on to them, IF that's what you want.
This idea of refusing sex and EXPECTING your man to stay with you...is totally ridiculous!!! There are five big factors in every relationship and SEX is one of them.
You WILL NOT sustain any relationship with a man without sex...come to think of it...the same goes for women. After 6 yrs. I'm done and moving on. I will not live without sex and no one should be EXPECTED to! Period. So KNOW this BEFORE entering any relationship with a man...or woman for that matter!
So why am I hearing so much about this???
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9/11/2007 5:37:58 PM |
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striker29527
London, KY
age: 45
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you don't have to spend much money to take her to a nice open area park, set out a couple of lawn chairs or a blanket to just sit back and look at the stars and moon, does it?
especially on the spur of the moment - just plan ahead to have someone in the family to "decide" to take the kids for the night!
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9/11/2007 6:24:29 PM |
what can a man do to get more sex from their girlfriend or wife? |
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cora2b
Erie, PA
age: 50
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stop asking for it
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9/11/2007 6:31:49 PM |
what can a man do to get more sex from their girlfriend or wife? |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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Treat her right outside of the bedroom and you will have no problems inside of the bedroom
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9/12/2007 8:06:48 AM |
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rv2323
East Meadow, NY
age: 31
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I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING- SHE IS STARTING TO COME ALONG NOW - THANKS TO EVERYONE FOR THEIR INPUT
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