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9/14/2008 12:00:01 PM |
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eyeonheaven
Azle, TX
age: 56
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I've noticed that a lot of people on these forums talk about differences between men or women, usually it's a way of saying one sex is better than the other.
I understand it's normal. Now my question to be asked next is for men only, mainly because this one is just a myth I want men to disprove right now:
When it comes to sex with someone you care about (not some random girl, because even girls can't make the bold claim they aren't like men when they have random sex)
What do you do to show her intimately you care? When in bed how do you touch, what are you thinking when you touch? Do you intentionally try to figure out the little tingles she gets, feel her goosebumps, and then touch another spot knowing what she is feeling in one area in comparison to the other, and separately with both combined? Do you touch her intentionally leading in a way with passion that shows her she means the world to you?
What do you say to her? Do you tell her she is beautiful? Do you tell her that every movement she does is cute, reflects her personality, and the way she talks and even tilts her head or walks is amazing? Do you tell her "baby you are my world, you are amazing" Do you tell her that the way she feels is amazing, her soft skin is as soft as she makes your heart feel, do you tell her that her eyes are deep enough to fill any hole inside of you just by looking into them? Do you tell her you come into another existence and being when you're doing what you're doing?
Do you think about how much she means to you, and how sexually intimate it is to know that you are pleasing her, and know what she is feeling, you are synchronized in passion, thought, looking her in the eyes, wanting each other to be close, etc?
Do you feel the emotional and physical pull to this woman, do you pull her close and just hold her, kissing her and/or taking a pause to pause and bask in the emotional moments and or show it in some different way?
Go ahead all you men out there that know what I'm talking about.
Tell the women exactly how and why we are passion driven.
LOL I think the lack of answers, says it all. You see all the empty space with no answers and the answers you got were vauge. (except Karl, and one other.) That is what they are like in that suposed romantic position........Empty, expresionless The norm
Good post some lady is going to be very lucky to get you.
What do you do to show her intimately you care? When in bed how do you touch, what are you thinking when you touch? Do you intentionally try to figure out the little tingles she gets, feel her goosebumps, and then touch another spot knowing what she is feeling in one area in comparison to the other, and separately with both combined? Do you touch her intentionally leading in a way with passion that shows her she means the world to you?
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9/14/2008 12:05:46 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 49
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have you ever seen someone try to be romantic when and the other person does not respond because they are not in the mood,how much of an effect does all those words and actions have then
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9/14/2008 12:09:58 PM |
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postalbob
Everett, WA
age: 23
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Eyeonheaven:
Nah, when you think about it this is small scale, and there's a good chance a guy doesn't want to put something together with the risk of a girl telling him either he is:
A: Full of it.
B: The romantic thing he points out isn't seen as romantic, and he's seen as less of a man from it.
C: He's seen as less of a man for pointing out something that is romantic to other guys
I know a lot of guys that do some purdy romantic stuff.
I personally used to do a lot of things, the whole rose petal bath thing, with rose petals leading from the bed (Which had a teddy bear holding a rose and a ring that I had set up) to the bath, which had Sigur Ros playing, and had a home cooked meal with desert and whine and everything.
Ah, that was such a good night.
leftfooted: We're talking about when you're in a serious relationship...And have you seen what happens when you do nothing romantic at all in a serious relationship?
You've got to take some risks in love to have bliss. No risk, no nothing as a mentor of mine says.
[Edited 9/14/2008 12:12:06 PM]
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9/14/2008 12:14:38 PM |
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sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
age: 44
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Sometimes trust comes into play, you might build a ship knowing that IKE may take a turn and you will now have the means to get out of here.
Life is a journey, enjoy the journey
Karl in Sedona
For the OP you are welcome anytime
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9/14/2008 12:24:03 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 49
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trust is not an issue,what is though is the point of the comment,the ship is not neccessary because there is no water,the expression of emotions is not necessary because there is no woman,those type of emotional reactions is not a lesson to learned but an experience to be lived
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9/14/2008 6:17:19 PM |
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gabisanic
Pleasant Hill, CA
age: 51
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I personally believe that love is an ACT OF THE WILL and not just that warm and cuddly feeling you get inside. An act of the will, indeed... I have to be willing to love unconditionally, without boundaries, without preconceptions and yes, I have to be willing to love knowing full well the risks it involves. Love is an emotion but true love is an experience and it requires me to deny myself and seek to meet each and every of my beloved's needs and desires, assuage her fears and vulnerabilities, speak to her heart, mind and soul while she seeks to do the same.
How many of us men really know our partner's preferred "love language"? Will the woman I welcome into my life know I love her when I speak to her; will she be able to know just by the tone of my voice; will she be able to feel my words? will she know how much I lust after her when I look at her and even when I am not looking at her; will my lust and desire to touch her, kiss her, whisper in her ears be ever present in her mind even when I am physically absent? will she know how much she means to me when I am near her or when I am afar; when I am awake and she fills every one of my thoughts or when I am asleep and she fills my dreams with her kindness, charm and exquisite beauty?
How to love a woman, how to express my love to her after many years of being together, when the excitement of that once new romance seems now but a routine in which one or both of us feel as though we are taken for granted? Love is an act of the will.
Speak from your heart I say... don't just feel it but say it. When she enters the room and my heart expands, I will not keep it to myself... I will let her know. When I am engrossed in my daily work, away from home and she suddenly and miraculously appears in my mind and fills my thoughts, I will not keep it to myself... I will pick up the phone and share with her my smile, my joy, my pride, my desire. Often times actions do speak louder than words so I will not just say something but do something as well.
Make time for one another I say... I will strive to spend time with the woman in my life. I will turn off the phone, turn off the TV, turn off the computer, turn off the radio, turn off the lights and allow us to sit together and experience one another, dance without music, speak softly, touch daringly, seduce without fear of rejection, explore the limits of our intimacy. Being present with the one I love will offer me the opportunity to not just express my feelings but to also make myself available to love her and be loved in return. Love is an act of the will.
[Edited 9/14/2008 6:23:45 PM]
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9/14/2008 9:50:18 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 39
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Gabi, I think I just fell for you
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9/14/2008 10:06:19 PM |
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cruise427
Los Angeles, CA
age: 40
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.... damm, thats a lot of questions...
every women is differant,...
what makes one women drop her panties. ..
might make another women, tell you to f'off
its not always, what you say or do,..
sometimes , its what you don't say, or don't do...
keep it simple, keep it fun.... and if she tells you to f'off
don't be a wimp and go home crying, ... hang in there,
and don't take "no", for an answer
just be yourself,...if that don't work....
well, you're gonna need some good lies
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9/14/2008 10:12:06 PM |
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night_tangle
Oak Harbor, WA
age: 19
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To leftfooted:
Haha, you're hilarious.
I love it.
Are you republican?
Lol, I shared the same view for two reasons when I was young:
I hadn't dated and didn't understand women share it all the time.
I was republican and lived in an abusive sheltered household and didn't understand the way the world worked.
You've got a lot of girls to be angry with they do talk about this type of stuff! LOL.
whoa. whats wrong with being republican?
and i'm sorry you grew up like that i'm glad my mom was strong enough to leave my dad so i didnt have to grow up like that.
and one last thing, why not meet people from this site? i mean, yeah the forums are pretty awesome, but wouldn't that make it a better reason to meet someone from this site? you get to kno them a bit more in group settings.
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9/14/2008 10:12:10 PM |
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elawson
Warrior, AL
age: 31
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Well when I have found that women that makes me feel that there are no other women left on the face of the earth, I try to learn everything about her. When we are out together I listen to her to try to get a grasp on her like/dislikes. Watch her eyes or facial expressions to see how strongly she feels about certain things, learning the things that make someone click is very important in building a strong relationship or friendship. Now when we are alone I do start taking careful notes of her different spots that turn her on or off. Most of the time nibbling on her ears whispering to her while looking to see a result. Then kissing her neck watching the goosebumps come up as I lick and suck on her body. I find that experimenting with your new partner will tell you everything that you should do to make her fall helpless in love with you. By always telling someone exactly how you feel about them you should not ever have regrets later. Above all else always act and treat them in an appropriate way.
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9/15/2008 12:42:07 AM |
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coffee102
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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It's nice to know that some men get the fact that a woman's pleasure is not just physical; but, that it's mostly mental!
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9/15/2008 1:02:04 AM |
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postalbob
Everett, WA
age: 23
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Haha, yeah everything varies.
Personally I'm not looking for advice, if anything I need advice finding the right girl as opposed to what to do with her when I do
I just want people to stop and think, and answer in terms of whatever has worked for them, or how they express themselves.
Of course I wanted to set a mark so no one would feel embarrassed, so I kept mine diverse hitting on a combined factor of thirty two and a half different things so it could at least partly relate to anyone.
Nice input.
.... damm, thats a lot of questions...
every women is differant,...
what makes one women drop her panties. ..
might make another women, tell you to f'off
its not always, what you say or do,..
sometimes , its what you don't say, or don't do...
keep it simple, keep it fun.... and if she tells you to f'off
don't be a wimp and go home crying, ... hang in there,
and don't take "no", for an answer
just be yourself,...if that don't work....
well, you're gonna need some good lies
[Edited 9/15/2008 1:14:50 AM]
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9/15/2008 1:03:28 AM |
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postalbob
Everett, WA
age: 23
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I am republican, as such nothing is wrong with being it!
I was more laughing at the guy because he's clearly a little too conservative.
To leftfooted:
Haha, you're hilarious.
I love it.
Are you republican?
Lol, I shared the same view for two reasons when I was young:
I hadn't dated and didn't understand women share it all the time.
I was republican and lived in an abusive sheltered household and didn't understand the way the world worked.
You've got a lot of girls to be angry with they do talk about this type of stuff! LOL.
whoa. whats wrong with being republican?
and i'm sorry you grew up like that i'm glad my mom was strong enough to leave my dad so i didnt have to grow up like that.
and one last thing, why not meet people from this site? i mean, yeah the forums are pretty awesome, but wouldn't that make it a better reason to meet someone from this site? you get to kno them a bit more in group settings.
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9/15/2008 1:18:28 AM |
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night_tangle
Oak Harbor, WA
age: 19
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I am republican, as such nothing is wrong with being it!
I was more laughing at the guy because he's clearly a little too conservative.
lawl! alright ^.^
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9/15/2008 5:31:00 AM |
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eyeonheaven
Azle, TX
age: 56
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personally believe that love is an ACT OF THE WILL and not just that warm and cuddly feeling you get inside. An act of the will, indeed... I have to be willing to love unconditionally, without boundaries, without preconceptions and yes, I have to be willing to love knowing full well the risks it involves. Love is an emotion but true love is an experience and it requires me to deny myself and seek to meet each and every of my beloved's needs and desires, assuage her fears and vulnerabilities, speak to her heart, mind and soul while she seeks to do the same.
How many of us men really know our partner's preferred "love language"? Will the woman I welcome into my life know I love her when I speak to her; will she be able to know just by the tone of my voice; will she be able to feel my words? will she know how much I lust after her when I look at her and even when I am not looking at her; will my lust and desire to touch her, kiss her, whisper in her ears be ever present in her mind even when I am physically absent? will she know how much she means to me when I am near her or when I am afar; when I am awake and she fills every one of my thoughts or when I am asleep and she fills my dreams with her kindness, charm and exquisite beauty?
How to love a woman, how to express my love to her after many years of being together, when the excitement of that once new romance seems now but a routine in which one or both of us feel as though we are taken for granted? Love is an act of the will.
Speak from your heart I say... don't just feel it but say it. When she enters the room and my heart expands, I will not keep it to myself... I will let her know. When I am engrossed in my daily work, away from home and she suddenly and miraculously appears in my mind and fills my thoughts, I will not keep it to myself... I will pick up the phone and share with her my smile, my joy, my pride, my desire. Often times actions do speak louder than words so I will not just say something but do something as well.
Make time for one another I say... I will strive to spend time with the woman in my life. I will turn off the phone, turn off the TV, turn off the computer, turn off the radio, turn off the lights and allow us to sit together and experience one another, dance without music, speak softly, touch daringly, seduce without fear of rejection, explore the limits of our intimacy. Being present with the one I love will offer me the opportunity to not just express my feelings but to also make myself available to love her and be loved in return. Love is an act of the will.
Gabi, I think I just fell for you
Me too! And I do not care what the other guys think..I am glad you you have out grown the high school mentality of thinking: That some other guy might call you a wuss or worse: Truth or not.. guys......It is what we women want.
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