| 9/24/2007 10:27:50 AM |
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geegee210
Bronx, NY
age: 49
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I went to bed with this guy on the frist date and we last 9yrs together so guess it dosen't matter. I just wanted to get it and go didnt work out that way. after 9yrs now he thinks i a slut and who fn care
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| 9/24/2007 10:29:26 AM |
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love_2_party
Moorpark, CA
age: 19
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So what are we talking about in here?
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| 9/24/2007 10:32:13 AM |
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love_2_party
Moorpark, CA
age: 19
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Hey justagirl i like what you siad. thats how i live.
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| 9/24/2007 10:45:35 AM |
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kane52
Desoto, TX
age: 62
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A lady is a lady if that is what she presents herself to be. The rest is private and not for anyone to be judged by.
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| 9/24/2007 10:51:33 AM |
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kirota
Webster City, IA
age: 34
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I think to be a lady is in the person. I personally won't sleep with anyone that I don't see myself in a committed relationship with. I know some men say they won't wait that long, but I guess if they won't wait that long than they don't respect me before and they certainly wouldn't respect me after. JMO
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| 9/24/2007 10:56:46 AM |
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jellyo
Cumberland, KY
age: 20
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i met someone on another dating site and we are meeting in a few weeks and there is definatly gonna be sex but have been talking and calling each other for a few months now just cant wait untill the 3rd date
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| 9/24/2007 12:02:24 PM |
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kirota
Webster City, IA
age: 34
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It's easy to say that you don't care what anyone else thinks of you when you are young and don't have others to think about. I don't care what men think of me, but how I think of myself and my daughters does. JMO, but what if with all of this jumping into bed someone gets pregnant and realizes that this person was a good piece of ass, but not a person you can be with? Where does that leave people? Morals are deep within me and no matter how long I go without doesn't make me change them when I meet someone that I am sexually attracted to. There are no gaurantees that any relationship will last forever, but I certainly don't want one based on sex, because someday that could run out. JMO I'm happy for anyone that it does work out for. But is a fact that women who sleep around get the label of a slut while a man does't. When you get that name how do you know that a man wants you for you or because you are easy? 
Catching up.....Why does a women that feels bad for not sleeping with everyone not have a good mental state. That is a Bull Shit statement. I am strong minded and I would feel like a slut if I jumped into bed with a man before a relationship. Having morals and passing them onto my daughters doesn not make me weak minded or any other women.
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| 9/24/2007 12:05:45 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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| 9/24/2007 12:07:19 PM |
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kirota
Webster City, IA
age: 34
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What does that mean Soul?
Hi BTW!
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| 9/24/2007 12:32:58 PM |
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jellyo
Cumberland, KY
age: 20
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well we are in a relation ship kinda have even said the i love you thing he is so wonderful i think about him all the time only thing is he lives 2000 miles away
i miss him so much and never even met him yet
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| 9/24/2007 1:07:36 PM |
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kirota
Webster City, IA
age: 34
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Jello, I can relate to that. I'm glad that I am not the only one.
Just be careful.....
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| 9/24/2007 2:20:45 PM |
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hopeforthebest
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 33
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To me being a lady has nothing to do with how much time you wait before you have sex with someone. To me a lady is someone that puts alot more consciousness into how she talks and the way she acts in public and such. What happens in the bedroom is private and should not take away from whether that person is a lady. Personally I do believe that love at first sight is possible so if the two people feel like getting it on quickly so be it. To me sex complicates things greatly though so I don't like to just jump right in. JMO anyway.
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| 9/24/2007 2:26:23 PM |
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mrcooper20
Wind Ridge, PA
age: 29
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I think that is totally up to when the women is comfortable with herself no matter how much a guy might push her into having sex.
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| 9/24/2007 2:37:15 PM |
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percussion
Livermore, CA
age: 46
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A true lady will never choose a man who she thinks will kiss n tell. Just because a women has made the choice to give her self does not make her a ____!
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| 9/24/2007 2:41:02 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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And Percussion IS a true Lady. How are you doing? Haven't seen you on here in awhile.
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