9/15/2007 12:07:29 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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no thanks bro ....you seem like a real nice guy so if you guys divorced it was probablly her
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9/15/2007 12:09:00 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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Thanks Soul. But I have to admit. I had my faults too.
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9/15/2007 12:11:11 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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we all have our faults, i know you r not gonna let that get to you right?
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9/15/2007 3:20:23 PM |
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flabeaches123
Tarpon Springs, FL
age: 50
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please forgive me. but it just seems for the females. we have to be careful of that line. not to cross it to quick. does not mean we do not have desires, and god help us if we make a mistake and give it to quickly to that man that would have been a very good mate for long term. now he is wondering hhhhmmmmmm!!!!!!and that might not even be the case. we may have gone without for months, but he does not know that. and he judges. HELP!!!!!
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9/15/2007 3:24:05 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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Be a nympho period!
This advice is by no means directed to Soul or Walt , i know what you guys are all about!
LMFAO!
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9/15/2007 9:09:54 PM |
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sweetfyr
Woodbridge, VA
age: 33
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Good question... men say that...a lady is a lady but do they really mean it.. I had a discussion with a friend of mine...and he said..that if she performed an act with him..that quickly...who else was she with...just as quickly...SO GUY..C'MON...BE HONEST..
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9/15/2007 9:16:12 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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I still say it depends on the person. You can't judge ppl right off the bat. Women have needs and desires just as men do. women have had it bad for too long. What I mean is, if a guy scores with a lot of women, he's a stud. But if a woman scores with a lot of men, she a slut. Not right. Just because you have sex with some one soon doesn't mean you are a bad person. jmo
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9/15/2007 9:29:22 PM |
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jstancrdnk
Fairview, NC
age: 59
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I prefer to not jump their bones for at least the first 4 dates. That way there isn't any really bad feelings if I decide that she isn't what I'm looking for and I bail. It seems that after sex, the rules change.jmo
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9/15/2007 9:42:14 PM |
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tryanagain
Hillsborough, NJ
age: 48
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I'll wait, to you know when she's ready. She will tell you
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9/16/2007 4:32:13 PM |
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mrokayguy
Winter Haven, FL
age: 54
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You are so right...But Timing and how one feels at the time....First only an imature person would think a woman is ever easy or not a lady because she chooses to give of herself.
Most sexual issue people have is not appreciating one another. Whether lust or love be damn thankful to share someone truly wanting to give themself to you so intamately in the compasity of a relationship. Even agreeing to just F--k say thank you it didn't have to happen.
In a relationship mature men look at it as ( I wish you were still like that 10 years down the road) or longer..I know I do. It gets old? NEVER! Unless someone feelings change so make it like the first time you meet and let the sparks fly and burn as long as you are able. Why would any man think he could control who you were with last and what you did? who cares, unless it directly affect him.
[Edited 9/16/2007 4:35:56 PM]
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9/16/2007 5:17:14 PM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 51
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I'm don't think u have to wait any set period of time, it's up to you when you want to resume ur sex life, for me it will not be till I find the right one, sex isn't as imporant as it is to me to find the man than can make real love to me, not just the come and go kind I want someone who will take the time to find out my likes and dislikes and the patients to know when the right time is to satisfy them
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9/16/2007 5:25:59 PM |
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blknite75
Guilford, ME
age: 32
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honestly does it really matter?if you like the other person it only matters what they think. That's where good communication comes into play. You shouldn't be afraid to talk about it.
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9/16/2007 5:27:42 PM |
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bartoncreek
Austin, TX
age: 51
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Men should change their attitude. They feel they are great by nailing a lady on a first date and consider her easy thereafter. You guys forget that they are human just like you and they might want sex everytime out on a first date. How would you like it if you were concidered unmanly because you screwed a WOMAN on a first date. Its 2007 and a woman has every right you do.
As for joking though: any lady wants to have sex on a first date just call me at 512-693-2---.
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9/23/2007 10:44:09 PM |
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thedoc1
Dixon, MO
age: 56
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come on you all the reason we are her first and formost is we are lonely and we want to
get laid.
Before my wife passed on (my second wife) she had been single and not dated for 13yrs.
Well we had sex on the first date and were married 20 yrs.
and she was always a lady but a lady that liked sex.
Now put the shoe on the other foot how long should a man wait to give it up when he knows you want it and if he does will you think he's a manwh*re?
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9/23/2007 11:11:32 PM |
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fancyface326
Calvert City, KY
age: 33
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I'm not going to lie here.... But I have to say I really don't care what the other guy thinks. If I have sex with someone on the first or second time we have met up. Its because I think he is sexually attractive. And I only sleep with him to find out if he is any good in bed. So that way I don't have to wait and wonder and listen to him bost about how good he is. Then find out......
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