vivrantthing
Jacksonville, FL
age: 32
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I want to be married and have kids in the near future. I meet very great guys whom I have a lot of fun with. The thing is the relationship reaches that plateau where you both know it's only going so far. I am usually able to see this early on but again he is a great guy. Should I cease any further involvement because I know we will not be more than good friends when I am looking for so much more?
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scottiscool
Mayville, WI
age: 49 online now!
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Already sounds like trouble. You are in doubt. That may be A good thing. Please don't jump in. Or give into pressure. Be 100% sure first, and that will take time......good luck.!!
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forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
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Be friends, and keep looking. I wonder, though, is there not a plateau in any relationship after a while? I found great comfort in long term love & marriage, there wasn't the excitement of a new and budding relationship, but personally, I liked it much better.
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vivrantthing
Jacksonville, FL
age: 32
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Thank excellent point. When I think of a plateau I think of leveling off. I am ok in a long term relationship where 2 people are working together to reach life goals. I'm referring to those occasions where you are both good people just not right in a romantic relationship.
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refinedprincess
Westland, MI
age: 34
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You know you better than anyone else and you should follow your instincts especially if they tell he's good enough as a friend. You will know when you find the man for you right away and he will feel the same.
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luvisyou08
Pleasantville, NJ
age: 27
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You know you better than anyone else and you should follow your instincts especially if they tell he's good enough as a friend. You will know when you find the man for you right away and he will feel the same.
i agree that man will find you and luv you in return
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vivrantthing
Jacksonville, FL
age: 32
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I agree so should I end a friendship when it will never be more than that?
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