How long?

9/16/2007 11:24:57 AM	How long?
scndlman Lexington, KY age: 53	good question: have been chatting personally with someone last copuple of days now,, i don't know,,even though i have toiled the idea over and over again in my mind chatting online is not the same as voice to voice,, as well, as it not the same as face to face.. will probably approach the idea soon. but as everything in our relationship, it is a compromise between the two of us. we live about 4 hours apart. [Edited 9/16/2007 11:25:47 AM]
9/16/2007 11:25:09 AM	How long?
ladyfireeyes81 Redwood City, CA age: 26	My vote is to ask him if he wants the number... A lot of people aren't real sure on how to time things when you are talking online, since there is no body language or voice inflections to go off of
9/16/2007 11:26:24 AM	How long?
ronpan Petersburg, IN age: 48	No worries repo. I just honestly have to admit that the phone exchange is still out side my comfort zone at this point. Even instant messaging is pushing it for me sometimes.
9/16/2007 11:28:02 AM	How long?
truegrace Hagerstown, MD age: 51	I like to feel comfortable chatting with the person for a while then if things seem to be ok, I offer the #, after talking is really the best way to know someone, u hear the changes in their voice when a ? is asked something u can't do writing
9/16/2007 11:28:57 AM	How long?
rain_or_shine Columbia, SC age: 44	I only give out my cell, But i just get tired of typing and It doesn't hurt to chat with someone on the phone , it just lets them no that Im the same way on her as in , or on the phone....... Sometimes weeks, then again, could be that night I first IM with them......JMO,,,, Shine [Edited 9/16/2007 11:29:40 AM]
9/16/2007 11:44:22 AM	How long?
bossman777 Fayetteville, NC age: 50	If the attraction is there, you should go to the phone and see where it goes. I did and I have the love of my life 777
9/16/2007 11:45:38 AM	How long?
rain_or_shine Columbia, SC age: 44	Ok get a frigen room, Lol
9/16/2007 2:43:05 PM	How long?
1pinkstar Omaha, NE age: 55	a couple of months, maybe
9/16/2007 3:06:20 PM	How long?
wnd_dragon Morristown, TN age: 28 online now!	I go with my gut... it is usually right. (you know that woman's intuition) Sometimes they ask, and I say no. But I have met one guy (that I hope calls soon!) that I hit it off with rather quickly and gave him my number when he asked nicely.
9/22/2007 6:32:42 AM	How long?
branes51 Clermont, FL age: 56	Unbelieveable. If you met a nice woman/man in the real (not Virtual) world and he/she gave you a phone number, wouldn't you call? The Internet is a way to make contact, not avoid it! I know there have been reports of crazy things happening to people who have met someone online..but think...how many people are on dating sites all over the world?..and there have only been a few reports like that. If we are so afraid to take any kind of chance, then I guess we should go back to riding horses to get around (since thousands of people die in cars every year), unless you're afraid of falling off and ending up like Chris Reeve. Ron, please don't take this as criticism, but I'm 56, a rock n roller still, I jam every weekend. I drive a sports car...fast. I work out in the gym 3 times a week. I'm in better shape now than when I was at 40 and with a lot more energy. Don't let yourself get old, man. Considering how there are so few ways for middle-aged men and women to get together, this Internet dating is a Godsend. Take advantage of it. You meet someone online...get on the phone as soon as SHE is comfortable with the idea. This is just a stepping stone to meeting in the real world. It's shouldn't be a way for us to HIDE from it. I started dating a year after my wife died. I've met some really great women and some really screwed up ones. I've been dumped and dumped on, very recently. But you know what..I'm meeting someone new tomorrow. We chatted by email for a few days, then IM, then phone and now we're going to meet for brunch so that, if we hit it off, we have the rest of the day to be together. It's an old cliche, but from the experiences I've had in the last few years I know it to be true. Life is too short to waste it sitting around worrying that something bad might happen to you. If you open your heart often enough, it will get broken..mine has lots of scars, but it still pumps. I was single 15 years before I met Nikki. We were only together for 9, but knowing what the end would be, 18 months of pain, sorrow, fear, and watching the woman I adored whither away from breast cancer, I'd do it all again. Only this time I would cherish every moment together instead of taking life for granted like we all do. I may never find another love like I had with her, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to stop living or hoping.
9/22/2007 6:43:11 AM	How long?
sweetcj83 Laramie, WY age: 24	If he asks I don't see that is really that horriable to give it out. Is it that hard, if he calls to much, to screen or change #? Give your cell
9/22/2007 6:45:46 AM	How long?
osipsc Chicago, IL age: 53	I would think there's no serious interest - they'd just like to chat.
9/22/2007 7:17:11 AM	How long?
trublu5ft2 Columbia, TN age: 50 online now!	Until you both are ready!
9/22/2007 7:28:24 AM	How long?
osipsc Chicago, IL age: 53	I think the Interenet is a great resource for meeting people. However, many use it as a shield. They don't have to actually meet someone or be honest about who or what they are because the internet can keep them safe from the actual contact. I agree with branes51, if you are interested and have a exchanged a few emails, the next step would be a phone call. (If you're concerned about safety, the pay-as-you go cell phones are a good investment).
9/22/2007 7:37:32 AM	How long?
chucky_t Akron, IN age: 59	Some men are afraid to ask for a phone number because of all the gals complaining about guys asking to quickly. If you feel you are ready to talk on the phone. Give it to him and then the ball is in his court. Like Branes51 said, live life, don't be afraid of it. Take that chance and enjoy it while it is here, because you never know what will happen tomorrow.

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