| 9/25/2008 5:08:53 PM |
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cinci_male
Milford, OH
age: 47
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 Is everyone finding what they are looking for from this site? Does anyone meet up or hang out in a group setting?  
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| 9/28/2008 10:58:42 AM |
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shallwedance121
Cincinnati, OH
age: 52
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for every 50 message I sent out I receive maybe 1 reply . But those few replies seem only to want to email, they do not seem interested to meet.
I have tried [blocked site] dot com and it is also a free site I have met 2 from there in 2 years but they do have occasional group gatherings, in various cities Cinti Dayton Indy. Most of the women and pressumably men on that site seem to be into riding motorcycles
I have paid to belong to some other sites and had similar results
I have belonged to some foreign contact sites and actually flew to their country and around the USA and had better success. I have met Philippine, Vietnamese and Chinese Peruvian Ladies hare in American and in their country. At different times, I dated long distance for a few years with a couple of different ladies then could not make commitment for 1 or the other to move or go farther. Through the years I have learned bits and pieces of 7 languages to try to communicate
It seems that American women really are not particularly interested in meeting.
I do not know why they even post a profile.
I have have months of exchange of emails and even talked on the telephone up to an hour before we were to meet with local Cincinnati women and then they stand me up and no longer communicate. It is like a game for some of them.
I contacted 1 who lives 10 miles from me and she thought that was too far apart.
So if the world depended on Cincinnati / American women to pro-create and sustain life on Earth, Mankind would likely go extinct, they do not truly seem interested in meeting a man.
I did here from some married women, that I met, but that is not what I am looking for. That only lessens my faith in marriage even less than what I already think
I may not be a Great Catch but out of the 1000s of emails and many profiles I have posted I would have thought there might be 1 out there looking for me
I am about to give up.
Here in Cincinnati I have paid the 1000 $ a year for a high class dating service and had
126 first dates in the year,
out of the 126 first dates I had 2 second dates
and 1 date 3 through 7
only for her to make it clear that I was only filling lonely time for her
but that she really was not interested in a relationship with me
The dating service keeps calling and sending me notes that they would like for me to re-join as they supposedly had really good comments about how I was a GREAT Date for those 126 women, interesting, Fun, Respectful. . .
My Best Friend did not Find his 2nd wife until his job moved him to Tennessee. where he tells me that women down there actually like men.
He and I had concluded that Most Cincinnati women do not even seem to like men.
I have mostly concluded that I will likely not ever be married until I retire and move away from this LoveLess area of the world 
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| 9/28/2008 5:52:59 PM |
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imagoodone4sure
Xenia, OH
age: 48
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cinici and dance. Im not too far from you two. Glad to meet you. How's life in the city treatin' you?
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| 9/28/2008 7:12:39 PM |
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little_b1tch
Middletown, OH
age: 30
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well lets see this is the first for me to be on these type of sites. but when i go to y chat and stuff like that i have met people and its turned out well a couple of times but we ended up just staying friends. honestly you just need to bide your time and the right person will come along and it will be great. granting that you will have your bad eggs as well.
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| 9/30/2008 8:24:13 AM |
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cinci_male
Milford, OH
age: 47
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I do understand dance for I've been down that path..................But I've met some fabulous ladies and perhaps they are merely scared. Some have fears for fear of exposing themselves on how they actually live. 
We're all busy and we're not perfect but for some they just need to be honest and open with each or not bother wasting other's time!! I find it this way..............Men and Women are at times on here merely for some private fun time. Some are wanting companionship. Others for friendship and then the rest for the complete package. 
In time for some is to not take all this so serious and sit back and let some make their bad choices and mistakes and if they are intelligent enough, they might swallow their pride and come back to try to open the communication network with someone and take it from there!! 
Who know's who is right for us but then if we don't start out as friends then how can any relationship start out with true exceptance of each?  
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| 9/30/2008 12:21:59 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 43
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Us northern folk from here have been hanging out here and there. Too bad your so far otherwise you'd be hangin' with us too!!
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| 10/2/2008 8:54:59 PM |
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cinci_male
Milford, OH
age: 47
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You right sb .......... I would be hanging out with ya!! I use to go to chat parties some years back and had an absolute blast!
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| 10/4/2008 6:17:12 AM |
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decgal
Fairfield, OH
age: 51
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If you had 126 dates in a year, as you say, have you ever looked at you, not the Cinci ladies? There must have been something that turned them off.
I read your profile. I am not at all trying to be nasty. I'm trying to help.
There is no woman that I know who could ever live up to what you are looking for. Your profile makes it all about you. You talk about all things you like to do, then you say that if she doesn't know how to do these things, you will teach her! Why don't you try meeting someone half way. You do your thing, she does her thing, and then you have some things that you two do together.
If you have had success in oriental woman, that is probably where you should stay. Woman in America are raised differently and basically, hopefully, are raised to be equal, not subserviant, and that is how I read your profile.
Again, please do not take this as being anything other than trying to be helpful.
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| 10/4/2008 6:19:47 AM |
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decgal
Fairfield, OH
age: 51
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Sorry all, my reply was for "ShallWeDance" 
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| 10/5/2008 2:27:56 PM |
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cinci_male
Milford, OH
age: 47
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wooooohooooo.............. at first i wasn't sure dec!!! Now I feel 100% better !!! 
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| 11/2/2008 7:01:24 AM |
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blueeyes4123
Cincinnati, OH
age: 44
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It is hard to meet in group settings unless you take the time to plan one on here and where you are going to meet. Fill in more personal information about yourself so other women can learn more about you. Just walking my dog over the weekend I met a nice man an we met for lunch the following day. You never know till you try.
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