| 9/27/2008 6:04:12 AM |
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stress_test
Eltopia, WA
age: 44 online now!
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I mean all my life, any time I have asked, I always get the run around.
It's like pulling teeth to get an answer from a woman, and even if she
answers, it usually isn't truthful.
It doesn't seem to matter what 'number' you ask either:
Phone number,
Breast size,
Number of sex partners,
Age when they lost their virginity,
Waist size,
Weight.
It just doesn't matter. If you ask a woman about a 'number' she will either act
offended, change the subject or answer dishonestly.
Ask a guy though and he answers without hesitation.
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| 9/27/2008 6:26:19 AM |
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007shark
Crystal River, FL
age: 31 online now!
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The key is to get them to offer the information. If asked, it can be construed as you being analytical.
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| 9/27/2008 6:46:39 AM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 88
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One must ask, *why do you need to know* their numbers, that
you stipulated? This is the perfect answer for people
that ask inappropriate questions, from people they barely know.
Manners, many of us were taught, state that you do not
ask questions that may be offensive to a person of
either gender. That might include the very questions
you posted,*they are offensive to many women*...
please use common sense, and manners...now that you
have been informed.
People will tell you what you need and want to know on their
terms, when they feel comfortable that you should know the
answers, and not sooner.
Interesting user name you have offered up...STRESS TEST...
I will not ask you to explain, as it may offend you, and
I really have no need to know...see the difference???
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| 9/27/2008 6:51:35 AM |
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asl_65
Charles Town, WV
age: 43
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Why do any of these "numbers" mean anything to you?? It seems to me that if you are looking for an "ideal number" rather than a real person, you are going to be alone for a very long time.
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| 9/27/2008 6:52:30 AM |
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_sea__
Maricopa, AZ
age: 55
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I see that ken is at it again.............Sea
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| 9/27/2008 7:02:39 AM |
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justa_gyrrrl
Salem, NH
age: 37
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Phone number,
if I like you enough to let you call me, I'll give it to you.
Breast size,
if you plan on buying me a pretty bra, sure, you can have that. Otherwise, what does the number mean to you? When you fantasize about a woman's breasts, is it "oh, wow, she has a 34B (or 32A or 40FF), that's hot" or is it "I love the way her breasts bounce when she runs". We're women, not math equations.
Number of sex partners,
why, do you keep count? And as long as I'm disease free, it really doesn't matter and is nobody's business but my own. I will not give you the opportunity to judge me based on the number of people I have or have not been with.
Age when they lost their virginity,
Again, why? Is that part of the math equation? Do I have to score above or under a certain total number of points to qualify?
Waist size,
Oh, my girl's so hot, she has a xx inch waist... or .... she looks good in them tight blue jeans. Seriously, I haven't put a tape measure around my waist in ages. We don't buy our pants based on waist size, so we don't need to know the exact measurement.
Weight.
why, what does that mean? Those who know what I weigh don't believe me because of the amount of muscle I have. I am far heavier than I look.
And while we're at it... how many of you men have ever volunteered your penis size without exaggerating a little? And how obnoxious does it sound when a woman asks you how big your d*ck is? All this "how big/how small/how much/how little" stuff is teenage games if you ask me. When you grow up I think you learn it's a lot more about how the whole package fits together, than it is about each individual stat.
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| 9/27/2008 7:08:03 AM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 43
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I will give you the same seven digits for each inquiry... the trick will be that you put them in the proper order for each answer....
still want em?
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| 9/27/2008 7:09:16 AM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 46 online now!
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Sometimes, Stress-test, a lady will call you out.
Se just did.
[Edited 9/27/2008 7:26:18 AM]
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| 9/27/2008 7:33:27 AM |
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chicaboom58
North Bergen, NJ
age: 59 online now!
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Why would it be necessary for you to ask these questions anyway. If that is the only conversation you have to offer well then you will probably, no, definitely not have a second date. How many partners I or my significsnt other as had is of no concern to me or I would hope not to him either. As far as men answering, well first I wouldn't ask. Second it would sound like i was only looking for sex and not anything meaningful. How would you feel if the woman that was with you asked what size is your penis?? How would you feel if she judged you by your answer?? There you go, I do not think I need to say anything else. Everything else well what you see is what you get and if you don't like it, oh well move on. Asking these numbers is rude. JMO
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| 9/27/2008 7:41:24 AM |
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destinyfate
Brainerd, MN
age: 40
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Be careful what you ask for. A male friend of mine gave me this # to use (I never have, but it is rather funny) when I get a persistent someone I'm not interested in. 206-376-9798. It's a rejection recording.
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| 9/27/2008 7:45:37 AM |
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stress_test
Eltopia, WA
age: 44 online now!
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Ok. See this is exactly what I mean!
For women the inquisition of any number is perceived as offensive.
Myself; rather than automatically taking offense and assuming offense was intended, I would have speculated on the scenario or occasion which number might be asked.
I mean look. If I’m at the clothing store and a lady asks my waste size I would most likely answer without hesitation, smile and assume she was either checking out my azz or buying pants for somebody about my size.
On the other hand. If I was at a clothing store with a lady and ask her what size of anything she wears, she would likely either not tell at all or blurt out a number several sizes smaller and return it later for the correct size.
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| 9/27/2008 7:49:56 AM |
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destinyfate
Brainerd, MN
age: 40
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It would be impossible to answer a 'correct' clothing size anyway! One can't even be sure for themselves...different stores, different brands, different styles...they all fit very DIFFERENTLY- and it's very annoying!
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| 9/27/2008 7:53:33 AM |
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pudgie1967
Reynoldsville, PA
age: 41
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if u ask me all woman r stuck up and selfish slutts
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| 9/27/2008 7:56:21 AM |
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destinyfate
Brainerd, MN
age: 40
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Hey, here's an idea... make a post seeing who wants to know and ask you about women being selfish sluts?
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| 9/27/2008 8:01:48 AM |
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annbrown
Ogden, UT
age: 49
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Guess you never asked me 
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