| 10/17/2008 10:42:44 AM |
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catchawave
Salem, VA
age: 57
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Lyrics to an early 60's tune from a movie, I think...
"The Girls watch the Boys
as the Boys watch the Girls
as the Girls go by"...
Fashion has been Dictated by Men (kings), throughout it's History.
Don't get so shook when a woman plays a little game of "Female Frontal Assault" with you, rendering you psychologicly ineffective and in a state of total confusion.
Also, responding to a post on this tread regarding 'Men ignoring a Woman's overtures'.
A woman here, picked right up on this and responded with a scenario in which she would apply this same Technique.
I have told my Women friends time and again... "Want a Man to be Truely Interested"?
"Men Always Want What they Can't Have"!
This is Human Nature. So you Guys don't Flip Out too bad over this statement!
Women are getting Hip to Your Tricks! and adding a Few of Their Own.
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| 10/17/2008 11:35:09 AM |
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dprincess
Concord, NC
age: 48
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scantily dressed woman are usually just confident and have the right to dress anyway they choose. If a man sees it as an invitation to sex, they are the one with the problem.
Unless these women are in the red light district, either enjoy the view without expectations or look away.
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| 10/21/2008 10:20:50 AM |
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stress_test
Northport, WA
age: 46
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scantily dressed woman are usually just confident and have the right to dress anyway they choose. If a man sees it as an invitation to sex, they are the one with the problem.
Unless these women are in the red light district, either enjoy the view without expectations or look away.
Is it that they are more confident or more insecure?
Are they hot and know it and flaunting what they know they have?
Or:
Are they insecure and seeking attention and reassurance?
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| 10/21/2008 10:26:37 AM |
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mel6049
Rockwood, TN
age: 24
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Why is it that women will often dress provocatively in public and then pretend to be offended because guys notice?
We see women wearing a string or thong undies or a loose fitting top with no bra under it, and then they bend over or kneel and expose themselves. But when a guy notices and gets caught the woman will always make an issue of it. I always figured that when a person dresses in such a manner as to attract attention they should be flattered that people notice their efforts and/or assets.
If they don’t expect guys to “peek” when they expose themselves, then why wear clothing that so easily is provocative?
you cant be anymore right...i like to wear low cut shirts because i have a nice rack and men enjoy looking...might as well make their day and mine too.
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| 10/21/2008 2:14:29 PM |
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jessielane
Raleigh, NC
age: 40
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Kinda like when girls kiss girls in public and get offended when asked if they are lesbian..I know..I live both ways!
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| 10/21/2008 10:26:13 PM |
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lookin2cwho
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 54
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they have their pants hanging halfway down to air that out
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| 10/21/2008 10:30:16 PM |
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indoubt
Beaumont, CA
age: 35
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| 10/24/2008 2:31:57 AM |
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dragas
Milwaukee, WI
age: 45
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THIS IS A MESSAGE TO IN DOUBT; YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY THE SENSITIVE TYPE THAT BASES HER REACTIONS NOT ON LOGIC OR THINKING MAYBE THIS COULD BE CONSTRUCTIVE INPUT YOU AUTOMATICALLY REVERT TO A DEFENSIVE MODE. THIS IS A CLASSIC EXAMPLE OF AN APPROACH/AVOIDANCE CONFLICT WHICH YOU WILL LEARN ABOUT AFTER YOUR FRESHMAN YEAR OF COLLEGE. AS YOU PROGRESS IN YOUR FORMAL STUDIES YOU WILL LEARN TO NOT PROJECT YOUR FEELINGS AND OUTSPOKEN BUT LIMITED LIFE EXPERIENCES OUT OF YOUR CLINICAL STUDIES. I KNOW THIS WAS MEAN TO SAY BUT YOU ARE HUNG UP ON HOW PEOPLE TREAT OTHER RACES AND NO MATTER WHAT I SAY YOU'RE RIGHT AND I'M WRONG. THE FIRST THING YOU WILL LEARN IF YOU EVER ARE ACCEPTED TO GRADUATE SCHOOL IS THAT YOU NEED TO LISTEN FIRST (AND NOT SPEW ABOUT HOW PEOPLE ARE RACIST WITHOUT ANY REASON TO BE) AND COME UP WITH A REAL HYPOTHESIS AND H0W TO PROVE YOUR IDEA USING STATISTICAL ANALYSIS. I wish you well just try to temper your defense of race relations. Your fellow students will be more open minded then the average client on this website. I hope you are not too mad at my honesty but you of all people know what you are fixated on. Self-actualization is the first step to becoming a good therapist. Drew
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| 10/24/2008 2:46:19 AM |
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seakats
Palm City, FL
age: 48
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[Edited 10/24/2008 3:00:29 AM ]
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| 10/24/2008 3:05:54 AM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 63
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Never noticed that reaction
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| 10/24/2008 8:14:07 AM |
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stress_test
Northport, WA
age: 46
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If this gal caught a guy checking her out 10 to 1 she would do everything she could to humiliate and embarrass him. But she will go out dressed the same way day after day.
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| 10/24/2008 10:01:31 AM |
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thewizard81
Dallas, TX
age: 29
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 Yep good point...they think it looks cool,but the only thing is that their only fooling themselves when they do that!!!
I agree...it's not even fashionable.
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| 10/24/2008 10:11:24 AM |
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chicaboom58
North Bergen, NJ
age: 61
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Some may do it because they need the attention. Unfortunately they are the first ones to scream HELP if the attention in unwanted. Never understood that. If you have a nice body there are classier ways of showing it off than expose everything you own. JMO
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| 10/24/2008 10:13:26 AM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 45
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that bride looks ridiculous. sorry... what was the woman thinking who sold her the dress? or NOT thinking? sheesh...
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| 10/25/2008 6:43:09 PM |
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stress_test
Northport, WA
age: 46
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Some may do it because they need the attention. Unfortunately they are the first ones to scream HELP if the attention in unwanted. Never understood that. If you have a nice body there are classier ways of showing it off than expose everything you own. JMO
I completely agree.
Playboy magazine is one of them. JJ
I'm not talking about walking around nude or dressed slutty.
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| 10/25/2008 6:57:48 PM |
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bikerangel3
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 56
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Stare its fine as long as you do not cause someone you are with to be upset by looking so long its noticeable to them and those nearby ! Say something loudly or even loud enoough to draw anothers attention Your Bad Manners !
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| 10/25/2008 8:01:40 PM |
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lovelyrider
Pelham, NH
age: 49
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lcl38 you rock. I'm from New England too! Born and raised and lovin the Red Sox no matter what. That comment from Blondeartist59 about women in New England want attention that was pretty rude. There are women from all over the country who are attention wh*res, not just women from New England. I personally have never let anything hang out intentionally. As far as the f me pumps those are sexy not slutty. F me pumps make you feel sexy. Nothing trampy about them. Besides they give a little to the imagination don't they? By the way the OP who started this thread, hmmm! I remember a sexy pic of you with no shirt on. Why are you showing your body off in public? Attention?
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| 10/25/2008 8:11:46 PM |
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johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 58
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I embrace my feminity....... give a rats a** what you men think!
Made me take a look!
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| 10/26/2008 3:16:08 AM |
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stress_test
Northport, WA
age: 46
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Well you know? I wasn't complaining about women dressing sexy or to attract attention, not in any way.
My point is that when they do and attract the attention, they usually become insulting or abusive to those whose attention they capture.
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| 10/26/2008 12:12:42 PM |
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mackenson1987
Upper Darby, PA
age: 20
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In a separate thread The Danimal talked about women receiving unwantedattention from men. However flashing at parties, concerts, and resortsindicates that some segment of women do crave and expect male attention inpublic venues and that they are willing to expose themselves to get it.Problems only seem to arise when these women discover that someone is makingmoney from their exposure. The concept that behavior has consequencesclearly hasn't sunk in with these women, but this does not explain theadvantage of being willing to expose yourself to a crowd.Given the ubiquitous nature of cameras (camera equipped cell phones) andfacial recognition software, it would seem that flashing a crowd is a prettystupid act. So why would a woman do it, unless they crave/expect maleattention.None of my female friends understand the mind of a flasher, any theories?
If it was possible for anyone to fully understand the mind of any
female, we would have heard about it years ago.
One theory is that females have an almost random set of images
flashing through their brains. This passes for thought and it can even
delude the casual observer into believing that a woman is thinking. On
closer observation, he will discover that there is no real coherence.
Men experience a similar sensation as they approach the point of
sleep. The brain skips through vaguely related images as linear
thought is surrendered but the individual fails to realise the
increasing lack of coherence as oblivion takes over.
Women are somewhere on this continuum between mildly irrational
thought and oblivion. It may be caused by continual hormonal
disruptions.
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| 10/26/2008 12:40:22 PM |
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dancin_angel
New Braunfels, TX
age: 24
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i think it is because women like to look pretty not for the guy but for themselves i know i like looking hot we inderstand ur gonna look but not like that hahaha
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| 10/26/2008 12:50:56 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 51
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What a degenerate.
why would you consider her to be a degenerate
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| 10/26/2008 1:16:21 PM |
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leftfooted
West Covina, CA
age: 51
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Quote from leftfooted:why would you consider her to be a degenerate
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Actin like the other females who think it's ok to show off their bodies but hate it when men look.
sounded like she was trying to say that she expects attention but not the type of attention where they think that she is insinuating something other then what she is and the only way would be too ask her not to assume just because she is dressed a certain way,some guys will generalize all women with their appearance just because of past experiences or because their opinion is driven by their desires
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| 10/27/2008 2:00:46 PM |
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stress_test
Northport, WA
age: 46
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What a degenerate.
That wasn't nice and wasn't called for.
If you can't be civil then stay out of my discussion.
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| 10/27/2008 2:31:13 PM |
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rose375
San Marcos, TX
age: 73
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I have always felt that women should dress modestly not provactivly, as men tend to appreciate a nicely dressed female and they like to imagine what is beneath the attire covering that bod....This goes with the guys also..
It is human nature for the opposite sex to lavish a near nude body and not appreciate one that is covered modestly...
Just my humble opinion..
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| 10/27/2008 3:07:00 PM |
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luvinlifetou2
Biddeford, ME
age: 44
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i think it is because women like to look pretty not for the guy but for themselves i know i like looking hot we inderstand ur gonna look but not like that hahaha
I agree dancin_angel....
why is dressing for ourselves...(i.e.)..to make ourself feel good, confident, sexy, ect, a bad thing? Cleavage can be sexy without having your entire RACK hanging out for everyone to see. Sheesh. One mans sexy is another mans prim and proper.
Depends on the man, I think.
I think it only is a problem if the woman does get overly defensive. Some do...I have seen it...Bartending for so many years? MAN have I seen it..LOL.
If you have a set of jugs hanging out and a miniskirt that barely covers your butt?
I will say this seems to be the trend for younger woman...and as tiny as they are? They may be able to pull it off. However? That 17 year old body isnt going to last forever.
Fashion dictating styles...Im going to guess this too...will pass.
Now, I have seen women in outfits like this with about 60 more lbs on them and a set of 40DD's...so yep..and a big fat belly roll adorned with a ruby....arrrrrgh...
Well, yeah...you are going to get comments. Getting defensive at that point? Come ON!
Now...only time I have gotten defensive is when I am dressed attractive, (no not everything hanging out...excessive flesh falling out everywhere..) You wouldnt catch me dead in an outfit like that, but I will dress to emphasis my..*ahem*, assetts..but not to the point of letting them completely SHOW!!!!! So, when a man makes a totally innappropriate comment that is nowhere in line with how I am dressed or how I am carrying myself....and it is just rude? A joke usually defuses the situation, If not?
I would just give them "the look"....
That would be the look that says...."In your dreams, big boy...and my nightmares."
JMO, People!!!!
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| 10/27/2008 3:38:03 PM |
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zeanah
Clarion, PA
age: 51
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I dress to feel comfortable for myself. I dress for my body shape and very aware of what I should and should not show off. However, I do believe a womans feminimity and sexiness comes more from her attitude, than what she is wearing.I prefer to dress classy with a touch of sexiness. You don't have to show everything to be sexy. It can be the way you wear your hair, how you accentuate with sexy high heels, the jewelry you wear, the make up accenting your best features, how you sit, nice nails,how you laugh and talk to others, how you look at men with your eyes and so on.
Yeah yeah...I know you guys like the boobs and legs and azz showing and all, but when it comes right down to it, doesn't the way a woman carries herself impress you more. The little way she flirts with her eyes and talks to you? I can go to a bar and of course I may show a bit of clevage and I know men will look....so that's my problem, not his, but I never had to show alot of skin to get a man interested in me.Then again, it is just my comfort level and how I am preceived that matters to me. I like to keep them guessing. I have had men look at me and undress me with his eyes. The mystique is a turn on to some men. Like...Wonder what's under that blouse or jeans?
I think men like to conquer by nature and that goes with a woman allowing him to see what other men can not. If he gets her to that point of revealing herself while making out, I think that's a turn on when he finally gets to see the prize. In exposing yourself, every man gets it....he has nothing to conquer or have all to himself.
Am I way off base guys? Really...am I wrong in my thinking? Don't beat me up to bad. Maybe I am to old anymore to understand the new age of "turning a man on!"
"Z"  or 
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| 10/27/2008 3:59:37 PM |
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brian1206
Plymouth, PA
age: 50
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I Have One word for you, TEAZE!! they want you to see the product but dare you try and sample any, even by way of visial stimulation.
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| 10/27/2008 5:26:44 PM |
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stress_test
Northport, WA
age: 46
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No I agree completely Z.
But there is a difference in what you are describing and what I am referring to. Well maybe not entirely either.
See if you dress sexy and classy as well it doesn't mean that men don't still look or that they don't appreciate your sexuality. But when they do notice and they do look more often than not women make a scene and embarrass the guys when they catch them admiring their effort to look sexy and attract attention.
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| 10/27/2008 5:57:05 PM |
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luvinlifetou2
Biddeford, ME
age: 44
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No I agree completely Z.
But there is a difference in what you are describing and what I am referring to. Well maybe not entirely either.
See if you dress sexy and classy as well it doesn't mean that men don't still look or that they don't appreciate your sexuality. But when they do notice and they do look more often than not women make a scene and embarrass the guys when they catch them admiring their effort to look sexy and attract attention.
Naww...Stress, I think you are talking about defensive skanky women...the ones with something to prove to the world but a big ole chip on their shoulder.
Not classy ones. Classy women acknowledge your notice with a look or a sly grin. Not a hissy fit. Probably also the ones who rarely ever have to buy themselves a drink because they are sent to them by the bartender...over and over again.
The skanky ones? "Buy me a drink big boy?"...LMAO...
Just to be fair? There's plenty of guys like that too...wearing T-shirts 8 sizes to small, attitude to spare, and the same big ole chip on the shoulder.
I think the best fun is when you watch the two pair up and the drama start... 
She bends over to display the goods...another guy looks...guy number one starts a fight...(she acts all appalled but she is LOVING it...)
Yep...fun time in the ole town tonight! Ahhhhh human beings....add a few drinks in, and the show is on!!!!!!!
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| 10/27/2008 7:11:27 PM |
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jaboone44
Upper Darby, PA
age: 21
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You know what get me, when women are wearing those short tight t-shirts that end just above the belt level, and tries to cover their backside with those short shirts, and then the shirt pops back up to where it was before she pulled on it. What the is the point of doing that. If you got on skank clothes expect to get the attention of a skank.
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| 10/27/2008 7:12:46 PM |
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zeanah
Clarion, PA
age: 51
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Well, I understand what you are referring to Stress and maybe I didn't make my point clear enough, which would not surprise me, I'm kind of tired....lol My point being that women who dress for attention, really do not have to and they wouldn't go through the frustation of men being googly eyed and talking to their chest or worse. If this upsets them, then they have other options and it would not happen. I agree...if I would go out showing alot of my body off in public, then I should not get upset with men looking at me or even coming on to me. A woman has a right to dress however she likes, but she also should expect adversity in a sexual nature at some point. As an adult, a woman should have that figured out and be ready to handle the clamour of sexual advances. Some women are just hot and can pull it off, but they should then do not complain about the attention they get. However, it in no way should give any man an excuse to be blatantly vulgar, rude or touch her in any way. A "look" or "stare" can be flattering to me....that I never mind.....look all you want, just don't be a pig about it.
And....men also dress wrong for their body shapes too. I have seen many men wearing jeans that they can't get up over their bellies and their azz and gut are hanging out from under their shirt. That is just as disgusting. It is not only women who sometimes show more than they should for their body shape and size. It goes both ways.
I'd probably show a tiny bit more if I felt my body was good enough to do so and I in no way would tell anyone how to dress....it is up to the individual. Some are very entertaianing to say the least!
"Z" 
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| 10/28/2008 5:11:35 AM |
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ultra_munchkin
Plant City, FL
age: 24
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Women do it to attract men then want. If a man they don't want looks at them they get offended, because it's not for you, it's for that better looking guy in the corner... that's my hypothesis anyway.
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| 10/28/2008 6:09:13 AM |
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maybaby66
Windsor Locks, CT
age: 44
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well, I thought the girl with her stomach exposed and her belly button pierced was fairly attractive as compared to some things one might see out in public. It's not only girls that try to dress to impress
Funny Pictures & Myspace layouts
 
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| 10/28/2008 6:41:34 AM |
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sweet_n_loving
Elgin, IL
age: 43
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okay how about men exposing themselves in public???? In particular
the ones that go commando and where shorts... so their peckers hang
out the side.... OH MY... so attractive is that.
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| 10/28/2008 3:19:06 PM |
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luvinlifetou2
Biddeford, ME
age: 44
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[quoteheader]Quote from maybaby66:[/quoteheader][quote]well, I thought the girl with her stomach exposed and her belly button pierced was fairly attractive as compared to some things one might see out in public. It's not only girls that try to dress to impress Oh, I agree, May, like I said, its the ones 60 lbs heavier with the same outfit (same size too, LOL) that make me feel like I should throw a coat over their shoulders...
Funny Pictures & Myspace layouts
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| 10/28/2008 3:20:32 PM |
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rose375
San Marcos, TX
age: 73
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Sweet...I thought Texas had everything bigger and better..but your state has men with Long.Peckers ???
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| 10/28/2008 3:27:25 PM |
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rose375
San Marcos, TX
age: 73
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Funny Stuff & Myspace layouts
Do y'all think I should do something about this Cellulite ?
[Edited 10/28/2008 3:27:57 PM ]
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| 10/28/2008 4:31:48 PM |
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luvinlifetou2
Biddeford, ME
age: 44
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Fashion is all about personal choice, then, is what it all comes down to?
Some choices are more fun than others.
And one mans trash is another mans treasure...
Or the more familiar
Baby's got Back!
I guess it really is all about the eye of the beholder,
and the attitude of the...(umm, is there such a word as..) beholden?
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| 10/28/2008 8:31:24 PM |
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sweet_n_loving
Elgin, IL
age: 43
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Sweet...I thought Texas had everything bigger and better..but your state has men with Long.Peckers ???
lol apparently so!
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| 10/31/2008 3:36:03 AM |
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stress_test
Northport, WA
age: 46
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Sweet...I thought Texas had everything bigger and better..but your state has men with Long.Peckers ???
You made me go all the way back through this entire thread to find where somebody had mentioned pecker size.
I found one instance and it was where Luvin mentioned it as a reference.
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| 11/1/2008 8:35:56 AM |
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sweet_n_loving
Elgin, IL
age: 43
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Sorry Stress_Test.... I didn't mean to ruin your thread.
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| 11/1/2008 2:29:54 PM |
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stress_test
Northport, WA
age: 46
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Sorry Stress_Test.... I didn't mean to ruin your thread.
LOL no you didn't ruin my thread.
The childish ones are boycotting my threads these days.
They dislike my topics and the lack of drama so they are boycotting my threads, it's nothing to do with your posts.
I guess I will have to come up with a few more controversial topics to keep things lively on here.
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| 11/1/2008 2:38:14 PM |
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crx1991
Royse City, TX
age: 54
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Excellent post OP.
Now if we could seperate the posters with sense and are sane along with the ones that do not have kids and actually want to date and create an alternate date site, maybe all would be good with on linde dating.
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| 11/1/2008 2:44:16 PM |
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flash1206
Braselton, GA
age: 57
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Cheap,Cheap< Cheap
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