9/18/2007 5:02:19 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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I would not loan him any more money. Since he has not paid back the other. He knows you have a kind heart and he is using that against you. If he needs money, he can do want I am doing right now. Work 2 jobs. Plain and simple. JMO.
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9/18/2007 5:05:58 PM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 51
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help him, you may need his help sometime.
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9/18/2007 5:15:50 PM |
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rain_or_shine
Columbia, SC
age: 44
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Because he wants your f*cking soul, don't let him have that, Thats why he is around....
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9/18/2007 8:12:08 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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Because he can Peaches
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9/18/2007 8:17:28 PM |
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bartoncreek
Austin, TX
age: 51
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Peaches I don't need money. Just a plane ticket to come marry you!
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9/26/2007 6:51:13 PM |
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hydrasport
Baltimore, MD
age: 47
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peaches, for the kids sake try to stay in touch. gotta ask the ? what does he need? i sense that you are a smart gal, let your gut prevail. don't think the heart matters at this point.
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9/26/2007 6:53:42 PM |
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cheygirl
Cheyenne, WY
age: 42
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How did I possibly miss this thread before. PEACHES - TELL HIM TO F*CK OFF! Ok you have the puppy but dont give him one red cent. He certainly hasnt helped you. He needs to figure out his own problems.
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9/26/2007 7:09:02 PM |
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kirota
Webster City, IA
age: 34
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Twin, you have too big of heart. Tell him to sell all the stuff that you gave him when you parted and then he can get his life back on track. JMO
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9/26/2007 7:10:31 PM |
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luvrofgold
Storm Lake, IA
age: 33
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i agree with kirota except if you love the dog....then id take the dog
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9/26/2007 7:12:16 PM |
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lewis69
Temple, TX
age: 38
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Dang Kirota get outta my head. I was just gonna say the same thing. LOL Peaches I had to learn the hard way more than once about helping my ex. They will keep taking if we keep giving.
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9/26/2007 9:02:40 PM |
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wooowoooo
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 39
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why not ask kate_bug for help???     
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9/26/2007 9:16:42 PM |
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craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 39
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My ex called me 3 months after the divorce was final and said he might end up owing $18k on his taxes. His exact words, "I think it's around $18k, but I'm not sure. I'm going to the tax guy now and will call you later to tell you how much I owe so we can split it." WTF!?! The next words outta my mouth were, "Um, you DO know the divorce is final dontcha? Gotta go! Have fun with the tax guy."
The moral of the story....If the divorce is final, it's no longer your 'job' to deal with HIS financial issues.
As far as the puppy goes, I agree with everyone else. If you want a puppy in your life, enjoy the little guy. If not, tell him it's his responsibility to take care of it or explain to your son why he is giving away your son's puppy.
Give him some tough love, sister 
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9/26/2007 9:18:39 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33 online now!
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Damn... didn't read the whole post... sorry!
I wouldn't bail him out. You have yourself to think about first.
[Edited 9/26/2007 9:23:46 PM]
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9/26/2007 9:20:49 PM |
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blueyedsinger
Yuma, AZ
age: 45
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If your ex had a good track record on paying you back I would say go ahead and help him. But since he hasn't paid you back since the last time I wouldn't help him financially again. As for the dog, if it is not a big inconvenience to you then take the dog for your sons sake.
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9/30/2007 4:14:14 PM |
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chicopoet
Chico, CA
age: 44
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Well, Peach, if you like the dog, then help him, this once. Other wise, don't, unless you think you can take the dog with out helping your ex, and then get rid of the dog. What kind of dog is it?
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