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hotcowgirl4u
Martins Ferry, OH
age: 47 online now!
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I have been doing a lot of thinking lately--
I am now scared. I have realized that I want a man to walk into my life, sweep me off my feet and live happily/contently the rest of our lifes. I know I've been watching too many movies. Its a slow process to build the foundation that is needed for a strong and lasting relationship.
I want to be in love, I want to share my life. I want someone to laugh with, I want someone to hold me when I am sad, and vise/versa, I want to cook dinner and not have to sit down alone at the table. I want to look over and see someone looking back, I want to hear how good or bad someone elses day was. I no longer want to hold the pillow when I go to bed.
A friend hugged me not long ago and that is when I realized how much I missed feeling arms around me in a caring manner.
That just opened up a panadora's box for me.
As I said I am now scared. Not to mention impatient.
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| 10/1/2008 1:12:48 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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jimmyroma
Westfield, NJ
age: 37
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No reason for it, you are a very attractive women and you'll find that guy but so many women are shut off to what they are looking for they have a "type" and they won't give another "type" a shot. So be open wear short skirts and it will happen 
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| 10/1/2008 1:17:00 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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srt8mark
Bakersfield, CA
age: 55
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I have been doing a lot of thinking lately--
I am now scared. I have realized that I want a man to walk into my life, sweep me off my feet and live happily/contently the rest of our lifes. I know I've been watching too many movies. Its a slow process to build the foundation that is needed for a strong and lasting relationship.
I want to be in love, I want to share my life. I want someone to laugh with, I want someone to hold me when I am sad, and vise/versa, I want to cook dinner and not have to sit down alone at the table. I want to look over and see someone looking back, I want to hear how good or bad someone elses day was. I no longer want to hold the pillow when I go to bed.
A friend hugged me not long ago and that is when I realized how much I missed feeling arms around me in a caring manner.
That just opened up a panadora's box for me.
As I said I am now scared. Not to mention impatient.
Me too
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| 10/1/2008 1:18:40 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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hotcowgirl4u
Martins Ferry, OH
age: 47 online now!
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No reason for it, you are a very attractive women and you'll find that guy but so many women are shut off to what they are looking for they have a "type" and they won't give another "type" a shot. So be open wear short skirts and it will happen
Hell I'm open, honest, have a great sense of humor, lol usually end up bing 'one of the guys' talking them thru the latest failed relationship lol.
I won't go out with any of them. Don't want to ruin the friendships we have cultivated.
Screw the short skirt thing to get a man. LOL I don'twant one of those kinda man.
That can't see past the body. Had them, they usually are all about well nothing much really.
I'm just feeling extremely lonely today, and have to go to the evening job shortly and just can't stand the thought of being there feelign this way.
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| 10/1/2008 1:19:45 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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not_looking
Sacramento, CA
age: 49 online now!
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 I'm so sorry you are going through this emotion "Fear". We all will have fear in our life one time or another. What counts is how we deal with it. Read your post over to yourself and see, what else you can see there. Maybe you need to go within and do some healing and growth.
Be Strong, my words to you.
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| 10/1/2008 1:20:56 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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justme68
Cleveland, OH
age: 42
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You sound like a very nice woman. I'm sure that you will find the right man who deserves a special lady like you. Smile!!!! Peace.
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| 10/1/2008 1:25:40 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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cajunmister
Kinder, LA
age: 58
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I like the type comment. It does seem true that females want a type of man, not an individual. The type also seems to be based on what they think others may want or be impressed by. JMO To the OP, I think everyone at sometimes feels the empties but with all the obstacles imposed (real and imaginary)I don't know if its worth the effort. Enjoy the sex and love when presented but drift your own way.
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| 10/1/2008 1:27:39 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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irishboi
Dowagiac, MI
age: 39
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hang in there and dont give up on hope just when ya think it's a lost cause someone special might enter your life it may not happen when you want it to ..we all want to find Mr./Ms. right just takes a lil patience thats all ..I hope you find what your lookin for and I understand how you feel
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| 10/1/2008 1:34:02 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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hotcowgirl4u
Martins Ferry, OH
age: 47 online now!
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I'm so sorry you are going through this emotion "Fear". We all will have fear in our life one time or another. What counts is how we deal with it. Read your post over to yourself and see, what else you can see there. Maybe you need to go within and do some healing and growth.
Be Strong, my words to you.
I have spent the last two years working on myself, getting to appreciate the me that is.
I am now ready to have someone in my life. And am afraid that all the work I have done will fall apart. But know that down deep the right person will only enhance the other persons life.
I wouldn't want a person in my life if I didn't think my 'baggage' had been dealt with.
I think that at this point in my life my baggage could now fit in a nice little carry on.
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| 10/1/2008 1:36:25 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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hotcowgirl4u
Martins Ferry, OH
age: 47 online now!
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I like the type comment. It does seem true that females want a type of man, not an individual. The type also seems to be based on what they think others may want or be impressed by. JMO To the OP, I think everyone at sometimes feels the empties but with all the obstacles imposed (real and imaginary)I don't know if its worth the effort. Enjoy the sex and love when presented but drift your own way.
Thats just it, I'm tired of drifting.
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| 10/1/2008 1:37:10 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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chucky_t
Akron, IN
age: 60
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Know you are not alone. Both men and women feel this way sometimes. Not sure of your desires or wants in a relationship. Just be reasonable and don't let this type feelings make you jump into something that could turn so very worry.
What would really suck is if you felt this way while in a marriage.
[Edited 10/1/2008 1:43:36 PM]
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| 10/1/2008 1:38:51 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48
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So be open wear short skirts and it will happen ,,,
the guy started nice with his comment,, but i guess he thought you
were whining about not getting laid...
okay... this is a stage of healing also... all women go through it...
it can be a very lonely stage... and you might go through it back and
forth for a few years...
and the suck part of it... is your at that age 45 to 55... and all our men
at that age... are running out to find their youth...again...
the good news, most do not take too long to find it and their selves again..
and around 55 to 65... they become our men again...
its a cruddy decade to be sure....
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| 10/1/2008 1:42:45 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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chucky_t
Akron, IN
age: 60
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Well in the mean time she could start picking on some of us older men, I am sure most of us would not mind....
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| 10/1/2008 1:42:54 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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cajunmister
Kinder, LA
age: 58
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Thats just it, I'm tired of drifting.
Drifting kinda sucks at times, but what can you do. Try to anchor yourself with puff of smoke(ppl) There is some sort of reason to all this, be kind of interesting to find out what. Peace
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| 10/1/2008 1:45:45 PM |
I'm sacred, empty and lonely |
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hotcowgirl4u
Martins Ferry, OH
age: 47 online now!
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Know you are not alone. Both men and women feel this way sometimes. Not sure of your desires or wants in a relationship. Just be reasonable and don't let this type feelings make you jump into something that could turn so very worry.
What would really suck is if you felt this way while in a marriage.
Thanks yes that is part of the being scared thing. I will not just jump into something out of lonilness to be sure. But hell the being alone just has really grabbed me recently.
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