It ain't premarital sex if you don't plan on gettin married.

Seagate-

Yeah, I suppose I probably phrased that poorly. What I meant was "no different in that the folks here show up fairly randomly as well, so there are no guarantees that you'll even find someone who interests you, much less a match."

And Rckhrd,

I don't think you're alone in your take on things. I don't have a problem with non-married sex and can't imagine waiting until I'm married. Heck, I don't even know if I'll ever get married again and I certainly don't want to be celibate for the next 40 years. That said, for the OP this is something that's important. From her post (and I apologize if I'm misinterpreting), it's not so much a problem that men indicate an interest in sex, but the speed with which they do so. It probably happens to both men and women, but I can only speak for myself. My profile clearly says I'm not interested in hooking up, but I occasionally get approached. I'm forced to assume that someone either didn't read my profile or can't read. LOL. Most of those guys, though, aren't a big problem. I often say, "flattered, but no thanks" and they move on. The really irritating ones are the ones who want to act like they're interested in something more and waste your time with one sentence e-mails back and forth until they finally wear themselves out and go away. I can't tell you the number of times someone has said something like, "I hate internet dating because of all of this answering 'getting to know you' questions back and forth." What do they think I'll say, "oh, well, ok, let's bypass all that and I'll meet you somewhere and we can suck face in the parking lot?" Yeah, ooooo kaaaaaayyy. At least the guy at the bar buys me a few drinks first.

And this rant doesn't refer to ALL guys (Gritz and ROF ), but to fairly few who are so annoying that they stand out and make the rest of you look bad. I think a lot of guys (like you Rckhrd) want to make it clear where they stand--and that's good. For the OP, that means that she's likely to reject you if you want sex prior to marriage. Her choice. For me, I'm likely to reject you if you're ultra-conservative, really skinny, under 35, or don't own a tool box. Doesn't mean that someone might not love a skinny, ultra-conservative, young, non-handy guy . . . but he's not for me. Different strokes . . .
But one of the things that I love about this internet venue is that you aren't quite as distracted by hormones and alcohol and you can be somewhat discerning about who you want to spend time with.