bellinghamster
Bellingham, WA
age: 27
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Im wondering if the mother to be should be politely talked to, and see what it is that she wants family wise for the kid. Some mothers might want to get the father back very badly, while the father might just want to not have any responsibility. and other mothers may be confident enough in themselves to think that they'll be able to raise the child mostly on their own. Realise though, that the mother has every right to change her mind later about in what she wants for the kid. as she gets closer to having a kid, she'll probably have changed her mind a bunch of times, because kids are kids for many years.
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