| 9/30/2007 4:18:36 PM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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chicopoet
Chico, CA
age: 44
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It's easy to give up and hard to get back into the dating scene. I'm still waiting to get back into it. But it's best to hold on to your own values, at least until married.
Then once divorced, you can womanize. Or at least, that's how I see it for myself.
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| 10/6/2007 9:22:44 AM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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klc2000
Columbus, GA
age: 30
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when it happended to my, I sat and brooded over how he could do this. I did this for about 2 or 3 months after he left. But then I picked myself up, dusted off and trying to get into the dating world again. Not as easy as I thought.
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| 10/6/2007 9:25:08 AM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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bambam2hard
Dalhart, TX
age: 26
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tell you the honest to god truth I do not want to be in a seriuos relationship ever again. I feel so sorry for who ever gets with krystal. All I have to say you can talk all the shit you want to but it's totaly different when the doors shut just hope you don't have a chick that grew up in a love hate realationship.
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| 10/6/2007 9:30:44 AM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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meemee86
Duncanville, TX
age: 38
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I can forgive, but not forget, meaning that I forgave him, but I'm not stupid enough to let him do it to me again.
bambam, I read your entire entry... I'm speechless, hope you heal soon.. dont let it eat you up inside.
luv from Meemee
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| 10/6/2007 2:18:05 PM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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shell523
Port Byron, IL
age: 53
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Well I was cheated on after 15 yrs of marriage while still married. Lets see can you say pissed off, mad at the world, hate, sadness, divorce. Depression, man hater, not able to trust anyone and any other negative thing you can think of. So I took him to the cleaners thru the divorce and still hate him for ruining what we had for so long. Now its been 3 years and I am just now getting back into the swing of things ( possibly dating again) Yeah its been rough. But I survived and the girl he was messing around with was also married and still is so he did not get her after all, not that it really matters to me but it did at the time.
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| 10/6/2007 3:09:41 PM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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oldjerseygirl
Morganville, NJ
age: 67
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Remember that the only constant in life is change. We need to respect change in ourselves and in others.
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| 10/6/2007 3:28:05 PM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51
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i will be honest everytime my ex did it i wanted revenge not to sleep with anyone else but i sure whated to do something but the only thing i did was trying to forgive
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| 10/6/2007 3:31:03 PM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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navyhm2soc
Coronado, CA
age: 26
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First figure out if you did anything to drive a person away, then take a look all their issues as well. Move on and learn from it.
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| 10/6/2007 3:32:49 PM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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onlyforyou44
Helena, MT
age: 63
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It happened to me after 32 years with the same person and I thought about doing the same thing. But then after giving it lots of thought i decided that i would be as bad as her, so i kicked her ass too the curb and never looked back. She married the guy she was cheating with and he cheated on her and they divorced. So what go's around come's around  
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| 10/7/2007 12:46:52 AM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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When my ex cheated and then left his family to move in with her, I felt relief, he was a verbal abuser and mind controller..I felt like the world had been taken off my shoulders..
I sent his gf a sympathy card!..funny how the grass doesnt seem so green on the other side of the fence...they tried to kill each other after 3 months and he wanted to come back...NO WAY..once a cheater always a cheater..
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| 10/7/2007 1:04:59 AM |
you deeply love someone, with all you are, they cheat on you, do you |
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mishkabacci
Duncansville, PA
age: 43
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#7 beat the shit out of the dude if it happened in your house and send em off naked... get out of the relationship and give yourself time to heal before moving on... otherwise you will catergorize all the same until you are able to sort out what happened and put it behind you for the next...once a cheat always a cheat...
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