| 10/22/2008 2:26:24 PM |
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joshr12
Phoenix, AZ
age: 19
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I keep meeting flakes, liars, or girls who cannot hold conversations which is just sad. What is with the girls around here >.< Be straight up and say what your thinking or feeling it gets a lot more accomplished..
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| 10/22/2008 7:42:18 PM |
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ghostrider419
Casa Grande, AZ
age: 48
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Bro, you're young. You will learn soon enough. There is a lady out there for you but you have to search long and hard. Be patient and she will be there.
Advice from an older guy on a dating site...Take it for what it's worth..
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| 10/22/2008 8:09:24 PM |
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rexnine
Mesa, AZ
age: 42
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I agree with you. Most of the women I have tried to engage with on this site Are TOTAL Flakes. Especially the AZ women. And I'll tell you Why. Its because they know they are Carrying more BAggage than a normal guy can handle.
they don't really want to meet anyone...they just want to reaffirm their Idea that all men suck. I'm so sick of the Arizona girls on this site I'm going shopping out of town!
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| 10/23/2008 1:45:27 AM |
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onlyforyou22
Chandler, AZ
age: 20
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Bud here is what you gotta remember:
1. Interesting, attractive, fun girls 97.9% of the time will never consider or think about using a dating site. They already have guys who want to date them which is why you have to get out there in person, meet them and try then prove your a great guy to want to be with. Displaying confidence and strong personality traits can be very appealing to females.
2. Any descently attractive female does not need the help of a dating site to find a guy. It's not rocket science to understand that.
3. The girls you will meet of this site will generally never look attractive and properly will be boring to speak to for obvious reasons...
Bottom line is there are millions of girls out there. Just keep your head high, and continue making attempts on girls you think might be interesting. If your not failing 80% of the time to be successfull 20% of the time then your not trying.
Just keep the dating site open as a type of lottery ticket that you just might find 1 girl who is cool and fun to be with however I would'nt even waste time using this thing or any dating site unless your old and don't get out much.
Being young you should always get out and find them girls.
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| 10/23/2008 11:48:15 AM |
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dumbluck69
Queen Creek, AZ
age: 45
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If you do not have family or friends around to help you out: List what you like to do the most: Motorcycles, Football, Rugby etc.. Then start going to events. Hopefully get linked up with before or after events where you people with your interests. I do not recommend work for your huntin grounds. Old saying "you should not crap where you eat". I know alot of folks do but it usually ends very very badly
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| 10/24/2008 1:03:00 AM |
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perfectcell1718
Mesa, AZ
age: 27
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Hey man. My name is Paul and I feel it's appropriate to at least introduce myself before I say what I have to say. I've had NO PROBLEMS at all meeting really good people on this site. I think it's wonderful when someone or a group of people get together to create a FREE site for people to get together on. It's trial and error brother. Don't give up just because it doesn't happen over night. This dating thing takes patience if you truly want to find a really good woman for you. Every man is the same way regardless of age... we want it now. The truth of the matter is... the more patience you exhibit, the better the outcome will be. Your preference in women will change several times in the up coming years, take it a day at a time and see what truly makes you happy. I will say that there are PLENTY of good women on this site though. You just have to keep your eyes open brother...
[Edited 10/24/2008 1:05:19 AM]
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| 10/24/2008 1:11:37 AM |
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biker_ninja
Phoenix, AZ
age: 33
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^^^^^^
Listen to this man. I could not have said it better myself. Here take some of mine, I got plenty. 
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| 10/24/2008 1:20:48 AM |
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perfectcell1718
Mesa, AZ
age: 27
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^^^^^^
Listen to this man. I could not have said it better myself. Here take some of mine, I got plenty.
Thanks Bicker_ninja! He needs the help!
[Edited 10/24/2008 1:21:39 AM]
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| 10/25/2008 12:20:43 AM |
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beachmermaid50
Chandler, AZ
age: 52
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My life has had some twists and turns making me rather interesting. Creative writing is something i enjoy and employ it when communicating with men, however, I rarely get results. If I ever showed anyone all the men i have written to, they would be shocked. There have been a couple of men from this site, but things did not work out as their realities were a bit different from what they said. Perhaps men seek a younger, thinner, more asthetically attractive lady? Hard to say. But if a gentleman was wise enough to be open minded and accept a gal who is rubenesque, over fifty (but with the libido of a 30 yr old), confident, educated and incredibly sensual, they would be able to savor the treasure that I am.
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| 11/11/2008 5:22:11 PM |
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love2live1998
Phoenix, AZ
age: 52
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I t really does suck to meet someone. I met someone and I really liked this person. She read something I said in the forum and now does not want to talk to me.
I was not fair and i think she is judging me way to harshly.
I felt like she was perfect bu t I guess not. Well that is the way it goes I guess.
The other thing. I decided to act like I do not have any money. Once someone finds out that I make alot of Money. I like to live below my means so it does not appear that I do make close to 1/2 mil a year they are so nice and get to me. Once they do that It become a way to use me that is all it is.
that way i meet someone who likes me for who I am not for what I can give them
thanks
JEff
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