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Forums: Dating General Discussion: would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?
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10/25/2008 11:49:39 PM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

trixie222
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 45

 i don't know about the rest of you, but i find it creepy when a guy messages me and doesn't have a picture. then to make the situation worse, they come up with lame excuses as to why they don't have a photo. i find it even creepier, that they want to "get to know me." i'm suppose to let some faceless entity "get to know me?" uh, i don't think so. mama didn't raise no fool.

in my opinion any guy that messages me, and doesn't have his photo posted freely on his profile,

a) more than likely has something to hide

b) is not an honest person

c) is married, or otherwise involved with someone else, and doesn't want to get busted.

d) all of the above, and maybe even things i haven't thought of in my paranoid/delusional state. heh

guys, i know, people say you look like brad pitt, tyson beckford, jabba the hutt etc., but give us a break and post your picture. if you date us, well eventually find out you're lyin', cheatin', old dead beatin' two timin' etc., and tell your significant other all about it.


trixie
10/25/2008 11:53:24 PM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

sedonaphotofan
Sedona, AZ
age: 44 online now!

 This has been a sore topic since i have been here.

I get a lot of winks and emails for people without pix. On the women side they have there reasons and I have heard them all. I would not take someone serious unless I saw a picture. just me, you are probably going to start world war 10 here so good luck

karl in Sedona I am a photographer so I do understand
10/25/2008 11:55:31 PM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

kaseylt
Henderson, NV
age: 38 online now!

 no picture, no dice!
10/25/2008 11:56:31 PM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

trixie222
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 45
Quote from sedonaphotofan:
This has been a sore topic since i have been here.

you are probably going to start world war 10 here so good luck


woohoo! nothing like controversy to get the old blood pumping. i say, "BRING IT!" *puts up fists, and ducks* heh
10/26/2008 12:03:17 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

heybear
North York, ON
age: 43

 Some people are just shy and don't feel comfortable putting their picture up.
10/26/2008 12:03:55 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

mst73
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 35

 I agree with all of the above...

I do not respond to people who do not have a pic.

I do not respond to "winks". If I like what I see, I'll let you know!

I do not respond to one liners. "Hey, how are you?"

I do not respond and will never, ever, call you when there has never been any communication but there is a phone number included. In fact, I will not call anyone. If asked after communication, I may provide number, but I will not call simply because a number has been provided.

I do not respond to obvious copied and pasted messages.

I do not respond to messages with people presenting their "dating" or "life history" resume... again, obvioulsy a very generic message.

My profile is *very* short and sweet and anyone that says "I like your sense of humor, your outlook on life" is simply throwing their generic message out there.

I mean, COME ON!

10/26/2008 12:11:11 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

theshadow_
Beaver, UT
age: 38

 I just don't see the point what so ever. I mean how can you call it dating in the first place when you never met? and even then. Attraction is the number one thing in meeting somone and no one can deny that. So, i'm looking at what happens when and if you deside to meet and your not attracted to them. What then?
10/26/2008 12:15:32 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

trixie222
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 45
Quote from heybear:
Some people are just shy and don't feel comfortable putting their picture up.


heybear, you certainly are being congenial, and generous. i agree "some" people might be shy.

trixie
10/26/2008 12:18:20 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

trixie222
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 45
Quote from theshadow_:
So, i'm looking at what happens when and if you deside to meet and your not attracted to them. What then?


hey theshadow,

i will tell you what happens, you go to the bathroom of the restaurant you are hopefully in, then you pray for a window, you climb out, run like the hounds of hell are on your butt, and never come back.

trixie
10/26/2008 12:27:44 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

sundancer2624
Bayfield, CO
age: 57

 Just wondering,,,,, but of all the possibilities you listed Trixie....Wouldnt that very same type of person post a phoney picture? The true problem is that when we make judgements about people the impact of words only supplies between 7-10% of the information we use. True, a picture does increase those odds a bit, but we are all struggling under a system that is terribly lacking in the information we need to determine what a "good" match will amount too.



[Edited 10/26/2008 12:36:25 AM]
10/26/2008 12:32:08 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

heybear
North York, ON
age: 43

 I agree.
10/26/2008 12:34:02 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

mst73
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 35

 my pics are *REAL*

10/26/2008 12:44:33 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

sundancer2624
Bayfield, CO
age: 57

 Even if the pictures are true and accurate, and the profile is right on, we still have problems. We are dealing with limited info, and the human brain does not like unknowns. We instinctually fill in the blanks using past experience as the guide. That unfortunatly presents a warped impression of the person we are trying to understand. Talk about having all sorts of confusion and contridictions!!!!! We build this fantasy person structured around a few limited facts. Gee now wonder whomever we try to connect with doesnt live up to what we imagined they were. Give me 10 minutes with a real person and It would be so much more productive than 10 days trying to determine who they are online!!!!!!
10/26/2008 12:48:46 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

sparks60
Marion, OH
age: 60

 I've had women "swear" their pics were recent only to meet and find out they have gained 40 pounds or aged significantly - all in a big hurry.
10/26/2008 12:50:25 AM would you date someone who's picture you've never seen before?  

mst73
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 35
Quote from sundancer2624:
Even if the pictures are true and accurate, and the profile is right on, we still have problems. We are dealing with limited info, and the human brain does not like unknowns. We instinctually fill in the blanks using past experience as the guide. That unfortunatly presents a warped impression of the person we are trying to understand. Talk about having all sorts of confusion and contridictions!!!!! We build this fantasy person structured around a few limited facts. Gee now wonder whomever we try to connect with doesnt live up to what we imagined they were. Give me 10 minutes with a real person and It would be so much more productive than 10 days trying to determine who they are online!!!!!!


exfreakingactly! that's why i have a few *real* pics and few words. i can fill my profile with so many things that i think you want to hear, that i think would make me more appealing but hey, if you are interested, let's talk.

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