11/4/2008 6:10:24 AM |
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mickie123
Rochester, NH
age: 55
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What can you say to the "Other Woman' to make her realize the damage that she has done to you and your partner. This one seems to be getting her kicks out of the fact that she has him wrapped around her little finger.. I want her to feel low and dirty for what she has done.
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11/4/2008 8:34:35 AM |
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babef
Londonderry, NH
age: 33
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You can't say anything... It just doesn't work. You just have to believe in Karma
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11/4/2008 12:06:12 PM |
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mickie123
Rochester, NH
age: 55
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how is one supposed to believe in karma when all you want to do is to cause her to hurt like you're hurting
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11/4/2008 4:01:20 PM |
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snappie1
Portsmouth, NH
age: 58
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Mickie...unfortunately it does take 2....the other woman does not act alone here...your "partner" has to take half the responsibility...can't you see that?? She may have enticed him but he wanted to be enticed...thinking it's always greener on the other side...you will only make yourself look worse if you say anything to her..and come out the "bad guy"...you are hurt right now..but hopefully in the future you will see that you are much better off without the "cheater"...so pick yourself up, put on a smile, and go on with your life with dignity...it sounds hard to do now..but it will begin to feel normal again and you will be the better person..take care and good luck. Oh..and just remember..every dog does have it's day....sooner or later...
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12/24/2008 3:55:08 PM |
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brian1022
Merrimack, NH
age: 26
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sorry to agree hun, but the other woman is much less to blame then the guy. The "other woman" is single...you're boyfriend is not. It takes two and its hard to blame the one you love. I hope you find a good man, a real man...one who will always be true to you and will always turn down or ignore other offers because he will only see you and will be oblivious to any other women.
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1/5/2009 12:11:00 AM |
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k_tothe_c
Las Vegas, NV
age: 39
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haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!
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1/17/2009 1:43:46 AM |
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nhjewelrylady
Lebanon, NH
age: 55
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Sometimes "the other woman" only becomes "the other woman" by being in the right place at the right time......why do I say that????? When a very unhappy and unproductive marriage is in lots of trouble and a divorce is on the horizon.....and you haven't even met each other yet.......that's when there is a very good possiblity that the wife's trash that she threw out the door onto the street to become homeless and disenchanted with life can take a drastic turn. Or vise versa.
The old saying of "one person's trash can always become someone elses treasure" happens to be very very true at times. At least "the other woman" in this case never knew either the man or woman involved previously in nearly a year long struggle to deal with the backlash of 14 years of a marriage going nowhere but downhill into possible domestic violence, depression and chaos.
There are wonderful good people going through some tough times because they're just unwilling to go to a family counsel center or to another resourse center for the help they may need. Before the best of a relationship is forever lost "to that "other" person whether they be male or female" search by asking family, friends or a professional person for the help you may need to at least salvage in a dignified manner the best pieces of a relationship. Whether your willing to try and save that relationship or willing or need to let go of that relationship to start life over once again without the partner you thought you'd spend the rest of your years with. Everyone's life is just to darn short then to live it in a negitive, unhappy and unproductive way.......even if you have to live life alone for a long time......it's way better than living in a possible dangerous unhappy lifestyle.
Yup.......I just might be "the other woman". But not for long.......someday I pray to be "THE WOMAN" that loves and appreciates and validates a wonderful loving man that makes me feel loved and wanted because I knew a "good man" when I saw one.
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1/18/2009 11:51:08 AM |
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clounder
Swanzey, NH
age: 23
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just be youer seif and tell her what you like to do for fun
there is some one out there for every one
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2/19/2009 2:01:36 PM |
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wyndrider
Alstead, NH
age: 37
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Honestly leave the guy because once he cheats he will do it again and again and again. I know this from personal experience. He will tell you anything you want to hear but he will do it again.
Also, he probably didnt tell this girl he was in a relationship or if he did that he "doesnt get it at home", " she never wants sex", ive heard it all.
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