| 10/5/2007 2:07:58 AM |
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 47
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Wrong,....I married her out of guilt.
Right,....2 of the sweetest kids you would ever have the pleasure to meet.
Repeat? Nope. I want to be as passionate about my love as she is about me and not feel like I HAVE to do something because it's the next step.
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| 10/5/2007 2:57:56 AM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 52 online now!
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wrong: I gave him all the power
right: I was the best mother I could be to his daughter
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| 10/5/2007 4:46:41 AM |
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shlras66
Holiday, FL
age: 42
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wrong: forgave too many times and stayed way too long and stopped working on myself to help him
right: honored my committmentuntil I couldnt anymore and made the decision to leave and followed through
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| 10/5/2007 4:52:14 AM |
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steak_king
Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 50
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Wrong- Let anger get the best of me should've got the big D in 1995! Kids were too young to think about it.
Right- Good Dad, still am!
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| 10/5/2007 5:03:44 AM |
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angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 35
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wrong.. loved too fast and forgave too many times... right..everything repeat.. never
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| 10/5/2007 5:19:27 AM |
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newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 43
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Wrong - Refusing to acknowledge it was a losing battle and lost my identity in the process.
Right - Sticking to my convictions and showing my children that the correct path isn't necessarily the easiest.
Repeat - Hell no, if the relationship isn't a true partnership I don't need it or want it.
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| 10/5/2007 5:38:27 AM |
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eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
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wrong- I got lazy, insecure, withdrawn and took drugs
right- completely devoted, loving, passionate, 100% loyal & dependable
repeat- I'll try NOT to fall madly in love, I'm no longer withdrawn, still insecure (aren't we all?) and HATE all druggies and drug dealers
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| 10/5/2007 6:14:30 AM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
age: 28
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wrong-i was always with my animals and not her, she knew she was second place, and i was always leavin
right-i raised her kids and they are great! i am the only daddy they know and they still love me to death! [even though i tortured the shit out of them]
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| 10/5/2007 6:24:28 AM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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wrong: got married way too young (thought I was in love)
right: was the best wife I could be I gave it my all.
repeat: yes i would but im older now and have learned alot, and now i know the difference between love and lust.
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| 10/5/2007 6:43:52 AM |
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scndlman
Lexington, KY
age: 34
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wrong...married her so we could by a house..
Right...fell madly in love with her over the years...
do it again..absolutely yes...but would keep a better eye on the neighbors..and her relationships with them
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| 10/5/2007 7:46:29 AM |
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nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 58
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Wrong: married to young to fast..stayed in a verbally abusive marriage
yes...women are not the only victims..
Right: discovered my true self/self worth..4 wonderful children
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| 10/5/2007 8:01:49 AM |
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wildgypsy
Bellevue, WA
age: 45
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Wrong - allowed myself to be intimidated with threats of violence into saying "I do".
Right - packed the kid and took off the very first time there was any sign of violence around the baby. For some reason, it was automatic to stand up for my kid more so than myself.
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| 10/5/2007 8:14:37 AM |
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wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51
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wrong got married way to young 16 forgave to much and never got over any of it didnt really forgive right have two great kids 4grandkids and am starting a life for me
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| 10/5/2007 8:19:04 AM |
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wanttodance
Big Rapids, MI
age: 51
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i would like to add its so nice to see a man admit he did anything wrong. there are real men out there yesssssssssssssssss
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| 10/5/2007 8:23:19 AM |
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britbrit
Gloucester, MA
age: 22
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wrong-supported his ass the whole relationship, got prego 8 months into our relationship and then again 3 months after I had my first daughter
right- Fought to keep it together til I just didnt have the energy anymore (atleast I can say that I gave it the best I had) and was always there for him even through the worst of times and still am....no matter what he will still always hold a place in my heart because he gave me 2 beautiful little girls!
repeat.. absolutely not, wasted to much of my time on him when he put nothing into the relationship
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