
uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 35
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Food for thought.
Over the last year I've come to the opinion that even if the first date does'nt go well, go for the second date, because you might just find something good that you missed the first time..
I can understand calling it quits if the person you are meeting is not who they claimed to be, or if something is awfuly wrong.. But to call it quits because there's "no sparks" or you "did'nt click" on the first date might be somewhat foolish.. People get nervous.. They get quiet.. Maybe they don't feel quite up to par that day.. Sometimes the words don't come out right.. Could be any one of a million things that can subdue that "spark" from showing through...
About a year ago, I almost passed someone up after the first date because there was'nt a spark for me... Going on the second date proved to be one of the best decisions I ever made.. While it's true that we are not together today (I can't give ya'll a reason why she dropped me without so much as a word), but I can definately say that for one of the very few times in my life I found that I had started feeling something deep for someone..
My advice to all of you.. Go for the second date, or even more if you're not 100% sure.. You might have missed something good the first time around..
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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That would work if the date was local
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