| 11/16/2008 8:56:00 AM |
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dchoyt82
Rumford, ME
age: 26
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I have been on a couple of dating sites for almost 2 yrs now and have only met 1 woman I have had quite a few offers but am not really into online dating, the funny thing is I met this woman after talking for 2 days, she drove an hr and a half to my place to watch a movie I bought us some wine and treated her kindly, she was more into this white water rafting home video than me, and I didnt say anything but it annoyed the heck out of me, especially considering this woman was acting all into me before meeting and thought I was sweet funny and Hot, and based on people that know me Im told I look even better in person and I dont usually have a problem with my looks, however I kissed her and she allowed it for about 20 mins or so and didnt try to stop me or anything and than afterwards shes like.. "Im just not physically drawn to you" Im not gonna lie it hurt really bad and kinda made me self conscience for about 2 hrs and I got over it...what hurts more is that I had a red flag pop into mind about meeting her, because she said she didnt like kids, said she didnt have feelings, and she wasnt exactly Diane Lane in the looks department, yet acted like I wasnt good enough...I can always look back at situations like this and realize it is just a learning experience but theres no doubt it never feels good when you feel inadequate to someone else...
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| 11/16/2008 9:33:31 AM |
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nolybam
Barrie, ON
age: 41
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I have been on a couple of dating sites for almost 2 yrs now and have only met 1 woman I have had quite a few offers but am not really into online dating, the funny thing is I met this woman after talking for 2 days, she drove an hr and a half to my place to watch a movie I bought us some wine and treated her kindly, she was more into this white water rafting home video than me, and I didnt say anything but it annoyed the heck out of me, especially considering this woman was acting all into me before meeting and thought I was sweet funny and Hot, and based on people that know me Im told I look even better in person and I dont usually have a problem with my looks, however I kissed her and she allowed it for about 20 mins or so and didnt try to stop me or anything and than afterwards shes like.. "Im just not physically drawn to you" Im not gonna lie it hurt really bad and kinda made me self conscience for about 2 hrs and I got over it...what hurts more is that I had a red flag pop into mind about meeting her, because she said she didnt like kids, said she didnt have feelings, and she wasnt exactly Diane Lane in the looks department, yet acted like I wasnt good enough...I can always look back at situations like this and realize it is just a learning experience but theres no doubt it never feels good when you feel inadequate to someone else...
wow...there's something to be said for class. Obviously she was lacking in that area, sounds like a real aggressive one.
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| 11/16/2008 12:40:15 PM |
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magtag
East York, ON
age: 42
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Sounds like she didn't know what she wanted or liked. Honestly, if I wasn't physically drawn to someone I certainly wouldn't be kissing them for 20 minutes! 
Glad you only felt bad for a short time. Sometimes you really have to understand that it is NOT you, but the other person who is messed up. Good luck with the next one!
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| 11/16/2008 12:45:05 PM |
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nooneinnocent
Indianapolis, IN
age: 29
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Most people want to be liked by others, and when you're rejected by someone that you like it hurts, but good to know that you didn't let it beat you down. Don't feel inadequite to someone just because one of the two of you didn't click.
Maybe she thought you were the most amazing kisser in the world, and didn't want to chance getting attached to you. Usually if she thinks you're a bad kisser, she stops it long before 20 min.
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| 11/16/2008 3:35:16 PM |
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iaminohio
Euclid, OH
age: 57
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...she said she didnt like kids, said she didnt have feelings, and she wasnt exactly Diane Lane in the looks department, yet acted like I wasnt good enough...I can always look back at situations like this and realize it is just a learning experience but theres no doubt it never feels good when you feel inadequate to someone else...
I hope this was a good learning experience for you, as far as making dating choices go. Next time you'll no doubt pay attention to the subtle clues like if your next prospective date says that something to the effect of not having feelings, I think that this a big red flag, but of course, it's easy to think in hindsight.
This was just one of those experiences that most of us single people more or less go through. Don't dwell on it. Move on, and good luck. 
Oh and make sure that you are ready for the internet dating if you're on this site.
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| 11/20/2008 8:25:29 AM |
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wolfi
Albuquerque, NM
age: 43
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She drove 1 1/2 hours for some free wine?
What a ditz.....
She coulda just told some other (closer) guy he was 'hot'......
Look at the bright side - you actually met a real person.
From an online site.
1 in 2 years is about average.
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| 11/21/2008 4:22:51 AM |
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ucrazyasme
Naperville, IL
age: 26
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That's some weird shit. Although if it wouldn't have phased you she would probably continue. She was probably WAY into you and scared of it, so she sabotaged it.
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| 11/21/2008 4:32:44 AM |
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seakats
Palm City, FL
age: 46
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I have been on a couple of dating sites for almost 2 yrs now and have only met 1 woman I have had quite a few offers but am not really into online dating, the funny thing is I met this woman after talking for 2 days, she drove an hr and a half to my place to watch a movie I bought us some wine and treated her kindly, she was more into this white water rafting home video than me, and I didnt say anything but it annoyed the heck out of me, especially considering this woman was acting all into me before meeting and thought I was sweet funny and Hot, and based on people that know me Im told I look even better in person and I dont usually have a problem with my looks, however I kissed her and she allowed it for about 20 mins or so and didnt try to stop me or anything and than afterwards shes like.. "Im just not physically drawn to you" Im not gonna lie it hurt really bad and kinda made me self conscience for about 2 hrs and I got over it...what hurts more is that I had a red flag pop into mind about meeting her, because she said she didnt like kids, said she didnt have feelings, and she wasnt exactly Diane Lane in the looks department, yet acted like I wasnt good enough...I can always look back at situations like this and realize it is just a learning experience but theres no doubt it never feels good when you feel inadequate to someone else...
this stuff goes on all the time; you are just brave enough to come on and talk about it.
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| 11/21/2008 5:51:34 PM |
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clingersme
Los Angeles, CA
age: 44
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Was she ARIES HMM..
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| 11/21/2008 8:56:34 PM |
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blueeyedblondy1
Ocala, FL
age: 18
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its good it only bothered you for a short period of time..
she was probably scared of getting close to you.
& actually dating you..
after all im sure she wouldnt have drove all the way out there if she wasnt physically attracted to you.. i may sound shallow, but looks do count.
if she wasnt intrested in you..
She would have stopped you in the first couple seconds of you kissing her.
You dont want that.
You need a women that knows what she wants.
just learn from it.
so you know there are some screwed up women out there.
just be careful next time..
we seem sweet, but there is not 1 of us that is a complete angel.
we all have our moments.
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| 11/22/2008 3:29:28 PM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
age: 57
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Maybe, She had some intimacy issues that flashed back on her while in a "real situation" It is so much easier to be brave and safe behind a screen or on a phone. Yes sometimes women are commitmentaphobic. I have had the urge to run away at times and had nothing to do with the company.
[Edited 11/22/2008 3:30:15 PM]
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| 11/28/2008 1:47:00 PM |
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palehoney
Jacksonville, FL
age: 29
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she thought you were hot, drove all that way but then wasn't really physically into you and made out for 20 mins?
can you say cuckoo? the problem is not with YOU but with that crazy ditz!
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| 11/28/2008 5:01:17 PM |
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dchoyt82
Rumford, ME
age: 26
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she thought you were hot, drove all that way but then wasn't really physically into you and made out for 20 mins?
can you say cuckoo? the problem is not with YOU but with that crazy ditz!
I can see if she didnt think i was attractive before meeting me but she was goin coocoo for me...lol
and Ive been told I only look better in person..anyways Im so over this woman now anyways she missed out her loss...thanks for all the support
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| 11/29/2008 12:15:08 AM |
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casinodualrate
Gulfport, MS
age: 34
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Dont sweat it man.... Ill f**k ya!
LMFAO! Im not gay.... just sounded funny when i thought it! Wow! I really should learn to not say everythign i think!
Anyhoo, women are nuts... you havent figured that out yet? If it has a vagina, it has the potential to be effin crazy!
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| 11/29/2008 12:16:00 AM |
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casinodualrate
Gulfport, MS
age: 34
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WOW! Im goign to catch alot of hell for that comment!
DISCLAIMER: It was a joke..... please dont flood me with e mails about how im sexist, and an a**hole! It was meant to be a joke!
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