11/29/2008 12:20:02 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
age: 33
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Totally her loss. Your a cutie and I'd eat you up and kiss you all over
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11/29/2008 10:19:08 AM |
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palehoney
Jacksonville, FL
age: 29
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I can see if she didnt think i was attractive before meeting me but she was goin coocoo for me...lol
and Ive been told I only look better in person..anyways Im so over this woman now anyways she missed out her loss...thanks for all the support
hunna hubba!
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11/29/2008 7:59:25 PM |
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cherrycola
Western Australia
Australia
age: 42
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I have been on a couple of dating sites for almost 2 yrs now and have only met 1 woman I have had quite a few offers but am not really into online dating, the funny thing is I met this woman after talking for 2 days, she drove an hr and a half to my place to watch a movie I bought us some wine and treated her kindly, she was more into this white water rafting home video than me, and I didnt say anything but it annoyed the heck out of me, especially considering this woman was acting all into me before meeting and thought I was sweet funny and Hot, and based on people that know me Im told I look even better in person and I dont usually have a problem with my looks, however I kissed her and she allowed it for about 20 mins or so and didnt try to stop me or anything and than afterwards shes like.. "Im just not physically drawn to you" Im not gonna lie it hurt really bad and kinda made me self conscience for about 2 hrs and I got over it...what hurts more is that I had a red flag pop into mind about meeting her, because she said she didnt like kids, said she didnt have feelings, and she wasnt exactly Diane Lane in the looks department, yet acted like I wasnt good enough...I can always look back at situations like this and realize it is just a learning experience but theres no doubt it never feels good when you feel inadequate to someone else...
Sweet.....All I can say is she must have preferred women because you are hot.
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11/30/2008 6:29:21 AM |
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coolioh
Louisville, KY
age: 60
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It sounds like she had a gut feeling that you would dump her in the future and decided to hurt you before you could hurt her.
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11/30/2008 5:53:07 PM |
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xangel_kissesx
Chandler, AZ
age: 33
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so she told you she doesnt have feelings...wow sounds like some of the guys i have met LOL....they should hook up....aww hun im sorry you had bad luck but like i tell others you arent alone it happens to all of us...and if you werent like a million miles away from me heck id go on a date with you. Hang in there k.
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12/1/2008 7:38:55 AM |
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gtojudge
Dearborn, MI
age: 40
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When a women without maternal instinct's tell's me she doesn't
like kid's or animal's as far as that goes, it is a complete turn
off for me and red flag's galore.
She will end up a miserable spinster with 500 cat's.
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12/1/2008 7:39:51 AM |
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gtojudge
Dearborn, MI
age: 40
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When a women without maternal instinct's tell's me she doesn't
like kid's or animal's as far as that goes, it is a complete turn
off for me and red flag's galore.
She will end up a miserable spinster with 500 cat's.
omit the 500 cat's
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12/4/2008 8:55:27 PM |
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rochellerochell
Myersville, MD
age: 51
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Why would this story make me want to hang myself?
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12/8/2008 10:33:05 AM |
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sierratoo
Grande Prairie, AB
age: 54
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... wait a sec. One can email back and forth and on a computer you sound totally ok. If I were to actually meet a guy in person, I would not jump right into bed with him. I don't think I am being too prudish either. Getting to know someone in cyberspace is different from actually meeting them in real life.....
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12/9/2008 4:39:16 PM |
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krissyblueyes
Queensland
Australia
age: 24
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I think she drove 1 1/2 hours to watch a movie with you, there was obviously some good intentions there.
I think she just said what she said as an excuse to hide something else... Maybe there was someone else in her life at the time. It's hard to think of the person your with, when you're thinking of someone else.
I checked out your profile, and there aint nothing wrong with your looks matey.
I think on dating sites, for every 100 people you meet, maybe 1 is worth a date and that doesnt mean relationship either.
However, maybe the movie at home date should have been left to about the 6th or 7th date. It would be very intimidating to have a first date at a mans' home for obvious reasons.
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12/12/2008 4:38:57 PM |
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wolfkeeper
Hamilton, MI
age: 47
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... wait a sec. One can email back and forth and on a computer you sound totally ok. If I were to actually meet a guy in person, I would not jump right into bed with him. I don't think I am being too prudish either. Getting to know someone in cyberspace is different from actually meeting them in real life.....
Very true, Sierra.
now to the OP:
The whole making out for 20 minutes was just plain crazy. I don't have to kiss someone to know that I am not attracted to them. However, it happens. I've met men, they are awesome in text, but in reality there is just nothing there. Still, I always let a guy know if I am not romantically interested in them in a polite manner. I would expect the same honesty in return. It's all about being a adult. Life is too short to go around hurting one another.
..and hun? It's too short to waste even 2 minutes on a person like that.. let alone 2 hours. Good luck to you.
Edited for Krissy... many good points there too. Be safe girls!
[Edited 12/12/2008 4:41:02 PM]
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12/14/2008 5:29:56 AM |
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pythagora
Albany, NY
age: 45
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Casino you are too funny!! Got that problem too, just 'cause I think it doesn't mean I have to say it Ya just have to keep a sense of humor about the dating thing!! There are a lot of effin crazy people out there but it does keep it interesting.
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