| 10/11/2007 6:14:54 PM |
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kentuckygent
Askvoll
Norway
age: 28
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i miss the caressing hair the most that put me to sleep
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| 10/11/2007 6:15:03 PM |
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kenj45159
New Vienna, OH
age: 48 online now!
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There's nothing wrong with the way you feel. I haven't been in a relationship for some time, and I miss the skin to skin contact also.
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| 10/11/2007 6:16:09 PM |
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craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 39
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I know single parents have it tough, and I'm not commenting on that, but one thing they should be thankful for is those wonderful little kid hugs. I don't have kids, work in a management role, and don't have anyone special in my life. You don't realize how important something as simple as touch can be until it's gone.
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| 10/11/2007 6:16:49 PM |
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Askvoll
Norway
age: 28
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i know what you mean blu not the sexual touch just the carring touch
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| 10/11/2007 6:20:31 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51 online now!
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No I'm not talking sexual either. Just the closeness. The good feeling from it.
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| 10/11/2007 6:20:53 PM |
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tj1free
Storm Lake, IA
age: 36
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yes i do and it is because the part of me misses the feeling of being close to someone and feeling there skin touching yours some it is the feeling of security and for me it is the feeling of just being wanted
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| 10/11/2007 6:22:13 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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Its just plain human contact ky.. I mean.. I don't even have to know the person who is brushing up against me. It's just like Crafty described the boy handing her something. Just that simple touch that brings a warmth and chill.. but not in a sexual way.
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| 10/11/2007 6:24:46 PM |
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stingflower
North Arlington, NJ
age: 47
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Oh my....How important is a Hugh...a kiss without not a reason...
making contact with a warm skin..in time to bed...sleeping feeling that warm..
Where are you...love of my life..I can't find you...????....
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| 10/11/2007 6:25:44 PM |
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ylekiot
Carson City, NV
age: 51
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For sure. It can be it's own form of intimacy. It's not always about getting on, getting off, and getting out. I'd be thrilled to just have someone I cared about to hold hands with. (then get on, in, out) 
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| 10/11/2007 6:26:20 PM |
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craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 39
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Good point, TJ. I was just discussing this with my sister the other day. I told her sometimes it gets frustrating because people at work talk to me when they want something from me and people out in public just ask me questions about my dog and move on. I don't often have conversations where I feel like the other person is interested in who I am as a person. Not complaining, it's just how my life is at the moment. The important thing to remember, I think, is that life is constantly changing. Just because some things aren't perfect today doesn't mean we can't make changes so tomorrow will be different.
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| 10/11/2007 6:40:20 PM |
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nopretense
Harleysville, PA
age: 47
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I totally "get" what you all are saying. I am a very touchy kinda guy. I am lucky that I have my kids--even though they are teenagers, I must've done something right, because I still get hugs even when friends are around.
For some of you who really have no huggers in your life...consider volunteering somewhere, where hugs are received and returned. I think of special olympics, children's hospital, ... not sure, I bet there are lots of places where YOUR warmth and compassion would be welcomed, and you might just get hugs in return.
By the way....I do give free hugs to any and everybody who wants them, so feel free to contact me about how to claim yours.
[Edited 10/11/2007 6:41:23 PM]
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| 10/11/2007 6:41:29 PM |
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craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 39
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That's a great idea!
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| 10/11/2007 6:43:06 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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my 21 yr old and 30 yr old son still gives me huge hugs when I see them and I love it! But.. still.. it's not quite the same is it?
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| 10/11/2007 6:47:21 PM |
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lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
age: 50
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in china they stand on a corner with a sign that says free hugs.maybe try that here.
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| 10/11/2007 6:49:57 PM |
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craftygirl002
Tacoma, WA
age: 39
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The cops in my town are a little too strict for that...
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