| 11/29/2008 12:01:44 AM |
Should you date your wife's (or husband's) cousin? |
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kehinde
Mira Loma, CA
52, joined Mar. 2008
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If your wife (or husband) passed away and your wife's (or husband's) cousin shows an interest in you and you sensed a chemistry between the two of you. Should you date her (or him)?    
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| 11/29/2008 12:04:40 AM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
40, joined Oct. 2008
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Hmmm scary. How do you think your spouse would feel about it? Also might want to see how the family would feel.
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| 11/29/2008 12:07:26 AM |
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
55, joined May. 2006
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In days of long ago if your spouse died then it was expected of you to marry his or her relative.
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| 11/29/2008 12:19:29 AM |
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trucker13
Bear Creek, AL
60, joined Jul. 2007
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 had that to happen in my family
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| 11/29/2008 12:20:27 AM |
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steven030463
Newton Falls, OH
52, joined Nov. 2008
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No, For me thats still a reason to have to see my ex and I don't want that. I've seen enough of her when we were married. OUCH!
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| 11/29/2008 7:39:36 AM |
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optimystk
Fort Mohave, AZ
54, joined Feb. 2008
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having actually read the question
And being a widower myself.
It took me a couple of years to even consider finding someone new
As long as the Bloodlines are seperate there should be no problem
However, only you would know if there would be family drama with this
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| 11/29/2008 8:05:56 AM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
58, joined Jul. 2008
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there are too many men to choose from these days to resort to that!
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| 11/29/2008 9:03:52 AM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
46, joined Feb. 2007
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It is not something I could do, but that is just me. That being said, I dated my ex-husband's cousin by marriage for 6 months before I started dating my ex-husband. lol And believe me family gatherings were uncomfortable at times. I will never forget the first time the cousin showed up at my house for a party, it was not a good thing for me.
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| 11/29/2008 10:52:03 AM |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
54, joined Mar. 2008
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well if he/she is dead (spouse), i see no reason why not,
did you get the family assets?, is this the way the family
is going to get them back?
watch out for ulterior motives..
advice go slowly...
and maybe put a recorder on, when leaving the room
and he/she makes a call... to see who they are talking to.
just to make sure all on the level.
if so...
might be another good one...
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| 11/29/2008 11:05:11 AM |
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google_mark
Houston, TX
42, joined Jun. 2008
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If she wasn't already married, I would even date her sister. What??? Some good things run in the family... I mean if we get along and there is chemistry between us, why not?
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| 11/29/2008 11:08:41 AM |
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palehoney
Jacksonville, FL
35, joined Oct. 2008
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icky!
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| 11/29/2008 11:16:58 AM |
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google_mark
Houston, TX
42, joined Jun. 2008
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Just being honest. I guess I should mention that it's her half sister. They had different mothers.
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| 11/29/2008 11:25:00 AM |
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blueeyebeau
Denver, CO
43, joined Oct. 2008
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If she wasn't already married, I would even date her sister. What??? Some good things run in the family... I mean if we get along and there is chemistry between us, why not?
Whooa dude Your starting to talk like an OKIE, Just dont do it or we'll have to ship you off to OKIE's Place in tulsa.
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| 11/29/2008 2:58:51 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
54, joined Jul. 2007
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If your spouse has passed away, the cousin is really not related to you so I don't see why not.
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| 11/29/2008 3:43:30 PM |
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cherrycola
Western Australia
Australia
49, joined Mar. 2008
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MMMmm....is this a serious question?
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| 11/29/2008 3:48:03 PM |
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samstillalways
Sonoma, CA
42, joined Oct. 2008
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hillbilly talk I tell you
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| 11/29/2008 4:02:07 PM |
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lisajo
Louisville, KY
55, joined Mar. 2008
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Happened in my family. My sister passed away at 45 and her husband married a cousin. I would not have had such a problem but it was much to soon. Less than 14 months. It is very hard on the children at home as well. Of course, that is soon for it to be any one.
Things are not good and no matter how hard you try the hurt comes out a bit. But I love my nieces and nephews so I try to not think on it too much. Family gatherings were very uncomfortable but now she chooses not to come. She would be welcome of course burt it is her choice. Makes it hard on everyone.
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| 11/29/2008 5:10:45 PM |
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dare2dream100
Springfield, MO
51, joined Nov. 2008
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I couldn't do it unless I had never met the person and didn't realize it until I was already involved. If I knew them when I was married NEVER! My uncle passed away and his wife married (maybe just lived with) his brother. They were both very good people and everyone in the family excepted it.
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| 11/29/2008 5:12:01 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
37, joined Aug. 2008
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Hmmm scary. How do you think your spouse would feel about it? Also might want to see how the family would feel.
hes dead...the dead dont talk or even care...wtf
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| 11/29/2008 5:25:59 PM |
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optimystk
Fort Mohave, AZ
54, joined Feb. 2008
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well if he/she is dead (spouse), i see no reason why not,
did you get the family assets?, is this the way the family
is going to get them back?
watch out for ulterior motives..
advice go slowly...
and maybe put a recorder on, when leaving the room
and he/she makes a call... to see who they are talking to.
just to make sure all on the level.
if so...
might be another good one...
this one always thinks about cash first and foremost
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| 11/29/2008 5:27:17 PM |
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bamadixiegal
Guntersville, AL
45, joined Oct. 2007
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heck no!!!
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| 11/29/2008 5:39:41 PM |
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mike22304
Alexandria, VA
50, joined Jul. 2008
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Of course! You have history and tradition.
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| 11/29/2008 5:51:55 PM |
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samstillalways
Sonoma, CA
42, joined Oct. 2008
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I wasn't very good at history
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| 11/29/2008 5:53:00 PM |
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in_doubtalishis
Beaumont, CA
40, joined Oct. 2008
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Isn't it Royal to keep in in the families anyways?
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| 11/30/2008 9:05:50 AM |
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trucker13
Bear Creek, AL
60, joined Jul. 2007
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dating relatives?hmm sounds like a funny way to keep IT in the family to me!!!!!!
too many men to pick from? where are all the women that say that must not be around here!!!
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| 11/30/2008 9:11:09 AM |
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lawn_dawg
Middleburg, FL
45, joined Nov. 2007
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Someone should start a post on taboos.
How far removed is the cousin, first cousin, second cousin....
I think third cousins are open game in most cultures.
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| 11/30/2008 11:07:07 AM |
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monaj40
Binghamton, NY
46, joined Sep. 2008
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I don't see anything wrong with that....whats wrong with trying to keep it in the family.
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