| 12/6/2008 5:45:55 PM |
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roxskis
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 27
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don't assume anything one way or another. people act and react differently than we may think they ought to. if you both agree to meet up then do it. it's alot of wasted energy to try and figure someone out.
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| 12/6/2008 5:48:08 PM |
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oburi
Norfolk, VA
age: 18
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You gotta look at it tho if ur scared then tell her i mean whats the worst thing that can happen. I have problem meeting new ppl also cuz im tired of getting hurt so ask if shes scared and if she says yes then tell not to worry cuz u are too. and im telling u if shes just scared then letting her knw u are to will make it much better, but now if shes hiding something ask her and promise not to get mad or upset cuz females dont handle it well and it might be the possiblity that she is hiding something and she doesnt knw how u'll react and maybe thats why shes acting wierd about it all.
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| 12/6/2008 5:48:52 PM |
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lovelyrider
Pelham, NH
age: 47
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I do like him and enjoy his company but all we have ever done is go out to eat. What is the problem with watching a movie together??????? I'm so confusd. He says he likes spending time with me but at 7pm he says "well thanks for going" WHATEVER!!!!!!!
Are you the OP here?
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| 12/6/2008 5:56:03 PM |
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pythagora
Albany, NY
age: 45
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I look at it as though they might have had negative experiences and
(maybe) they just need a bit of coaxing??::brickwall:
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| 12/6/2008 6:02:32 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!
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my experience is most of the time its a waste of time.sometimes you're just something to fill their time.sometimes even if ya meet they wont be honest about it.its called the backburner
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| 12/6/2008 6:07:52 PM |
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tryagaindj68
Evansville, IN
age: 40
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I do like him and enjoy his company but all we have ever done is go out to eat. What is the problem with watching a movie together??????? I'm so confusd. He says he likes spending time with me but at 7pm he says "well thanks for going" WHATEVER!!!!!!!
The best way to find out what's up is to ask him. He'll either have a good answer, or you will. ((hugs))
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| 12/6/2008 10:16:22 PM |
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carthun18
Saint Paul, MN
age: 28
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Its just that why is it every time i meet some one that i enjoy talking to and would like to see where it goes it ends up like this. the run around game.
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| 12/6/2008 10:24:34 PM |
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hogandeb
Richmond, KY
age: 43
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Maybe it's just coincidence. I once talked with a guy for a while and planned to meet him. I cancelled on him three times but he hung in there and waited. (My dad was very sick and almost died). I wasn't playing games but he had no way of knowing that for sure.
Just be honest with her and let her know how she is making you feel.
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| 12/7/2008 3:38:10 AM |
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optimystk
Fort Mohave, AZ
age: 48
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move her to the maybe zone
and keep looking
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| 12/7/2008 3:44:35 AM |
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mike22304
Alexandria, VA
age: 62
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Why would they say they want to meet you if they are not interested? Stop reading between the lines.
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| 12/7/2008 8:23:31 PM |
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carthun18
Saint Paul, MN
age: 28
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thats what i am wondering every time they say that they are going to try and hook up i dont hear from them. It just seems weird that they would say that and not call or answer.
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| 12/7/2008 8:46:19 PM |
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dreamer1907
Vermilion, OH
age: 23
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anyone who acts like they don't wanna hang with you isn't worth your time move on to someone new and better sweetie...
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| 12/7/2008 8:52:48 PM |
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lawn_dawg
Middleburg, FL
age: 39
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They may or may not want to get together with you. That's the easy part of all this. The underlying problem is more important. You are already having communication problems. Those can kill a great relationship or prolong a bad one. Do not waste anymore time trying to figure out what is going on. Ask directly, or just drop it and move on.
You'll regret sidestepping and walking on eggshells on later on.
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| 12/7/2008 8:57:23 PM |
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carthun18
Saint Paul, MN
age: 28
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anyone who acts like they don't wanna hang with you isn't worth your time move on to someone new and better sweetie...
i agree with you to a point, i mean we just met about two weeks ago and we talk on the phone so i can understand why she would be a little nervous to meet. its just the no call on the days that we try to meet up and not answering is what throws me off
i really do enjoy talking with her and i think she one of coolest people i have met n a long time, thats why i am so confused
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| 12/7/2008 9:05:16 PM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
age: 38 online now!
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hey to the OP. ive read some of your other posts on threads and responses and u seem like a pretty nice guy, pretty grounded. i can tell by how u talk and carry yourself.
personally something sounds fishy or weird for lack of a better term. u have been talking for 2 wks on the phone and there is NO reason why she shouldn't be responding to u in a punctual manner concerning when u guys r supposed to go out and have set up plans. u r at the next step w/her trying to meet up w/her and if she's not being responsive, something is up. so i would just be upfront and ask her what is the deal, r we dating or not. and see wut kind of response u get. i think u shud be able to fig out if she's giving u a runaround, something to hide or if its a valid reason, then she needs to "woman" up and tell you upfront so that u can move forward. if i am understanding your dilemma correctly...
and if its not a valid reason and she continues to make u wait, then i think u need to say bye-bye, dont have time for this....
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